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posted September 26, 2016 07:10 PM            

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Feel up to exchanging?

I would like to know what October will be like with myself and J, especially after "The Talk." Please leave yours.

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posted September 27, 2016 09:04 AM            

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I can exchange later on today poochy

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posted September 27, 2016 03:05 PM            

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I will pick some Oracle cards for this.

Cordelia - Go Outside - "You have been indoors for too long. Go outside and get some fresh air."

Pele - Divine Passion - "Be honest with yourself. What is your heart's true desire?"

Sedna - Infinite Supply - "You are supplied for today and all of your tommorrows."

This indicates to me that October might be a month when you won't see him as much as you'd like. I think your relationship will still be a bit foggy in terms of defining where you want to go with it. Communication will be good though, even if not in presence, and this will give you security that you two still have a bond that is significant to both, even when distant. I think you might even have a few moments here and there where you feel him more open with you... Not necessarily emotionally, just him more willing to make you more involved into what's happening in his life. He still feel a bit hot and cold, though. But there's improvement in this way.

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posted September 27, 2016 03:06 PM            

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Mine: Would me getting back to dance in this moment in life be beneficial for me? Thanks!

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posted September 27, 2016 04:29 PM            

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Thanks Adimi

I can see it being this way for awhile. Still a bit nervous as to what he will say to me though when we have our talk. O.K. for you...

page of swords, ace f cups, fool, sun

Page of swords is showing that you may have some very minor setbacks with starting up with dancing. Nothing really to worry about because you have the ace of cups which is showing how much you love to do this coupled with the fool which is showing something new for you. The sun as your clarifier, THE best card is showing you will enjoy it immensely.

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posted September 27, 2016 04:31 PM            

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Thanks poochy The setbacks might have to do with my schedule, meh.

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posted September 27, 2016 04:55 PM            

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Hi

Would you be willing to answer another question? J has mentioned that he is no longer sexually attracted to me however I feel he is and is suppressing it. What do you feel? If you have more questions shout them out Thanks if you feel up to it.

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posted September 27, 2016 05:12 PM            

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Yes but not today poochy - I've done quite a few readings today, so I need to rest. I'll try to come tommorrow

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posted September 27, 2016 05:23 PM            

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That's O.K. Adimi. I always appreciate your readings and look forward to them. No rush, rest up.

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posted September 28, 2016 07:50 PM            

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Hi Poochy,

I apologize for hijacking your thread, but I've seen a few of your posts and I'd like to add something. I remember reading a while back that J told you he isn't attracted to you anymore. You certainly don't have to answer, but have you two been intimate since he said that? Here's the thing Poochy...Men don't say things like that to women they hope to sleep with again. If J was concerned with leaving that door open he'd be a bit more ginger in his approach. I'm more an empath than anything else and I can tell you this much...J is the type of guy who needs to pursue. He was far more interested in you when you were "unavailable". IF you want to keep his interest piqued there needs to be some mystery surrounding you. Same goes for you. He's making you work for it and that only makes you want him more. He isn't tiptoing around your feelings so it's best you believe what he's saying. Pull back, allow him to do more, and reevaluate then.

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posted September 28, 2016 08:33 PM            

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Haha, no we haven't been intimate at all, he won't even hug me. Should have read further, LOL.

He did say that he wants to be friends which we have been. The sexual tension is there big time but because of our cultural backgrounds it is not something that is approved of. Lot's of complications with this, thus a lot of readings We have been intimate and actually had a health scare because of it. It felt like a punishment from God which we both deeply regret happened. So as it stands now, I am hoping we can have a friendship because we do care for each other. He only said that because he feels it's best not to get involved that way again, not because he isn't tempted. Thanks for thinking of me. XX

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posted September 29, 2016 04:02 PM            

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I will pick some cards for you poochy.

Is J. sexually attracted to poochycat?

Cards: King of Pentacles (Rx) | The Emperor | 5 of Cups
Clarifier: Knight of Pentacles
- The Page of Pentacles (Rx) popped out during the shuffle.

It looks like he is suppressing it to me too. He's clearly making a choice here of turning his back on more romantic developments. Look at all these pentacles cards... Figures, too. He's really setting his values as his priotity right now and feels that his past attitudes with you were irresponsible in a way. It looks to mee that this was a well-thought decision on his part... But yes, it does feel like he is fighting his urges, trying to ignore them, even.

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posted September 29, 2016 05:07 PM            

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Thank you Adimi for getting back to me and your reading. I have been feeling this for quite some time but I do remember you saying that we will be friends and he will eventually hug me again. I guess it is part of my responsibility too not to lead him on and I feel that is what our "heart to heart" talk will be about. Thanks again XX

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