posted September 27, 2016 12:15 PM            

Now I saw A made it that even I am able to comment/like unlike yesterday where I couldnt.
He still hasnt added me
So I wanna ask.

What does he hope from this? Like does he hope I do something?

posted September 27, 2016 05:22 PM            

they said they will help me to travel up to Oregon or WA for a month.. however, I am now nervous.. will I be able to make this work on my own? they tell me I am immature to leave my family but I feel like i genuinely don't belong here...

posted September 28, 2016 08:45 AM            

so, now it seems that A stopped posting public, but maybe changed back. I am curious to know why this change happened?

( even if he wanted my attention which I believe he did, nothing he posted was attention worthy to me, not sure if he stopped because I did not react or what he hopes now )

thanks!

for you..

posted September 28, 2016 01:55 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you so much!

so, now it seems that A stopped posting public, but maybe changed back. I am curious to know why this change happened?

( even if he wanted my attention which I believe he did, nothing he posted was attention worthy to me, not sure if he stopped because I did not react or what he hopes now )

thanks!

for you..

So, I do get some obstacles on this move, I even feel there may be some problems with your ex, not sure what exactly but as though he may try to say something.
I do however feel you may get some difficulty at first, as you will be starting over, but, I feel this difficulty will not be long term, it may last a 1-2 months but then I get a sense of you getting into a new and more helthier groove, of making new life somewhere where you would feel you do fit in, I feel like there would be a great new energy for you and it would give you a sense of confidence and a sense of being more capabale into making a new life for yourfelf.
I get that you may find a new life for yourself that you do hope for.

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hmmm Well, I think he is a little hyper-aware of himself. He realizes that he may be being obvious in his behaviors to you so he's backtracking a little. He is afraid of coming off as "weird" with all of his odd little adjustments to his FB constantly. He sort of felt comfortable doing it when he thought no one noticed, but now he is concerned people *YOU* are noticing which is making him feel weird and exposed.

posted September 28, 2016 07:14 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you that makes sense. Makes me feel better.

Do you have more to ask?

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posted September 29, 2016 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
I suppose just if you see any more details with the Oregon/ WA trip... I am basically going to look for a place to stay/ see what areas I like best/ look for schools for my daughter etc

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there will be a sense of security for you but it does feel you may need to save up and get most detail you can. on the school I see you looking at 2 or 3 of which one will be something you will consider to be good for your daughter.
On findig a home, this I feel you may see a few bad places which will be in money range but I feel like there will be a place after you see a few which will be a nice place and it will seem safe.
I do get you could even start fresh in your love life with such a move and start off totally fresh.

i had another Q, if you find some time, what next move will A do towards me