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posted October 27, 2016 12:18 PM            

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I have some questions re J and would love to exchange with you too

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posted October 27, 2016 01:00 PM            

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Sure! As soon as I get home I can. Go ahead and post your questions though!

I know the last time we exchanged you saw L as being done. We are still communicating some but as friends only. So far, you are the only one saying he's done and you seem to be right. Is he still done and only wanting friendship?

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posted October 27, 2016 01:55 PM            

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Hi Dustib

I'm glad I clued in to this for you.

judgement, 5 cups, king of cups, *4 wands

Well with the judgement card it is showing that the two of you are still together to work something out. Karma. It still doesn't look like an official "relationship" though however the two of you will be communicating. The five cups is showing a lot of feelings of disappointment still but he will show his compassionate side (king of cups). Four wands is showing that he needs time to rest and think things through. **You still have things to work out,that's why you are still communicating but yes friendship only.

I would like to know what kind of relationship J wants with me.

Is he still involved with B

Is there a new woman in his life.

I can get back to you later as well.

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posted October 27, 2016 02:14 PM            

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OK I will pull as soon as I get home. I wonder why everyone seems him and I getting back together... odd

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posted October 27, 2016 09:18 PM            

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I would like to know what kind of relationship J wants with me.

Ring,hourglass, dancer, joker and woman. Interesting enough this is about commitment but also about taking time and how anything can happen along the way. I think he has some issues he has to work out as he feels a loneliness when he's in love so until he works out his issues, you aren't going to see forward movement from him. The woman card is showing you are important to him even if he doesn't show it. That joker card though is showing that things aren't going to go as you want...anything can happen...he has to get his stuff worked out first. Patience is key

Is he still involved with B
Heart, ship and snake. More negatives then positives so even if she's around...there are no feelings there with the ship being a card of letting go and it's after the heart. He has no feelings for her.

Is there a new woman in his life
woman, dancer, dog, man, hands. No no one is in his life right now in terms of a love relationahip, he is hanging out friends because he just isn't looking for that love relationship or to feel lonely in love right now. Pulled 2 more cards to clarify and got the joker and scissors, he's tired of arguments and separations and the not knowing what is going to happen with the relationship aspect...

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posted October 28, 2016 02:09 AM            

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Thank you Dustib

Just got home after a very long day and it is close to midnight here so off to bed. What you read for me makes a lot of sense. Let me know if you would like to exchange again.

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posted October 28, 2016 08:50 AM            

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Will I see him Saturday night? He invited me over and I told him if I came over that it mean something. So what will happen.

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posted October 28, 2016 11:46 AM            

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I guess you are talking about L? I can get back to you tonight. Hope you don't mind waiting a bit.

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posted October 28, 2016 12:34 PM            

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Yes L. I told him I would like to come over but I wasn't looking for a friends with benefits like I think he wants.

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posted October 28, 2016 08:33 PM            

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Hmm...this is interesting considering what has happened between you two.

birds, bouquet, lilies, *rider

So with the birds shadowing rider it is showing that he wants to talk (birds) and has a message (rider) for you. The bouquet then the lilies are puzzling me a bit as these cards usually show passionate times but we don't have the lovers or the devil.

I feel with these cards that yes you will be seeing him for a talk. There were no other women involved so I feel he wants to just have a nice evening with you but there is the potential?? of something more, not sure. I remember pulling the judgement card for a tarot reading and this is showing karma so there IS something the two of you have to work out. The bouquet and lilies are throwing me

I saw J today and it was very fun and flirty I'm dying to know though when he will want to have a talk about our relationship as many have said it's coming.

Also if I asked for a get together would he agree. O.K. get back to me. XX

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posted October 28, 2016 09:07 PM            

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Bouquet could be a nice evening. Lilies are sometimes pure intentions. Some people see lilies as sex....I never have. But very interesting spread. There has been no contact today and I will not reach out to him so will he contact me tonight or tomorrow then?

I'll go pull for you right now and ask your question. So glad you saw J today!

