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missblyss
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posted October 08, 2016 10:29 PM
  
... and now I'm sitting here wondering what the **** even happened with my ex.We were together for so long and I never once questioned his love for me. I got pregnant and he was ecstatic, he made me feel so wanted and attractive. Things got bad and I told him we needed therapy or I was gone. He said no and I left. I *KNEW* from the depths of my soul he wouldn't lose me or my daughter, I knew he would come around and fight for us and make it right.... But he never did. Now it's 2.5 years later and it is almost as if he never even cared about me. I can't wrap my head around it. Was I just delusional? What the **** is going on?
Exchange lol
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soren
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posted October 08, 2016 10:54 PM
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Caprika
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posted October 08, 2016 11:19 PM
I can pull some cards for you.IP: Logged |
poochycat
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posted October 08, 2016 11:28 PM
Hey missy,No you weren't delusional. I'm not sure what your question is though. I would like to know if J is going to correspond with me soon. Not a forwarded e-mail UGH! IP: Logged |
soren
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posted October 08, 2016 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hey missy,No you weren't delusional. I'm not sure what your question is though. I would like to know if J is going to correspond with me soon. Not a forwarded e-mail UGH!
but is he ever going to come back? IP: Logged |
poochycat
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posted October 08, 2016 11:37 PM
Umm, I'm not sure who you are referring to, Soren?IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 08, 2016 11:37 PM
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noaa
wtf does this mean lol, soren.. you taunt me IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 08, 2016 11:40 PM
Hey my dear, I do see good conversation between them... I think somehow she is able to give him good advice... I don't really see him around much of anyone right now though. I think moreso he just felt that there was easy conversation between the two of them and sort of felt like he could get a women's perspective. Maybe even to some degree he enjoyed that another woman was giving him attention bc it makes him look more appealing to you IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 08, 2016 11:42 PM
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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hey missy,No you weren't delusional. I'm not sure what your question is though. I would like to know if J is going to correspond with me soon. Not a forwarded e-mail UGH!
I am not seeing an active action on this part, but only bc he appears to be in a mind frame of "let things come to me", like he wants you to reach out and is being very passive at the moment I guess my question is, did he stop loving me? did he just have his own issues that kept him from coming back? what was it? IP: Logged |
Caprika
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posted October 08, 2016 11:48 PM
Thank you so much
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Caprika
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posted October 09, 2016 12:02 AM
MB. I asked how your ex felt about you back then when you were together 2 of wands - 2 of pents - king of pents - 5 of swords - 10 og cups He was feeling like you were a truely loving, bonded family, a unit. He was looking forward to better times ahead. However, early in the relationship, he was placed in a situation to choose between two options. There was some hard battle/obstacle too which spoiled the good start. He walked out of this relationship out of pride, as if he was being hurt by you/ betrayed by you of sort, so he had to choose walking out. He didnt feel good about it but he had to do it. There was no winner in this situation. You were both hurt. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted October 09, 2016 12:19 AM
hmm - --- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
And we  and we dance,  cause we just like to dance IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 09, 2016 12:20 AM
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Thank you so much, do you see them getting even closer?
it definitely feels more friendly to me than romantic, however I think he does feel that she is a good listener and is empathic and an understanding person to speak with IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 09, 2016 12:28 AM
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Originally posted by Caprika:
MB. I asked how your ex felt about you back then when you were together 2 of wands - 2 of pents - king of pents - 5 of swords - 10 og cups He was feeling like you were a truely loving, bonded family, a unit. He was looking forward to better times ahead. However, early in the relationship, he was placed in a situation to choose between two options. There was some hard battle/obstacle too which spoiled the good start. He walked out of this relationship out of pride, as if he was being hurt by you/ betrayed by you of sort, so he had to choose walking out. He didnt feel good about it but he had to do it. There was no winner in this situation. You were both hurt.
thank you girl, I do think that it's interesting that the last card was 10 of cups. He was choosing between me and the lifestyle requirements I had for him ( NO ILLEGAL **** ) and living the gangsta life lol
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poochycat
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posted October 09, 2016 12:52 AM
Hi MissyThanks for my reading. J is on holidays right now so I'm not sure if he is being passive or just having fun and not answering e-mails. For you... scythe, man, cross, coffin This reading is clear in that no, he is not coming back or rather your relationship with him has come to an end. (coffin) The scythe in the beginning is showing the past and bad words being spoken, disharmony. It is shadowing man. The cross is showing a burden which you must bear, a struggle, one after the other unfortunately. I asked why he left... man, fox, child, mountain It's interesting that man is right next to fox. It is showing that he was probably behaving in an unethical manner because he was feeling trapped. You have this shadowing child which is showing his behavior, very immature and (child-like). The mountain as your clarifier is showing obstacles which he still needs to overcome. Sorry it was more positive for you. **I did a reading for you in one of your most recent threads. Not sure which one but one of the two most recent ones. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted October 09, 2016 12:59 AM
^^^ I think the mountain meant that he wanted to adventure and tackle things of his own wishes that he thinks are important (things that have a sense of wonder and opportunity)then again i grew up with them - --- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
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missblyss
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posted October 09, 2016 01:17 AM
yeah it kinda makes sense at some levellike we were really young, he was 18 lol. we were together so long. I think we both felt like we couldn't do what we wanted together. Like I wanna go to burning man and he don't **** with that. I also like to go to nude beaches and shake my rumpus and he likes to get in fights and drink 30 packs lol IP: Logged |
soren
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posted October 09, 2016 01:23 AM
hey @MB i'd appreciate it if every time you quoted me you could edit out my signature, so it appears more like how an official signature would work on this web page. thanks if you can, i'l get to what you said after this.IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted October 09, 2016 02:03 AM
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Originally posted by soren:
hey @MB i'd appreciate it if every time you quoted me you could edit out my signature, so it appears more like how an official signature would work on this web page. thanks if you can, i'l get to what you said after this.
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