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Topic: Why did Her and I stop talking?
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 15, 2016 08:31 PM
Wanted to know why me and this lady accomplice stopped talking to each other. There were feelings but everything ended abruptly..can someone explain? She always used to come across unclear to me when she would try to talk to me, even when we tried to maintain friendshipI would like to know.. 1) Why she stopped talking to me 2) What were her feelings towards me 3) What did she see me as Her initials are FF IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 3650 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 15, 2016 08:59 PM
Would you like to exchange?I can do 1 and 2. IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 649 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 15, 2016 09:00 PM
1. Because she was at a loss. She didn't know what to do with the relationship, she felt that was about it and she knew she had to take the decision of ending it. Le's say for her there was no more to get from it, there was no point in maintaining the connection. (2 of swords)2. She was not sure about her feelings towards you. You could have seemed unattainable to her and she didn't know what to expect. Probably she felt foolish for putting interest in something like it. (The Moon) 3. She saw you as someone who was not clear. Someone who just shut himself up and held from the truth. Someone who isn't too honest. (7 of swords) Sorry but I just wrote what I think it was. I don't know if I was right so I would appreciate some feedback. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 15, 2016 09:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: Would you like to exchange?I can do 1 and 2.
Ok sure IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 15, 2016 09:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sikanda: 1. Because she was at a loss. She didn't know what to do with the relationship, she felt that was about it and she knew she had to take the decision of ending it. Le's say for her there was no more to get from it, there was no point in maintaining the connection. (2 of swords)2. She was not sure about her feelings towards you. You could have seemed unattainable to her and she didn't know what to expect. Probably she felt foolish for putting interest in something like it. (The Moon) 3. She saw you as someone who was not clear. Someone who just shut himself up and held from the truth. Someone who isn't too honest. (7 of swords) Sorry but I just wrote what I think it was. I don't know if I was right so I would appreciate some feedback.
Seemed pretty spot on! Especially 1 and 2. Number 3 is what irks me because there was a time someone spread false rumors about me and she ran with it. They said i was only out to "play her" when i never was. I wanted to show her that the person was wrong but it seemed like she wouldn't give me the chance to explain myself to her. So if she felt like i wasn't being honest or suspicious, i felt like i never really had the chance to explain myself..Even after constantly reaching out to her. Eventually I would stop trying, and when we would talk again sometime in the future I would just let it go and not even bother bringing it up..maybe that was my fault.. Thank you!!! IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 649 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 16, 2016 10:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: Seemed pretty spot on! Especially 1 and 2. Number 3 is what irks me because there was a time someone spread false rumors about me and she ran with it. They said i was only out to "play her" when i never was. I wanted to show her that the person was wrong but it seemed like she wouldn't give me the chance to explain myself to her. So if she felt like i wasn't being honest or suspicious, i felt like i never really had the chance to explain myself..Even after constantly reaching out to her. Eventually I would stop trying, and when we would talk again sometime in the future I would just let it go and not even bother bringing it up..maybe that was my fault..Thank you!!!
You're welcome. I am happy that I was spot on, even though it was not a very nice situation... You cannot prove your point to her if she is not willing or prepared to listen. I think what you should do right now is to learn your lesson, give thanks that it happened and let go. IP: Logged |