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melodiemelodie
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posted July 31, 2016 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi,

I just want to know whether I should move on from my lover or not, whether the situation is still salvageable and worth it?

I can offer an astrology 12 house tarot reading.

thank you!

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Saille
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posted July 31, 2016 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 31, 2016 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cherful24
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posted July 31, 2016 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually got stay. It's savable...as long as u both don't get too frustrated while working on it....even if u do, you 2 will stay put. I see u two staying.

I see he shares the same legit feelings for u that u have for him??

What is the issue??? Marriage scares him???

Let us know!!!

Can I ask...what will be my success or path, etc if I try to break in as a writer??

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posted July 31, 2016 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Saille:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
[B]hi,

I just want to know whether I should move on from my lover or not, whether the situation is still salvageable and worth it?


m

OMG, same question here. I can do tarot. WOuld the 12 house chart be able to tell you if I should move on or stay?

brb with your question


Hello! Sorry I fell asleep last night and now I gotta run to work but I haven't forgotten you!

Thank you expect a reading soon

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Saille
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posted July 31, 2016 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Magikaal
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posted August 01, 2016 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Magikaal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stay: 9 wands, 4 cups (strength, luxury)
Go: Trumps 11, 8 wands (lust, swiftness)

Well first of all, I wanted to state the obvious: this is a rather personal/intimate issue and it’s not really my place to make you do something or tell you to do it (i.e. the choice is really up to you). My first thought was, why is she asking others, what is it that she really wants. What is the real question?
The 9 wands shows inspiration and I interpret this as listening to what you really want. Do you want to put up with this situation? Do you want the situation to improve? Would you be happy with the status quo? Obviously you’re not, otherwise you wouldn’t be asking the question. The message of this card is about being brave and having courage. Listen to yourself – why are you unhappy with the relationship and can this be changed?
The Four of Cups is interesting. I wondered if you were staying in this situation because it’s comfortable and secure – it’s something you’re familiar with. Is your partner financially successful by any chance? Maybe this was really good in the beginning but now it’s cooling off and you are dissatisfied?
Overall the cards I drew for Stay are not really negative as such. But what I’m not seeing are the soulmate, ‘lovey-dovey’ cards.
The cards for Go I feel are very positive and I really like them. The Lust card says to devote yourself to something or someone. I feel like it means to focus on your life (overall) and that there is a lot more going on than this relationship. Are you enjoying your life? If not, why not and what can you change?
The 8 wands message is ‘breaking out of the box’ that you were confined in and new developments which are likely to be favourable.
Rather than just saying 'stay' or 'go', maybe consider why you're asking and then if it can't be resolved, would you be all right leaving even though it hurts?

Does any of this resonate?

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posted August 01, 2016 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why don't u honor ur part. This is getting annoying that people like u come on here often to get readings but then are flaky.

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posted August 01, 2016 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Caprika     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I ahve absolutely the same question for myself

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Saille
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posted August 01, 2016 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally agree with you Cherful,

I was trying to be pataint and nice about this, but what the **** ? You have 3 people that were kind enough to give you a reading, you should honor this and return the favor.

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melodiemelodie
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posted August 02, 2016 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Saille:
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Hey Saille,

I'm really sorry for the late reply. I've been dealing with health issues and a plethora of medical appointments and strange diet that have been keeping me very sleepy. Given that this type of reading takes a very long time when I'm in my optimal shape, I hope you understand that it took me longer. I don't think two days is the most unreasonable amount of time to respond though, given the circumstances. I appreciate your reading and time.

1st house: Page of Pentacles
A green light card, if you have been planning a project, go! The universe conspires with you.

2nd house: Five of wands
It is good to financially claim what is yours, it's not about materialism but about knowing your self-worth. Examine that perhaps.

3rd house: The devil
Watch out what your read/hear and who you surround yourself with as this may feed some insecurities. Surround yourself with love and good energies and people.

4th house: Knight of Wands
This represents a male energy, very aggressive or strong personality in your home area. Probably not liked and understood by most, you have a calming effect on them. A placement of finding the balance between doing what is good for them and what is good for you when it comes to your living situation/home.

5th house: High priestress
This card here means that there is a soul link person in your life or about to enter your life. The time your a living now and in the upcoming weeks is fated. Listen to your intuition, you have more answers than you think.

6h house: the knight of cups
This could indicate a water sign male/male energy or water energy, in your work or regular activity environment (gym, wherever you go regularly) who has feelings for you. Flirt, take things lightly. It is a card of new beginnings (doesn,t have to be a new person, but a new perspective)

7th house: ten of pentacles
An inauthentic person will be soon reveleaed in your workplace. Watch out who you work or collaborate with.

