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poochycat Knowflake Posts: 2931 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 23, 2016 02:17 PM
Hi LeoFEEDBACK I saw J yesterday and came right out and asked him if he is still sexually attracted to me. He said NO! I also found out through a mutual friend that he is dating others when he told me that he is getting serious about B. I don't know why he is lying. Do you still feel he is sexually attracted and that temptation might be in the future? And why is he lying??? I will exchange with you if you like. Thanks so much if you feel up to it. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted July 23, 2016 02:31 PM
hey poochy, I apologize for intruding but may I contribute? It isn't really a reading just intuition from reading this. But I feel that he has logically, in his mind, turned on you. What you feel between the two of you, that leaves you with confusion, is that you still feel him feeling things for you. but his words and actions do not match... I believe this is because in his logical mind he has decided you are not what is best for him, so he is sticking to that decision for now and is trying to push you away. I think things are not so certain with the other gal, but he is really just using it to try and push you away. this is a common thing guys do, but see it's like he wasn't ready to be fully with you so his logical mind fooled him into ending things. he's just immature, so don't take it personally please and know that what you FEEL between the two of you is real... however, don't let that justify you in sticking around when he is trying to push you away, let him see what it really feels like to lose you. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted July 23, 2016 02:34 PM
you know the feelings and the attraction that exist, but don't let that knowing do anything except for make u feel secure and confident in yourself. bc bottom line is he is telling you such rude things as "NO i'm not attracted to you" to try to push you away, guys like to feel they are in control.. hence him acting on things. the result he wants right now is to push u away, but bc u are more sensitive to the true energies and intentions between the two of u, u know there is much more than what meets the eye, much more than him just saying "no". so i suppose my unsolicited advice is to know that he feels for u and wants u, but at the same time do not let that knowing cause u to stick around and allow him to be rude to u and put you second IP: Logged |
Leonisces Knowflake Posts: 2209 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted July 23, 2016 02:35 PM
Hi Poochy, thanks for the feedback 😊 Currently Im not interested in exchange, except intuitivefish, I need a break! Hang on!IP: Logged |
Leonisces Knowflake Posts: 2209 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted July 23, 2016 02:41 PM
Miss I openwd a thread where I said I wanna exc..did you saw it y any chance?IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 2931 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 23, 2016 03:19 PM
Hi missblssThank you so much for this. It makes so makes sense and it didn't occur to me yes, he is being rude and probably loving all this as it is giving him an ego boost! I am going to ignore him a little, still be polite but stop sending him e-mails and stop being flirty with him. Such good advice!! I will ley you know how this works out. Thank you dear girl XX It's O.K. Leo you have been very generous with me. I hope intuitive helps you XX IP: Logged |