posted July 18, 2016 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Enneline,
Yes, you're absolutely right about the ex husband - I had a terrible marriage. And have tried forgiving him knowing that would otherwise be to my detriment (used lots of forgiveness exercises). But even though we communicate amicably about our children, I still feel offended by the sight of him.

So, I'm wondering what would be a sign that I have forgiven him. Like being in his company?

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I only can speak for myself but i know that i have forgiven someone absolutely, if i don't hate that person any longer AND when i look back and realize that that situation has become indifferent for me

posted July 18, 2016 02:35 PM            

I think you`re right. It surely sounded quite dramatic. But then again, losing someone you trusted and considered a true friend, would hurt me considerably too.

posted July 18, 2016 02:36 PM            

Jupiter in the 3rd
I know you're an aspiring writer so if you want to progress with your idea(s), this is the time to start!

Mars in the 5th
Increased desire to express your creative side and particiapte in activities that bring you joy, feeling the spirit of entrepreneurship. A helpful presence considering the other planet travelling that house…

Saturn in the 5th
Unfortunately, you're likely to have moments of feeling blocked and overly self-critical re your creativity if you go for something now, on the other hand there's a high chance something will come to fruition if you don’t give up. I think the sextile to your Merc-Jupiter would give you a nice push and the conjunction to Neptune would bring satisfying results (but not necessarily the final victory). What you need to do first and foremost is discern between what is trully possibile for you in this area and let the rest go even if it's painful. I think the square to your nSaturn emphasises it. There may be not as much romance in your life as you’d want it but you’ll have the opportunity to do some introspection regarding what you really want (DSC ruler). Since Saturn is a heavy, endurance-seeking guy, you may become more serious in this area.

Pluto in the 6th quare Pluto - it will happen again and since your Pluto is in the 3rd and rules the 5th, I think something big will happen regarding the writing thing. I can see you go through an emotional low which will either make you abandon this dream or transform your approach. Other than that a wall of painful memories and thoughts could hit you and force you to Deal with them. It could affect your health negatively (6th house) but you could be grateful for this purging once the storm passes.

Neptune in the 8th opposite Saturn
It looks like confusion to me, questioning what is real and what is not. Re-evaulating your values maybe since Saturn is in the 2nd. You could start approaching life (including the opposite sex – the DSC, and sex itself – 8th house) in a more Neptunian way. Become more sensitive and fragile (the trine to your IC ruler would suport it). Perhaps you’ll feel that the way you’ve been making money lately hasn’t been good on your emotional well-being and you’ll consider focusing on something else, something much more inspiring and non-mundane.

tUranus in the 10th square Sun
You may gain the courage to go a new route work wise even if it’s something riskier than what you’re used to. It could be the expression of your unusual side, something that adds to your feeling of freedom, possibly an online business where you’re completely self-employed. Uranus will square your Sun (2HR) and your ASC which I think will suport your self-expression through work. You might also have some interesting epiphanies about yourself, the „I’m weirder than I thought” kind.

posted July 18, 2016 02:44 PM            

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I still think that the things he did to me were really bad but i don't feel any pain any more when i think about it

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posted July 18, 2016 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Enneline,

I think you`re right. It surely sounded quite dramatic. But then again, losing someone you trusted and considered a true friend, would hurt me considerably too.

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posted July 18, 2016 03:10 PM            

Actually he posted that hours after his lunar return, and that happened just a day before the Fullmoon falling onto his Venus-Juno-opposition.

posted July 18, 2016 03:11 PM            

natal to progressions

pSun trine Moon - hm, maybe you'll experience this by feeling your yin and yang as balanced and lacking struggles between what you want and what you need. This is also the last call to motivate your fire reservoir to fiercly get what you want or do some wild, silly stuff because in less than a year the Sun will enter Virgo...

...like your pMoon did recently. It could be somewhat confusing and uncomfortable for a while, after all it was in Leo not a long time ago and you have a fire Moon natally. If you let this energy do its work, you should become more introspective, more focused on self-improvement, more rational and cautious. The conjunction to Saturn will probably intensify this process. Good luck.

