posted October 11, 2016 12:04 PM            

Mine: Why has P. been silent since yesterday's evening?

posted October 11, 2016 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
NM Will talk soon.

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posted October 11, 2016 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Of course you may Enneline What's your question?

Mine: Why has P. been silent since yesterday's evening?

Thanks!

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sorry for the short delay but i was unable to access to the server for a while.

for your q i pulled:

the hermit rx judgement ace of wands
-> i have no idea if P is a love interest or a friend or... but this looks like that he/she wanted to be really alone, cut off from anyone else, in order to make a final call/decision which should lead to a new start.
I pulled some clarifiers like 10 of pents, 6 of cups and temperance. I think he/she was busy (either literally or in his/her mind/thoughts) about past hurts, past contact and he wanted to spend time with that. He/she wants a fresh new start, moving on from the old one resp. healing the old one.

Does that make any sense?

posted October 11, 2016 01:17 PM            

How will J react if he doesn't see me on the 21st? Conversely how would he treat me if I did come in? We volunteer together on Fridays.

Since he will be away for three weeks I'm sure he has been pondering our relationship. I would love to know he discussed me with his brother. Do you feel he will want to talk shortly after he gets back? I know a lot of questions but you have always been extremely accurate and I trust your readings.

Right back with your reading.

posted October 11, 2016 01:20 PM            

Thank you. I'm curious to know what he'll say to me next, you know - meaning, if he will acknowledge that it's not cool to leave me hanging... Or if he'll just reply like it's nothing. Do you feel this thing he's not happy about has to do with me or something not related?

I'm happy to know the communication between you and A. is in motion again. Here's what the cards have to say about your question...

Queen of Cups (Rx) | 5 of Cups (Rx) | Ace of Cups (Rx)
Clarifier: Ace of Wands (Rx)
- The 6 of Wands (Rx) popped out during the shuffle

Oh dear... I'll just sumarize this into one word: defeated. I'm not sure what happened, but whatever it was, it looks like he took it as a blow to his self-esteem... This even looks like he may be thinking you're not interested anymore or that he has no chance with you. I don't think he is looking into things clearly either... It does look like the conversation affected him in a negative way. He may need some time to get his perceptions right, as right now it looks like his ego is hurt and he can't think right when the foundation of his thoughts is embarrassement, rejection, etc... Let me know if this makes sense, I could pull some more cards if needed.

posted October 11, 2016 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Intuitivefish,

Thank you. I'm curious to know what he'll say to me next, you know - meaning, if he will acknowledge that it's not cool to leave me hanging... Or if he'll just reply like it's nothing. Do you feel this thing he's not happy about has to do with me or something not related?

I'm happy to know the communication between you and A. is in motion again. Here's what the cards have to say about your question...

Queen of Cups (Rx) | 5 of Cups (Rx) | Ace of Cups (Rx)
Clarifier: Ace of Wands (Rx)
- The 6 of Wands (Rx) popped out during the shuffle

Oh dear... I'll just sumarize this into one word: defeated. I'm not sure what happened, but whatever it was, it looks like he took it as a blow to his self-esteem... This even looks like he may be thinking you're not interested anymore or that he has no chance with you. I don't think he is looking into things clearly either... It does look like the conversation affected him in a negative way. He may need some time to get his perceptions right, as right now it looks like his ego is hurt and he can't think right when the foundation of his thoughts is embarrassement, rejection, etc... Let me know if this makes sense, I could pull some more cards if needed.

Onto yours next Enneline!

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His aproach turned me off so I was a bit cold. In other words tables got turned on him. Not on purpouse but his aproach was off. So yes it makes sense.

Would it do good if I contact him? Would he reply?

P not being happy is not related to you its like his job or general life he is overthinking and just thinking not making changes but he is all ib poor me mode.
I dont see him talking about it. Seems to me he will pretend nothing happened and will try to just go on as if all is fine.

posted October 11, 2016 01:33 PM            

9 swords, 2 swords, 4 swords

posted October 11, 2016 01:43 PM            

That sounds like him, isolating himself when too much is on his mind or in a low mood... You could be right about that, as he has been through a tough time recently and I actually saw him online on a specific app earlier today, so I'm sure he's talking to the person connected to those hurts. Maybe something's up, I don't know. Thank you!

