posted September 10, 2016 11:50 AM            

I will be using my gypsy cards for the start as I want to get used to these quickly.

I can probably only do a few.

Please, no yes or no questions, or timings..

The people that do post here, I think I want to see questions that ask about a connection between you and something/someone else..
Ex: "How will my connection be between me and ____"

"How will the celebration go on ______"

Because I noticed these cards aren't good with feelings much..

If you want to ask about career you can but I can't say I will be right or off.

Please give me feedback as I will be keeping track on who post.

posted September 10, 2016 11:54 AM            

How do I really feel about P?

posted September 10, 2016 12:11 PM            

I'm not really good with how someone feels, but I will try anyway.

I pull 3 because I wan't sure if this even made sense.

The first card is hope and this tells me that there is/was hope for something to have a positive outcome.. may be you or P was hopeful for something to happen as they wished.. and that their wish would finally come true. The next card is servant, I would think this means someone having to obey something or being obedient about what they should do or what is right to do. And the last card is sadness or being sad about something..it could be that someone was disappointed.. may be someone didn't do something they were suppose to do, may be someone wasn't being obedient? I'm a little confused on this reading.

posted September 10, 2016 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
strawberryaa

Is it okay if I just ask about the connection between you two or what would happen in the connection?

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posted September 10, 2016 12:38 PM            

thanks. I see how this deck probably is better equipped for describing actual relationships/ connections, what happens and so on.

posted September 10, 2016 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by strawberryaa:
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I asked what will happen in the connection between you and S.

The first card I have shows progress having between you two unless one of you will be traveling to see the other person? But if not, then it means making some progress in this connection. The next card shows someone getting some news from the other person.. Not sure what its about, but its probably important since it is a message from someone. The next card shows 3 friends dancing together outside, this to me tells me that this is about enjoy each other company and having some fun.. Just have some good time together. The last card is "gift" this could either 3 things to me.. Either there is a give and take here, may be someone will give the other person a gift, or that someone will think the time spent together will be valuable to them.. They may think that seeing each other or having fun together is something that they consider is a gift.

I hope this make sense

posted September 10, 2016 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
ILP,

thanks. I see how this deck probably is better equipped for describing actual relationships/ connections, what happens and so on.

However still I think it was pretty good.
I did make a choice to be "obedient" (to social rules, circumstances, etc. at least my perception of them which could be wrong of course), and that brought a bit of sadness as well. Yes. certainly.

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Thanks for the feedback! I actually thought this deck was good for feelings and so on until I noticed that it wasn't really answering questions like that.

posted September 10, 2016 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi ILP

O.K. I will ask how you see the connection between myself and J. Thanks!

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Okay! So I asked what will happen in the connection between you and J.

The first card I have is "old woman" this usually indicates someone that is getting older (may be) or time is very much ticking away. This could also mean someone having to make some wise decisions because to them time is much on their mind. They may think something is going too slow or taking too long. The next card is "thoughts".. I'm thinking that someone will be in their thoughts about something or having a hard time to make a decision.. With the death card this could mean trying to make a big change or end something. The last card is friend and this usually mean friendship with another person or someone that is friendly.. May be someone is having a hard time to see if they want something to change about the friendship that you two have.. Does this make any sense to you?

posted September 10, 2016 12:57 PM            

And if you will have a breathing pause and no requests, I would be very intrested for you having a go at my connection with P in the coming months.

posted September 10, 2016 12:58 PM            

I asked what would happen if you did go.

It looks like someone that is important in your life will be there? Could be a friend, but mostly a male.. I'm not sure but it looks someone will give you a message or something important that could either be about/from your family, could be where you stay at, or something that involves your comfort zone. I pulled one more to figure out whats going on and I got "misfortune" and this could be something that is not really good.. I dont know what this exactly means but there's a chance I could be off cause I dont think anyone that is important in your life (male) will be there.. Unless its about that person that could be family to you. I dont know if this is about a picnic or something else..

posted September 10, 2016 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yes, it was.

And if you will have a breathing pause and no requests, I would be very intrested for you having a go at my connection with P in the coming months.

BTW whnever you were on my collective messages threads, I think you were pretty spot on. At least most of the times.

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Okay so I shuffled at first and I felt like I messed up.. 2 cards was trying to come out but I put it right back in. When I shuffled just this one time (again) 2 cards instantly fell out and I think this is for you.

The 2 cards were "prison" and "widower"

Prison shows restriction and that there is some boundaries that someone may can't cross over or they just think they can't. The next card is widower is about a person (mostly a male) that thinks about the past or misses the past.. Overall the past sadness is here.

