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thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 02:33 PM
  
Is anyone up for it?My Q: Where is the dynamics of me and A's relationship going? Will things get sorted out soon? We are on a cold war. Leave your question. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 02:42 PM
How will A feel when I dont wish him a happt bday tomorrow?Brb IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by thequeen:
Is anyone up for it?My Q: Where is the dynamics of me and A's relationship going? Will things get sorted out soon? We are on a cold war. Leave your question.
You will keep going in circles. What I get is that yes you both will try to work it out and peace will come but it will be temporary.
I feel like another fight will break out over something reaaaally stupid.
This will continue in circles until you both decide to be less stubborn and more forgiving. There is a lack of balance of give and take which is causing friction. Care about eachother is there but its not enough.
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thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
How will A feel when I dont wish him a happt bday tomorrow?Brb
9 of Cups, 9 of Pents, 5 of Cups rx, Temperance, 4 of Swords
Clarifier - Judgement
He will be bothered but only for a little while. It seems he already has things planned out and has kind of anticipated that you will not wish him.
He will still be upset about it that you didn't wish him as 5 of Cups rx is there so his melancholy will be taken over by a good feeling, maybe his colleagues or friends will make him feel special. Maybe he will go out and party. Although, you will be there in the corner of his mind throughout. Also, he may get angry and make it a childish thing that you didn't wish him on his birthday so making it a final call. Final call as in either he will cut all ties with you, or he might himself contact you as shown by the Judgement card here. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:04 PM
Thank you!!Could we please try to clarify what will be the final call?
Will he cut me out or contact ? I asked AV about this also so Im curious. IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 03:05 PM
Yes he behaves quite childish all the time (so do I) but he ignites the fire for an argument every-time and then backs out and goes in retrospection( I suppose ) and doesn't talk until I message him. If you don't mind can I ask if who will message first this time. Or will he message me. If you cant answer it's cool. You may drop another question if you'd like otherwise it's ok.  TY for your reading. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:07 PM
Wrote my Q above 😉
I never missed a single bday for years so this will be 1st time.I get this energy of both of you thinking the same of wanting the other to reach out. But I keep getting "him". I want to say you but my feeling keeps going him. IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 03:13 PM
Death rx, 6 of Pents rx, 6 of Wands, 9Of Cups, 9 of Wands rx
Clarifier - King of Wands rxHe will go silent for a moment carrying the baggage and being fussy about that you didn't wish him. After a while he will realize that maybe he was giving too much ( as he assumes ) and try to move on without you, however he wont be able to do it for long. He will contact you in a while, when he will realize he was holding on to his defenses very strong, which he shouldn't have. I get that he wants you to talk to him first, because you committed a mistake of not wishing him ( if you don't wish him ). But when he realises that he was holding on too tight to his ego he will let go and contact you. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:16 PM
Ahaha what an idiot 😁
He cut communication with me and now wants a bday wish.
AV said it will make him feel I am really ****** at him and whe will reach out.
So you got similar.
Thanks 😊Ok so now Im curious if you dont mind, what would happen if I do wish him? Im leaning on not to but I always follow my feeling on it. IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 03:27 PM
Wow great cards...Strength rx, Sun, Queen of Wands, Page of Pentacles, Knight of Pentacles rx
Clarifier - Queen of Pents rx He will beam if you message him. It will be against his expectation and would absolutely be over the top if your message goes to his end. He will be surrounded by quite a number of people on his birthday and will enjoy your attention a lot. His ego will boost and he will be flattered. But I don't see him reciprocating to you in a similar manner. I don't know but he seems quite ****** off at something, like again the same thing, his guard is too high right now so may even not felicitate your message in a kind manner. It's like your are obliged to message him and so you did. Which again, will boost his ego. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:29 PM
Pfff this strenghtens me not wanting to do it, geeez.. and he can miss my bday..
Yea A hole.
He can forget it.
well, he is mad at someone else I think.
we didnt end it on a bad note, we havent had a fight or anything it was some stupid decison he made because of his stupid self.
thanks again
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thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 03:35 PM
anytime There is a first time to everything. Thank you for your reading too. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:37 PM
Well if he wouldnt even say thank you but be an as$ then forget it. you also, if you have more qs let me know IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 03:52 PM
I think he will say thank you, but wont stretch the conversation.I have a question, Will mine and A's relationship turn out to be a loving o? If you have another let me know too. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 03:56 PM
Could you please try to do timing on when he will each out?
thank youIt will take a lot of effort I get, there needs to come to maturing or emotinal expression, there needs to come to understanding and stopping the blaming game from both sides. Right now there is too much focus on who is right or who contacted 1st but when you both realize this is just ego and trivial matter. Then only will this relationship turn out more loving. Right now the focus is not love but being right or winning an argument which is ruining your chances.
I do get in a few months with some communication around all this it can turn into a loving relationship but it needs to be a mutual want. IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 04:07 PM
Hey intuitve i am not at all good on timing readings, so dont wish to give a false reading. Though if you still would like me to try I can do it but cant guarantee at all on accuracy.If you decide to ask another question I can answer it IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 04:09 PM
If you could still try please, as in, will it be days after bday, weeks..
I will be able to give feedback on this when it happens.
I wont take it as 100% so its no worry if its wrong. IP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 04:24 PM
Queen of Swords.Either within a week or in September - October period. But sword generally refers to month of Winters so I think in September he will contact you. Even if the timing is off, I feel certain he will talk to you. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 30, 2016 04:27 PM
Thanks, I totally doubt he would do it that late but who knows.
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thequeen
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posted July 30, 2016 04:30 PM
I do hope he contacts you either ways IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted July 31, 2016 12:38 PM
My feedback : I sent the text and Im ok with whatever happens or doesntIP: Logged |
thequeen
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posted July 31, 2016 02:33 PM
thanks, hope everything turns out as you want IP: Logged |
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