8th house: the two of cups
auspicious card in love. if you think you are in love, it is real and most likely returned. just don't play games or anything of the sort, be authentic and there is potential from a relationship growing and evolving into its highest purest form.

9th house: seven of pentacles
this card indicates to express more patience (hehe not just with this reading) but in general. be patient and you will reap the benefits.

10th house: seven of swords
guard your professional image as there may be behind the scenes players who are conspiring against you, or trying to make you look bad for their gain.

11th house: justice
in a dilemma with friends or in a group, follow an ethical and moderate route. mind your own business and stay away from shady people. don't pick sides. justice will be on your side if you follow this (pretty common sense).

12th house: four of pentacles
loosen up the grip or let go of something you have trouble letting go. maybe a burdensome attitude about your life, change your glasses (metaphorically speaking) and look at life under a different lense. if you have money issues, or it is a source of stress, you are blocking prosperity with your old mindset.

there! hope this helps!

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melodiemelodie
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posted August 02, 2016 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cherful24:
I actually got stay. It's savable...as long as u both don't get too frustrated while working on it....even if u do, you 2 will stay put. I see u two staying.

I see he shares the same legit feelings for u that u have for him??

What is the issue??? Marriage scares him???

Let us know!!!

Can I ask...what will be my success or path, etc if I try to break in as a writer??


Hey Cherful24,
I'm really sorry for the late reply. I've been dealing with health issues and a plethora of medical appointments and strange diet that have been keeping me very sleepy. Given that this type of reading takes a very long time when I'm in my optimal shape, I hope you understand that it took me longer. I don't think two days is the most unreasonable amount of time to respond though, given the circumstances. I appreciate your reading and time.

1st house: Justice
You are perceived by others as someone who embodies moral right. If this is applied to a love situation, it would express as something that has to do with legal issues, someone is married, a divorce is taking a long time etc.

2nd house: page of pentacles
You have an intuition to save your resources $$ and you are doing rightfully so. It will serve you to have a back up plan as there may be some turbulences ahead. Don't get discouraged, take baby steps. The detour may happen but it may not be very long.

3rd house: five of swords
If you are currently negotiating something, this could be an indication to surrender, let go and walk away. If you choose to stay, keep intellectually detached it will serve you much more.

4th house: queen o cups
love this card in the home sector!
this could indicate either a water sign female or a guide being/ancestor spirit who will help you and guide you through dreams. if you are open, you may receive guidance that way.

5h house: two of cups
this is a card of real true love, it is either coming to you or already in your life. the development may be slow but it is a steady one. don't be too bold, take things as they are, slowly.

6th house: ten of cups
regorganize anything that has to do with technology, administration and health. These three are closely linked and can help you prosper in your work. Declutter, seriously (I'm the biggest hoarder love this placement here).

7th house:wheel of fortuna
great luck in love and business partnerships! Fate is at work and it is working for you now. If and old love is a concern, you can't force it back with this card though. But expect good things, it's a very favourable placement.

8th house: high priestress
the high priestress here invites you to introspect and draw strength from pain of the past. perhaps you can expell and use that pain to transorm it in writing and build something. great placement.

9th house: seven of cups
if you are planning a course of study or trip, consider why as the reasons may not be the most favourable and you may regret it.

10th house: king of cups
this guy here is quite significant in the development of your business endeavours. perhaps it is a person to approach to expand your work opportunities. someone to network with. if that doesn't resonate with you or your situation, I think you can also think of ways on how to embody that and become the mentor you wish you had.

11th house: two of swords
another card of decluttering (more psychological/emotional). get rid of old baggage, grudges etc. this can unbalance you, if you keep holding on that is and slow you down.

12th house: seven of wands
a card of strength, maybe you have lived many tribulations in the past but you have survived them. not everyone understands this strength or can perceive it at first. this strength is always there though, so this placemenet is kind of a reminder of the warrior within if that makes sense.

here you go, hope it resonates!

