posted May 22, 2016 03:32 PM            

1.can you describe the guy I'm going to marry one day's physical looks and personality and anything else?

2. R's thoughts/feelings towards me?

3. D.m's thoughts feelings ?

posted May 22, 2016 07:59 PM            

I will use tarot and leno (only been reading leno a few days so still learning).

posted May 23, 2016 05:29 AM            

Will start by asking a question, lol. Would you say you were an air-type female (assuming you're female) like Gemini/Aquarius/Libra or someone who tends to think a lot? And would DM be a gentleman who is sort of sensitive (well more than other guys at least). Like a soft-spoken person. I think he likes you and feels happy around you. And maybe that is mutual? Like happy feelings between the two of you for each other.
(Q of Swords, 9 cups, Knight of Cups).
Update: I drew a clarifier and got 3 of swords. Is he your ex and has the relationship ended? This is usually a negative card so I'm wondering what it means because it doesn't quite match before. Or maybe it means you're worried because you think this relationship is going to fail.

posted May 23, 2016 05:37 AM            

I'm not sure if R is a gent who you're interested in. If he is, then it seems that you may like this person but you're seemingly not interested or playing hard to get. Do you feel energised by R? Am wondering if R thinks you're a bit lofty or something. With regards to R, he might be possibly immature in some sense. Maybe plays intellectual games, hard to pin down, keeps dashing around sort of thing. Also I get the feeling that someone else is involved in this triangle. It seems to be that on the surface, both of you would seem to be complementary however in practice, it doesn't quite connect. Not that it's unfriendly or anything, you could work really well together and bring new things into reality, but it's not emotional or deep or anything like that.
(Emperor, 3 Disks, Knight Swords)

posted May 23, 2016 07:06 AM            

Leno: Tower, Fox, also Stork but not as strong.
Supposedly this means a superior (boss?) and he is red-headed/flirty or both.
I'm not sure about looks but in my mind's eye it's someone with wavy light coloured hair. Tower I think means he is tall. I'm thinking someone like a young Richard Branson. Maybe he travels a lot (Stork) or you will meet each other in that context.

The tarot deck I use has astrological symbols on it which makes this quite appropriate.
Tarot: 2 of Wands - Mars in Aries/6 of Wands - Jupiter in Leo/2 Swords - Moon in Libra. 7 of Swords as extra card - Moon in Aquarius

I'm getting a LOT of wands and swords here. So he's a very outgoing, confident, active in your face type of person, not a shrinking violet by any means. Very masculine, probably alpha male (sort of). He's a man of action and I think you'll be drawn to him by his energy. He's creative and optimistic, likely generous type. Probably quite clever too. I think he's really good at his work. Something like a businessman, he has those qualities. He likes charming, attractive, intelligent ladies and he'll be drawn to your Libran qualities (I really hope you have Libra/Aquarius prominent or my theory is gone to ****). He's not going to sit in the background quietly admiring you, he's going to make a bee line for you and get your attention right away. Not the sort of guy who lets grass grow under his feet.

I'm musing - he could be a manager or superior or similar, maybe a travelling executive? He approaches you kind of thing, you hit it off, you get along really well like a house on fire. Your airy qualities stoke his fire, he's even more energetic around you, there's lots of talking, lots of jokes, repartee and friendly banter kind of thing. You might become known as a power couple. I'm picturing you as a clever gracious intellectual kind of person, possibly rather elegant (my imagination is running riot here lol).

I really hope you're not going to say, well I'm a sensitive quiet earth water person wearing hemp clothes and like quiet sensitive dudes because then my theory is completely shot to pieces! Lol.

Does any of this resonate at all? I suppose that if this doesn't sound right, then what you could always do is think about what you want in a guy (this is so important) and make a list of everything that is 1) necessary 2) desirable but not necessary and see what you come up with. Rather than thinking about this 'faceless' guy, maybe take a more active stance and think, right, this is important to me, this not so much.
Am I making sense? Just that your first question sounded a bit passive to me. I'm guessing you're very young? Hope that doesn't come across as an insult.

posted May 23, 2016 07:41 PM            

I'm a Pisces with aquarious rising but I'm sassy, fiery as **** and I hate quiet boring guys..probably why I'm having man issues always love the ******* .

R was my manager at my job that closed down last year... For over a year he's been coming around...we hang out..have sex when things get to looking like it's time to take the next step he disappears like ghost....doesn't answer at all.. I tried to shut him out but whenever I block him out I can't turn a corner in the city of Boston without seeing him in the weirdest ways...we're so connected and I sat around for so long waiting for him to come around d sorta focused too much on him and missing out on a lot..every time he would appear I wouldn't even say anything about him disappearing each time in fear of that pushing him away he's 38 and immature AF

is he seeing someone who is it

posted May 23, 2016 09:41 PM            

I hope you're ditching that loser R? He sounds like a player. I felt sad when I read about what you went through. When I saw the 3 of disks I thought it was a triangle representing someone else. It does refer to work also in that you met through work. If it's not someone then it's something, like he is thinking of a lot of other matters that distract him. I was wondering if it was drugs or financial matters. Anyway to me it looks like there's no future with this guy and I think he's treating you badly and just using you. Are you good at setting boundaries? Maybe you will have to set clearer ones, don't let yourself be treated so badly. You've wasted enough of your time on him. Are your other man issues also possibly due to unclear boundaries?

posted May 24, 2016 01:20 AM            

It's good you are standing up more for yourself. I have to keep practising this as well.