In transits to progressions I don't see anything special. tSun, Mercury and Venus will touch your Leo-Virgo planets in a short period of time and you may find yourself temporarily charged with their energies.

posted July 18, 2016 03:43 PM            

Jupiter in the 3rd
I know you're an aspiring writer so if you want to progress with your idea(s), this is the time to start!
-> good news. And i am to start again after a pause....writing blockade

Mars in the 5th
Increased desire to express your creative side and particiapte in activities that bring you joy, feeling the spirit of entrepreneurship. A helpful presence considering the other planet travelling that house…

Saturn in the 5th
Unfortunately, you're likely to have moments of feeling blocked and overly self-critical re your creativity if you go for something now, on the other hand there's a high chance something will come to fruition if you don’t give up. I think the sextile to your Merc-Jupiter would give you a nice push and the conjunction to Neptune would bring satisfying results (but not necessarily the final victory). What you need to do first and foremost is discern between what is trully possibile for you in this area and let the rest go even if it's painful. I think the square to your nSaturn emphasises it. There may be not as much romance in your life as you’d want it but you’ll have the opportunity to do some introspection regarding what you really want (DSC ruler). Since Saturn is a heavy, endurance-seeking guy, you may become more serious in this area.
-> wow, that is spot on. I am glad that Mars is in there, that provides drive and energy and i like mars since it's the ruler of both my moon and mc.
I hope Saturn gives me more structure and stability rather than writing blockades. but hey i have my experience with that and i hope not to have more opportunities in love, just one would be sufficient and yeah, again spot on since i've decided to not be a single girl with affairs any longer

Pluto in the 6th quare Pluto - it will happen again and since your Pluto is in the 3rd and rules the 5th, I think something big will happen regarding the writing thing. I can see you go through an emotional low which will either make you abandon this dream or transform your approach. Other than that a wall of painful memories and thoughts could hit you and force you to Deal with them. It could affect your health negatively (6th house) but you could be grateful for this purging once the storm passes.
-> i hope Pluto makes the transformation to END the manuscript. and yes, if i have to give up, i would committ suicide. No, not really, but sad wouldn't even begin to cover the desription of emotional state

Neptune in the 8th opposite Saturn
It looks like confusion to me, questioning what is real and what is not. Re-evaulating your values maybe since Saturn is in the 2nd. You could start approaching life (including the opposite sex – the DSC, and sex itself – 8th house) in a more Neptunian way. Become more sensitive and fragile (the trine to your IC ruler would suport it). Perhaps you’ll feel that the way you’ve been making money lately hasn’t been good on your emotional well-being and you’ll consider focusing on something else, something much more inspiring and non-mundane.
->hmm..i am planning to offer an aura course....

tUranus in the 10th square Sun
You may gain the courage to go a new route work wise even if it’s something riskier than what you’re used to. It could be the expression of your unusual side, something that adds to your feeling of freedom, possibly an online business where you’re completely self-employed. Uranus will square your Sun (2HR) and your ASC which I think will suport your self-expression through work. You might also have some interesting epiphanies about yourself, the „I’m weirder than I thought” kind.
-> weirder? That's not possible. Will keep you updated

thanks again

posted July 18, 2016 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
This part is gonna be highly intuitive (meaning: I'm not too good at this). I don't work with astrodiest angles, btw.

natal to progressions

pSun trine Moon - hm, maybe you'll experience this by feeling your yin and yang as balanced and lacking struggles between what you want and what you need. This is also the last call to motivate your fire reservoir to fiercly get what you want or do some wild, silly stuff because in less than a year the Sun will enter Virgo...

...like your pMoon did recently. It could be somewhat confusing and uncomfortable for a while, after all it was in Leo not a long time ago and you have a fire Moon natally. If you let this energy do its work, you should become more introspective, more focused on self-improvement, more rational and cautious. The conjunction to Saturn will probably intensify this process. Good luck.

In transits to progressions I don't see anything special. tSun, Mercury and Venus will touch your Leo-Virgo planets in a short period of time and you may find yourself temporarily charged with their energies.

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sounds like i am heading to my midlife crisis

huh, again a state of emotional crisis? No thanks, had that just yesterday

posted July 18, 2016 03:50 PM            

My question? Ummm...will let you know when I arrive at one.

posted July 18, 2016 04:03 PM            

Btw, good luck with your course!

posted July 18, 2016 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
3 cards would've been enough and easier to read but I appreciate your generosity. I suspect the spread may actually begin in the middle, 7oS describes the current status well (me keeping my distance). I also have the impression that the cards on the right are about what I'd do and those on the left about his hypothetical reaction. Which, it appears, would be a positive one. Thanks

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nope, for me i would often find out that 3 cards are for yes mo q only- not for emotional qs

posted July 18, 2016 04:58 PM            

Wanna do a...clarifying reading for me? The question would be "how will he internally react to my next message?". But 3 cards for real this time, unless you want to clarify an individual card (I wouldn't mind at all). This would be an exchange.