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melodiemelodie
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posted August 02, 2016 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Magikaal:
Stay: 9 wands, 4 cups (strength, luxury)
Go: Trumps 11, 8 wands (lust, swiftness)

Well first of all, I wanted to state the obvious: this is a rather personal/intimate issue and it’s not really my place to make you do something or tell you to do it (i.e. the choice is really up to you). My first thought was, why is she asking others, what is it that she really wants. What is the real question?
The 9 wands shows inspiration and I interpret this as listening to what you really want. Do you want to put up with this situation? Do you want the situation to improve? Would you be happy with the status quo? Obviously you’re not, otherwise you wouldn’t be asking the question. The message of this card is about being brave and having courage. Listen to yourself – why are you unhappy with the relationship and can this be changed?
The Four of Cups is interesting. I wondered if you were staying in this situation because it’s comfortable and secure – it’s something you’re familiar with. Is your partner financially successful by any chance? Maybe this was really good in the beginning but now it’s cooling off and you are dissatisfied?
Overall the cards I drew for Stay are not really negative as such. But what I’m not seeing are the soulmate, ‘lovey-dovey’ cards.
The cards for Go I feel are very positive and I really like them. The Lust card says to devote yourself to something or someone. I feel like it means to focus on your life (overall) and that there is a lot more going on than this relationship. Are you enjoying your life? If not, why not and what can you change?
The 8 wands message is ‘breaking out of the box’ that you were confined in and new developments which are likely to be favourable.
Rather than just saying 'stay' or 'go', maybe consider why you're asking and then if it can't be resolved, would you be all right leaving even though it hurts?

Does any of this resonate?


Wow this resonates so much! Essentially this was a casual relationships that we rekindled in the past few months. We weren't exclusive and I felt hurt. He wants to get more serious, but I feel like I constantly put too many eggs in one basket. I am working on improving my life and pursuing my passions much more. I hope we can be in a loving, exclusive relationship but first I need to love myself and so does he. Thank you!

I will be back very very soon with your reading, thank you for your patience!


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posted August 02, 2016 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Magikaal, here is yours:

1st house: Wheel of fortuna
YAY love this placement! You are seen as a person who has got everything going for them (regardless of how you feel inside), people admire you. To boost this card, I like to recommend an gift or random act of kindness, you will reap much more of what you sow!

2n house: eight of wands
excellent placement! money flows to you very easily, good $$$$$$$ news are coming your way.

3rd house: the fool
The fool is about authenticity, skip the small talk and dive deep into real authentic conversations this can harbour interesting results. don't be afraid to listen to your own drummer, people will appreciate you more.

4th house: the two of cups
yay sweet card as well! sincere love, regardless of any other cards or situations in life you are truly loved. this is a reminder here. Ride that wave and that love energy!

5th house: the high priestress
in this house, the high priestress represents a person you share a deep soul link with. fate is at play in the next few weeks!

6h house: the star
wow you've got such a lovely (well deserved!) spread Magikaal! either an administration, work or health situation that has been holding you back is about to be resolved and get a million times better. Trust it, be detached, don't panic too much. All is well.

7th house: two of pentacles
hmm this card here can represent being torn between two loves or enjoying multiple options. don't know if it applies to your sitatuion, either way it's a sign of non-committement.

8th house: the sun
hahaha wow! this gets even better, the sun in this ''dark'' house represents the magic that is at play in your world. what you believe, you shall receive.

9th house: four of pentacles
someone or something that you relied on for money ressources may not be in the position to help you. but with all the good placements and luck on your side, I am not worried. you will make it happen, perhaps not in the way you thought or normally do.

10th house: king of swords
an influential male figure in business that can help you, or simply the vibes you are putting out in the world. This card is logical, rational, persuasive, slow paced but determined. Embody those traits or surround yourself with them

11th house: the world
you've got all the beautiful cards! expect to meet new people, do the work attend events, but this is a card that represents wordly success! you are seen as powerful in your circle.

12th house: four of cups
this placement is a reminder that you have all you need to move forward, whether spiritual or creative assets.

hope this helps and resonates! thank you!

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posted August 02, 2016 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ty. Feel better! I'd love feedback on my reading when u get clarity about the situation. Thanks

QUOTE]Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
Hey Cherful24,
I'm really sorry for the late reply. I've been dealing with health issues and a plethora of medical appointments and strange diet that have been keeping me very sleepy. Given that this type of reading takes a very long time when I'm in my optimal shape, I hope you understand that it took me longer. I don't think two days is the most unreasonable amount of time to respond though, given the circumstances. I appreciate your reading and time.

1st house: Justice
You are perceived by others as someone who embodies moral right. If this is applied to a love situation, it would express as something that has to do with legal issues, someone is married, a divorce is taking a long time etc.

2nd house: page of pentacles
You have an intuition to save your resources $$ and you are doing rightfully so. It will serve you to have a back up plan as there may be some turbulences ahead. Don't get discouraged, take baby steps. The detour may happen but it may not be very long.

