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missblyss
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posted September 26, 2016 04:33 PM
  
Soo... Earlier this year I got 4 different readings from some of the most accurate readers/ psychics that I have ever come across..In each reading it was seen that this August would be a critical turning point in my relationship with my ex... However, every single one saw this as being a positive thing, me "getting what I want" finally from him, getting apologies, etc. Instead, I ended up getting a restraining order and securing full legal rights to my daughter, whilst totally limiting his time with her. I am sort of confused as to the correlation of what happened and what was seen in the readings. Was it that I did get what I really wanted?? That I just didn't know that what I really wanted was to get away from him? Or did the energies around it change for whatever reason? I have NO contact with him now, and haven't in months so I don't know if the occurrence did in fact cause a shift in him... I have no idea...
Just would love to understand this at a deeper level bc it was seen so many times and then there was a HUGE shift at that exact time, but the opposite of what everyone though!
Leave ANY questions I am happy to exchange, no need to ask 
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missblyss
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posted September 26, 2016 10:18 PM
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Caprika
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posted September 26, 2016 10:22 PM
missy,brb with your question IP: Logged |
Caprika
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posted September 26, 2016 10:31 PM
I got really interesting cards in regard to - what was the meaning behind the outcome of your August ordeal. Why it happened the way it did?Wheel of Fortune - 4 of Wands - 8 of Cups - Queen of Swords - 3 of Cups In the grand scheme of life, the universe delivered what was best for you, despite what you might have hoped to happen. The Universe took a turn to deliver the best possible outcome for you, call it a fate. The Wheel of Fortune took care of this so that you can move away from troubles for once and progress on your spiritual path towards inner happiness. The events in August made you stronger and more mental, rather than just acting from your heart. It made you step forward and defend what is right. The outcome is to best serve you in your quest for happiness ( 3 of Cups). It was long due. IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted September 26, 2016 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by Caprika:
missy,can you tell me how do you see things be between me and M. Can you pick up on how he thinks of me and where is this headed? brb with your question Thanks!
Well there certainly appear to be enough feelings and attachment generated between the two of you that things will not be ending anytime soon, however it appears you guys are sort of in a time of resting a bit? Not sure if you guys are sort of on a break right now. It is showing that he is evaluating things, he's basically sitting back and trying to logically decide what you offer, if it is what he wants, and how to proceed. In the future, there will be some element of him making swift action towards you which will help you to see that your connection is strong enough to withstand tests... However, the energies between the two of you are so intense, it will require maturity and patience on both sides to keep things peaceful between the two of you IP: Logged |
Caprika
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posted September 26, 2016 10:46 PM
ahh, that resonates so well!
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Saille
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posted September 26, 2016 11:53 PM
I think they were right that it was positive. You got a restraining order, which is incredibly hard to do, plus getting full custody of your daugther, who you know is now safe and sound with you. Do you not see it as a positive thing? If not, why not? Do you still have feelings for your ex, despite all the awful things he's done? IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted September 27, 2016 01:02 AM
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Originally posted by Caprika:
ahh, that resonates so well! Thank you! yes, we are on a break and we are very intense together, almost like a soap opera. He does ponder a lot.
What do you mean by "swift actions" ? Thanks again, so correct
Just to expect to have interactions with him that are intense and sort of random, they'll happen quickly and be filled with strong energy IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted September 27, 2016 01:07 AM
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Originally posted by Saille:
I think they were right that it was positive. You got a restraining order, which is incredibly hard to do, plus getting full custody of your daugther, who you know is now safe and sound with you. Do you not see it as a positive thing? If not, why not? Do you still have feelings for your ex, despite all the awful things he's done?
Hey! Thanks for asking bc it helps me to think about it! I do see this all as a positive thing... for sure! It is an unfortunate action that I feel I was pushed into taking... His actions and lack of respect for me put me in a position where I was forced to take action. I actually haven't even considered for a second since the kidnapping incident whether I wanted to be with him again, my attraction to him was utterly gone... That dream though, it was so pure. It was like, for a second, when I was asleep and my conscious mind was able to forget that I'm supposed to hate him... I was just able to be with him and have fun with him again and it was just a magical feeling. Then I woke up and remembered how things have evolved... and how it *can't* be that way... But it still put that thought in my mind, maybe it can be that way... one day. There's a lot of pain and hurt between us.... But originally there was love. We were best friends and I really thought soulmates. It was one of those no-games relationships. We committed immediately and never questioned it. Things got bad, we both have hurt eachother a LOT. He may have hurt me in more obvious ways, but I know I hurt him too.. I may not have physically betrayed him, but I did in some ways. Idk, I'm a ******* delusional pisces hopeless romantic. I sort of want it to be my story that we make it in the end.. Even if it's in 10 or 20 years.
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missblyss
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posted September 27, 2016 01:09 AM
But, I am open for that not to be the story.. I'm open to finding a love that I can love even more authentically. I guess, since I haven't found that yet it's hard not to wonder...IP: Logged |
Saille
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posted September 27, 2016 01:38 AM
I feel you. It must be hard to look at your daughter and love her, and see parts of him in her.Like you, I love till it ends, even with the bad outweighing the good. I want to forgot my guy, and I think I slowly am, but I can't help but think there are feelings on his end as well that he doesn't want to deal with...but I'm holding onto what little there is...maybe someday soon it'll work. stupid men.
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