About your question...

4 of Pentacles (Rx) | 7 of Swords (Rx) | 7 of Cups (Rx)
Clarifier: 10 of Swords (Rx)

posted October 11, 2016 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Enneline,

That sounds like him, isolating himself when too much is on his mind or in a low mood... You could be right about that, as he has been through a tough time recently and I actually saw him online on a specific app earlier today, so I'm sure he's talking to the person connected to those hurts. Maybe something's up, I don't know. Thank you!

About your question...

4 of Pentacles (Rx) | 7 of Swords (Rx) | 7 of Cups (Rx)
Clarifier: 10 of Swords (Rx)

This looks like a no to me Enneline... It feels to me he is ending a chapter in his life through this moving. I think by doing that, he would feel he would be getting back to old habits and patterns that he feels would not add a beneficial value to his life. These feelings could not be directed towards you, but you are related to that phase in his life that he wishes to transform. Makes sense? Let me know if you need any clarification.

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oh, happy to hear that my spread resonates

posted October 11, 2016 02:06 PM            

Yes, he's totally analytical... Very sensitive, but often sets logic as a priority. I can't really say if that's what's going on with him, but it wouldn't surprise me. Thanks a lot!

- How he reacts if he does not see you -

Queen of Pentacles | 9 of Swords | 10 of Pentacles (Rx)
Clarifier: The Moon (Rx)

Not good LOL. Very conflicted and anxious as to why you'd not be there. I think he is expecting to see you then and might think that he is responsible for your absence. Feelings of guilt, I'm getting... That would definitely shake him a bit. Almost like a wake-up call.

- How he treats you if he sees you -

King of Swords | 7 of Swords | 8 of Cups
Clarifier: 6 of Cups (Rx)

You mentioned he is the King of Swords, well, here he pops lol. Difficult guy this is, huh? He would feel better by seeing you but that wouldn't really have an effect on him... I see him being closed off, wanting some distance from you at the time... It seems to me that he would want to be in his "space". So not much progresso I see with that.

Hoping for the best!

posted October 11, 2016 02:23 PM            

Okay, I'm glad it related. It guess he was overly confident when he approached you.

The Emperor | Ace of Cups (Rx) | 2 of Pentacles (Rx)
Clarifier: 4 of Swords

He would reply. And that would "clean" the vibrations a bit, as in he would feel better to know that what happened in that conversation is not being carried to the presente or affecting a possible future between you. I still see a lot of instability and doubts though... It seems to me that he would not know what would be the right move to make or the right thing to say. He wouldn't want to take the chance of making more mistakes.

Thanks for the clarification, at least it's not something against me... But I won't be happy when he comes around like it's nothing, of course. I battled a lot to forgive, understand and overcome his immature ways - and he's aware of that -, but still keeps acting like he doesn't need to make an effort. It doesn't help much to be nice in this world, does it.

posted October 11, 2016 02:57 PM            

May I ask another please?
Do you think J. commented with P. that she saw me today? If so, what did she say?

posted October 11, 2016 03:02 PM            

Why did he chose not to reply?

posted October 11, 2016 03:16 PM            

Let's see what comes up now.

Knight of Wands (Rx) | 10 of Wands (Rx) | 4 of Spades (Rx)
Clarifier: The Lovers

I think he wants to avoid confrontations and having to explain why he did what he did etc etc... A bit like running away from problems and specially ones that he's guilty of. He doesn't wish to make his situation worse and I don't think he is confident that he can make things better just as of now. He does wish for reconnection, though. So his wishes don't go along with his actions.

posted October 11, 2016 07:16 PM            

Thanks for my readings. Haha that would shake the boy up a bit? Alrighty I won't show up. Give him a week to realize how he has been treating me. I think I asked he if would want to have a talk shortly after he got back. Do you feel this might do it?