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poochycat
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posted October 20, 2016 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Adimi,

Thanks for getting back to me. I did e-mail J and said that I miss him. You were right in that he didn't say it back. Just talked about the debates and the election coming up UGH! I really think he is afraid to talk about anything personal with me! O.K. for you...

7 swords, 5 wands, judgement, *knight of wands

With the seven swords and five wands I don't think things will be going too well for awhile. You have the judgement card as your future so this is showing making a new start. Your clarifier was the knight of wands. They are usually fair in coloring. The wands is fire. So Sagitarius, Aries, Leo would be the ones to look for.

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Adimi
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posted October 20, 2016 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks poochy for the feedback and the reading. Let me know if he shows any reaction to tommorrow! xx

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VacantGazer
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posted October 20, 2016 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Adimi, I do feel like to be honest, i fill with these fears that im boring or something lol. I will let you know

Your reading,

the 5 pents fell out while i shuffled

justice, page of swords, ace of swords, the high priestess, the world

clarified by; 2 of cups, 9 of wands, 7 swords

I think it might be a little bit frosty at times. I think you will start of trying to be as friendly as possible and make the interaction feel very balanced, then there might be some words spoken and someone might be feeling a bit defensive. But I think you will both work hard at making it better.

I pulled 3 more cards and got 7 pents, the chariot, the queen of cups.

I think you will both be very invested into it and trying to exert some patience, someone might get a bit sensitive though.

With the 5 as the main theme, I think it might mark a turning point in the way you both communicate, in that I think it will get better, with the world as outcome.

So in short, a bit frosty at times, it will start of ok, someone might get/feel sensitive/defensive but you will work hard to resolve it, i think it all works out in the end though. I guess the spread is saying perhaps you will both be clearing things up a bit.

Let me know how that goes and if this makes sense, it was a confusing spread.

Pls dnt quote

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poochycat
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posted October 21, 2016 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi

I think I mentioned that I sent him an e-mail to say I wouldn't see him and asked about his holiday. Right off the bat talked about politics and mentioned something very small about being home. He did say see you next week. No emotions out of him and I'm wondering if he truly would miss me.

No reading, Adimi, just venting

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Adimi
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posted October 22, 2016 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Vacant ,

You were right. He contacted me just a few hours after your reading - it was late night and I was already in bed. Then he sent me a couple more texts in the morning.

He apologised & admitted he was wrong in the way he reacted and we talked some more... We worked it out but I still don't have quite a feel if we are actually "back to normal". It looks to me that he wants to be and I'll try to make that happen, but we'll see. We may both be a little deffensive at first (we're both Virgo Moons lol), or maybe just me... But I'll make an effort to be open with him and forget about what happened because it was not important anyway.

Thank you for the readings!

Poochy,

He doesn't feel comfortable with the emotions he gets from you, I'm not even sure he has properly acknowledged them inside of himself. So it's only natural that he won't express them to you, as he doesn't have something solid to express right now... It doesn't mean it didn't affect him though. Just be patient and try to focus on what makes you happy. xx If you don't invest as much energy on him, he'll feel it too.

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poochycat
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posted October 22, 2016 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much, Adimi

What you have just said makes so much sense. A big hug for you

I guess it's because I never felt much compassion from my ex and I am recently divorced. I have known J longer than my ex though and the relationship was always platonic and we were friends. Since we had sex everything changed and yes, we became uncomfortable with each other. I am going to take your advice and try to not be so emotional around him and show that I do have a busy life. I won't e-mail him this week unless he sends me one first and will be happy but not "hanging on to him" when I see him next Friday LOL Thanks again sweet girl. XX

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Adimi
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posted October 22, 2016 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes poochy, make yourself a priority - not him. That will immediatly shake the energies between you, which is needed.

It's no problem.

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VacantGazer
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posted October 22, 2016 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you on the feedback Adimi

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