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Topic: NOW exchanges
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missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 380
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Registered: May 2016
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posted September 01, 2016 11:47 PM
  
I need help my friends! Guidance from above please....I'll be doing tarot exchanges. I need help. You heard of my daughter's father attempting to kidnap her. Well, we settled out of court and he gave me full legal and physical custody and he has supervised visits 2x per month and 2 Skype calls with her per week. My daughter is absolutely afraid of him, she screams and begs not to do the call, but it is court ordered, so I must answer or else I get in trouble. She is not even 3 yet. It takes me 20 minutes to calm her afterwards... We both end up crying because I feel like I'm betraying her by answering video calls to the man she's so afraid of.. UGH. Just ANYTHING that comes through, I would be forever grateful.. IP: Logged |
poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 3107
From: Vancouver, Canada
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 02, 2016 12:57 AM
Hi Miss BJust read your e-mail and my heart goes out to you. I thought that your ex had no contact whatsoever! I did a reading for you. Hope it helps somewhat. 10 of wands,7 of swords, chariot, hierophant, king of swords I feel the 10 of wands is what has happened in the past and is happening now. We know a lot of strife and turmoil. 7 of swords would be him, being very manipulative. I feel with the chariot, you are contemplating, looking for another lawyer or SHOULD be. Your future card was the hierophant and then the king of swords. Hierophants are those that can offer guidance. King of swords are men that are extremely articulate and have a razor sharp mind. You and daughter should not be subjected to this and I will pray for you. I left a reading in your last post however after reading this it probably isn't too accurate. I did leave a question but it is not necessary to answer. Good luck and let us know. XX IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 5422
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 02, 2016 01:07 AM
Perhaps something like listening to vibrational sound music first and afterwards to help her calm down, rid of the anxiety and lots of back rubbing.I'd ask the courts to have a path. Doc. Evaluate her do to the distress this is causing her....May be then they'll limit visitation IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 380
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Registered: May 2016
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posted September 02, 2016 01:46 AM
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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Miss BJust read your e-mail and my heart goes out to you. I thought that your ex had no contact whatsoever! I did a reading for you. Hope it helps somewhat. 10 of wands,7 of swords, chariot, hierophant, king of swords I feel the 10 of wands is what has happened in the past and is happening now. We know a lot of strife and turmoil. 7 of swords would be him, being very manipulative. I feel with the chariot, you are contemplating, looking for another lawyer or SHOULD be. Your future card was the hierophant and then the king of swords. Hierophants are those that can offer guidance. King of swords are men that are extremely articulate and have a razor sharp mind. You and daughter should not be subjected to this and I will pray for you. I left a reading in your last post however after reading this it probably isn't too accurate. I did leave a question but it is not necessary to answer. Good luck and let us know. XX
thank you my dear, so sweet of you to do this for me! Yeah, I was hoping for no visitation, but in my state, if a parent wants visitation they nearly always get it... I have all protective measures in place, i.e. he will never have her alone and things like that... but still, the emotional trauma for such a young child can't be discounted (and it often is!) My lawyer just wrote me that we may need to consider suspending all visitation. I am thinking of finding a child psychologist to be present for my daughter's next call to write a note for the courts.. We will see <3 IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 380
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Registered: May 2016
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posted September 02, 2016 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Perhaps something like listening to vibrational sound music first and afterwards to help her calm down, rid of the anxiety and lots of back rubbing.I'd ask the courts to have a path. Doc. Evaluate her do to the distress this is causing her....May be then they'll limit visitation
She actually still breastfeeds, so she always wants to nurse during the call... I do rub her back and hold her but she gets into such a panic if she gets in front of the screen that she runs and hides (while screaming)
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Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 5262
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 02, 2016 05:24 AM
Blyss, firstly, please speak to her psychically. In meditation visualise speaking to your daughter's higher/psychic self. Tell her that she cannot be harmed, that she is protected and loved by you and the angels and all is well. Surround her with protective and calming white light. You have the ability to do this well. Also, could you record her next time (in case the situation persists). This needs to be heard if not seen by the court as any court would not want to cause such distress to the child. You have enough grounds here to stop the video calls altogether. Please ask your lawyer that if you cannot fulfil the court order due to the distress being caused, what could be done. Was there a way you could present your evidence.
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poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 3107
From: Vancouver, Canada
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 02, 2016 10:52 AM
Hi Just wondering if you feel up to exchanging as you were saying in your thread? If not no worries. You can refer back to your previous thread for my question. Take care. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 5879
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 02, 2016 12:25 PM
There will need to a talk wiith a father through lawyers ( in order to avoid fights ) to explain the situation to ask for patience from him. He will need to be shown her reaction AFTER talking to him he would be fully aware of what harm he is doing.
Other than this, your strategy with your daughter I get may need some fibbing, as in telling her he is not such a bad man any more, how people can be good and bad.. that he is putting effort to be good..
I get she will try to understand you only because she loves you but that it may take some work on her to help her understand the father cannot hurt her over screen but that he is trying to be nice to her.
I get to try and explain it in a way she could understand as in, she also does something that wasnt nice but you love her so through love you work it out. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
Moderator Posts: 3112
From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 02, 2016 01:11 PM
You are a mum. Just do what you feel comfortable with. I sat in a chair of every single doctor that my children were afraid of and held them. They may have been afraid, but were protected by me and I was always proud of them whenever they lost a tiny bit of fear.IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 380
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Registered: May 2016
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posted September 02, 2016 05:53 PM
wow, my heart goes out to each one of you for being willing to help methank you so much <3 <3 I can't say it enough I just spoke with my lawyer and he says I will be able to suspend all visitations as long as I have my daughter seeing a therapist... My lawyer will be writing my ex's lawyer to let him know and I will be sending my ex an e-mail as well, so thankfully my poor baby doesnt have to endure this trauma anymore... until she is ready IP: Logged |
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