I dont know if that made any sense to you.

The connection cards.. The first card is servant again, I'm thinking that someone is trying to obey some rules so they wont get in trouble or they are just trying to be obedient. The next card is despair, this shows a man having a gun to his head as in hes just tired of everything.. I think this indicates frustration or being annoyed about this... Could be that they have to obey but is annoyed by it. The next card is scholar and this may mean that this has been going on for a long time.. This could talk about a man that is older as well...someone that can be wise.. Hmm.. The last card is Frivolity.. This talks about something being irregular or that it keeps changing... Being undecided on what to stay on... Um I'm not sure about the scholar as it could mean education or an older man.

posted September 10, 2016 01:40 PM            

if you want you can describe my connection with T(from when i met him til now), ive know him for sometime so i can give you feedback on it.

posted September 10, 2016 01:42 PM            

How do you see things going for me and P. this week?
This way I'll be able to leave you some feedback by the end of the week.

posted September 10, 2016 02:30 PM            

I hope this makes sense.

The first card was "Old woman".. I've been trying to see what does this card have to do with you and his connection.. as this could talk about something being old and still continuing while the time is ticking away. The next card is "doctor" this is the card that indicates of making someone feel better from stress.. to heal people from past wounds. I'm thinking someone feels better when they talk to the other person, may be the both of you? Or that someone wants the other to make them feel better. The next card is "Hope" is someone wishes for something or hoping for a positive outcome.. This could mean either of you, but rather someone hopes for something good to come out of this connection, to be a success of what they have wished for. The next card is friend and this usually indicates friendship or someone that is friendly/loyal in this connection, someone that would be there for you when you're down/upset.

I hope this reading makes sense?

posted September 10, 2016 02:35 PM            

Interestingly the last card seems very opposite from the first one, or do I see it wrong?

I think when it comes down to it, it`s that P wants to honour his previous commitment, yet whenever I am around he seems very responsive to me, and I finally get it that this might be due to him feeling a certain attraction towards me despite he knows he should not and does not want that.

For me personally, it`s maybe easier. I do get the attraction thing, but I also get the commitment thing and there is not really anything to decide.
I think I can enjoy the attraction on a very non-action level, and enjoy just being around him now and then, having a chat or whatever, communication.

I don`t get however why it seems to be so difficult for him to navigate this.
The things are simple and clear.

Attractions do happen occasionally, even if you are committed to someone else, but I donīt see a reason why this should be a problem, really.

But yes he sometimes does give the impression of being a prisoner strangely enough. And it`s not the first card this card showed up for him.

posted September 10, 2016 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Interesting spread, ILP.
I do think it resonates.
Yes that`s been going on for a while.
Yes, there are rules to obey.

Interestingly the last card seems very opposite from the first one, or do I see it wrong?

I think when it comes down to it, it`s that P wants to honour his previous commitment, yet whenever I am around he seems very responsive to me, and I finally get it that this might be due to him feeling a certain attraction towards me despite he knows he should not and does not want that.

For me personally, it`s maybe easier. I do get the attraction thing, but I also get the commitment thing and there is not really anything to decide.
I think I can enjoy the attraction on a very non-action level, and enjoy just being around him now and then, having a chat or whatever, communication.

I don`t get however why it seems to be so difficult for him to navigate this.
The things are simple and clear.

Attractions do happen occasionally, even if you are committed to someone else, but I donīt see a reason why this should be a problem, really.

But yes he sometimes does give the impression of being a prisoner strangely enough. And it`s not the first card this card showed up for him.

The scholar could be me btw. As I am a teacher and well I have a higher educational level than him, not that it really matters, but he occasionalyl mentions his "low degree" in general (not towards me).

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posted September 10, 2016 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I meant,
you said servant is about being obedient, playing to the rules, and frivolity seems to be more about bending the rules, going around them, or did I misinterprete that?

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posted September 10, 2016 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
I asked what will happen in the connection between you and S.

The first card I have shows progress having between you two unless one of you will be traveling to see the other person? But if not, then it means making some progress in this connection. The next card shows someone getting some news from the other person.. Not sure what its about, but its probably important since it is a message from someone. The next card shows 3 friends dancing together outside, this to me tells me that this is about enjoy each other company and having some fun.. Just have some good time together. The last card is "gift" this could either 3 things to me.. Either there is a give and take here, may be someone will give the other person a gift, or that someone will think the time spent together will be valuable to them.. They may think that seeing each other or having fun together is something that they consider is a gift.

I hope this make sense

Journey - messenger - joyfulness - gift

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How interesting.. thank you ILP! So you asked about what will happen in future? I will definitely let you know