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posted October 28, 2016 09:42 PM            

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I asked if he would agree to a get together if you asked and got snake, birds and wasp. I think he would make an excuse honestly on why he couldn't make it. I just don't think he's ready for that yet...the birds are about nervousness and the snake is about complications. The wasp is about trouble in love....he's just not ready for that step yet and he knows that is what you are wanting. I would let him make the move

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posted October 28, 2016 10:31 PM            

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Haha

Will try to figure THIS one out LOL!

ring, birds, bouquet

Not sure what date but yes, big yes! He will contact you with bells on. There's that bouquet again!

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posted October 28, 2016 10:43 PM            

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Forgot to ask if you feel up to it but no worries.

Is J going on a cruise with his family in the next few months.

Is he going to Mexico alone.

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posted October 29, 2016 10:33 AM            

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For both I'm using the dream oracle

For the cruise I got peacock, ring and turtle. I think this is something that they normally do, a family vacation type thing so yes I pretty sure he will.

Mexico: will he go alone
I got comet, feather, bread, ladder and turtle. I almost feel like with this spread...I started off with 3 then pulled 2 more after the bread that the Mexico trip is a mix between work and vacation for him. The bread is about lessons but then I pulled the ladder card and that's about success and the turtle is about patience and wisdom. So if anyone does go with him I almost feel it's going to be maybe someone from work or someone that can help him move up in his career even or help him escape from work. The comet is about letting go. Do you know what the trip to Mexico is for?

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posted October 29, 2016 10:35 AM            

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Silence from L yesterday. On one hand, I want him to contact me but on the other, I do want to see him tonight so I want to reach out to him.....so torn! I'm not doing anything tho as I feel if he wants to see me, he will contact me

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posted October 29, 2016 11:36 AM            

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Hi Dusti

I still get that L will contact you, maybe a bit later than tonight though.

J is retired so work related is out however I'm thinking it could be with someone we volunteer with. Debra? or Barb?

Leave me your questions if you like.

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posted October 29, 2016 01:06 PM            

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OK for him, it is like a job though even if it's on a volunteer basis I think. Something he takes seriously correct?

No questions right now...just impatient but I know I have to let him approach me right now to truly know.

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posted October 29, 2016 07:22 PM            

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We have talked, not sure yet if I will see him. He does want to see me but he has reservations and I do understand why. Told him we could hang out as friends only and keep our hands to ourselves. I feel this is a good step for both of us after what happened...and I think him opening up is a good thing too. So I have some hope but I am also giving up at this point and putting him into a friend only spot in my life because I think that is what he will be because of his fears of getting involved....very sad because this man showed me that he possesses the qualities I want and while not perfect, I accept his flaws. Such is life though and I know if I hold on, I'm only hurting myself more. Thank you for all of your help! I truly hope I'm wrong here and he proves me wrong!

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posted October 29, 2016 08:24 PM            

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Thanks for sharing with me, Dustib.

Let me know any updates. XX

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posted October 30, 2016 01:10 AM            

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I am over here...he is talking to someone....what is she to him?

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posted October 30, 2016 12:43 PM            

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Not sure what your question is but I see Intuitive gave you a good reading so do want to ask something else? Would love to exchange if you're game.

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posted November 03, 2016 01:48 PM            

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His message was he doesn't want a relationship. I'm taking that as my cue that I need to walk away as I can't be just friends with him. I do have a text I'm going to send him that is very nice and tells him that I feel he needs to go away to figure out what he wants but also leaves the door open in case he's being honest and not saying he doesn't want a relationship with me like I'm hearing. My question is, how is he going to take getting the message? I don't expect some undying confession of love and do expect him to disappear out of my life unfortunately but I know I can't lose something I don't have but I feel I have to do this because I am not OK with just friends or the friends with benefits he'd like to have. I need to do this for me although I'm sad about losing him. How is he going to feel?

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posted November 03, 2016 02:14 PM            

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Hi Dustib

Here's your reading...star, knights of wands, 10 swords, page of wands

With the star he will reply quickly with the knight of wands showing this. This also shows a move which he is doing. He will wish you well but unfortunately the relationship will not be progressing. I pulled the 10 wands for you before. Page of wands is showing him responding to you telling you this. So sorry.

Could you answer my question in my most recent thread?

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posted November 03, 2016 03:07 PM            

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So he will completely disappear? I figured as much

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