3rd house: five of swords
If you are currently negotiating something, this could be an indication to surrender, let go and walk away. If you choose to stay, keep intellectually detached it will serve you much more.

4th house: queen o cups
love this card in the home sector!
this could indicate either a water sign female or a guide being/ancestor spirit who will help you and guide you through dreams. if you are open, you may receive guidance that way.

5h house: two of cups
this is a card of real true love, it is either coming to you or already in your life. the development may be slow but it is a steady one. don't be too bold, take things as they are, slowly.

6th house: ten of cups
regorganize anything that has to do with technology, administration and health. These three are closely linked and can help you prosper in your work. Declutter, seriously (I'm the biggest hoarder love this placement here).

7th house:wheel of fortuna
great luck in love and business partnerships! Fate is at work and it is working for you now. If and old love is a concern, you can't force it back with this card though. But expect good things, it's a very favourable placement.

8th house: high priestress
the high priestress here invites you to introspect and draw strength from pain of the past. perhaps you can expell and use that pain to transorm it in writing and build something. great placement.

9th house: seven of cups
if you are planning a course of study or trip, consider why as the reasons may not be the most favourable and you may regret it.

10th house: king of cups
this guy here is quite significant in the development of your business endeavours. perhaps it is a person to approach to expand your work opportunities. someone to network with. if that doesn't resonate with you or your situation, I think you can also think of ways on how to embody that and become the mentor you wish you had.

11th house: two of swords
another card of decluttering (more psychological/emotional). get rid of old baggage, grudges etc. this can unbalance you, if you keep holding on that is and slow you down.

12th house: seven of wands
a card of strength, maybe you have lived many tribulations in the past but you have survived them. not everyone understands this strength or can perceive it at first. this strength is always there though, so this placemenet is kind of a reminder of the warrior within if that makes sense.

here you go, hope it resonates![/QUOTE]

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posted August 02, 2016 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't even try to "peace" me. You screwed up, and thought you could get away with it, by skipping out on reading. I'm glad I was ****** enough to call you out on it, bc clearly others have dealt with you before. You made it seem like my anger is a bad thing, and maybe it is to you, because it made you look like a freebie/copout.

"Peace"

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posted August 02, 2016 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Magikaal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the feedback and the very positive reading (although I'm not seeing it overtly yet and am rather dissatisfied with a lot of my circumstances). I liked what you said re the first house. It made me think of decluttering and giving stuff away instead of trying to sell it on eBay for pennies. So that has inspired me to take some action. Thank you.

It was interesting when you described your situation. I liked the part where you said you were pursuing your passions - I think that stood out very strongly to me. And it's great that you have the self-respect to want more for your life. Personally I'm not a person who can deal with not being exclusive, lol, so that's really good progress I think. If I was your friend sitting across the table with a cuppa, I'd be saying, good on ya Girl that's the way. You deserve better.

Hope your health improves quickly. Thanks again for the lovely reading.

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posted August 03, 2016 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Saille:
Don't even try to "peace" me. You screwed up, and thought you could get away with it, by skipping out on reading. I'm glad I was ****** enough to call you out on it, bc clearly others have dealt with you before. You made it seem like my anger is a bad thing, and maybe it is to you, because it made you look like a freebie/copout.

"Peace"


Saillie, stop spewing hate. I sincerly wish you find peace and love in your life and stop accusing me of wanting to get out of a reading. And honestly, I hope you learn gratitude because not even a simple thank you for a reading is kind of bad manners/karma.

Peace (and I mean it)

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posted August 03, 2016 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for melodiemelodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Magikaal:
Thank you for the feedback and the very positive reading (although I'm not seeing it overtly yet and am rather dissatisfied with a lot of my circumstances). I liked what you said re the first house. It made me think of decluttering and giving stuff away instead of trying to sell it on eBay for pennies. So that has inspired me to take some action. Thank you.

It was interesting when you described your situation. I liked the part where you said you were pursuing your passions - I think that stood out very strongly to me. And it's great that you have the self-respect to want more for your life. Personally I'm not a person who can deal with not being exclusive, lol, so that's really good progress I think. If I was your friend sitting across the table with a cuppa, I'd be saying, good on ya Girl that's the way. You deserve better.

Hope your health improves quickly. Thanks again for the lovely reading.


You're very welcome! I hope you get to notice all the positivity surrounding you quite soon and gain more of it And yes! Decluttering is magical, it absolutely makes space for new things and situations while helping others who can use your things. And thanks again for your very lucid reading, it felt spot on!

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