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Topic: Relationship with mother
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apollo6284
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posted October 30, 2016 09:21 PM
  
The relationship between my mother and I has been pretty bad for as long as I can remember. I don't think I've found any telltale signs besides the fact that I have 2 Tsquares: Saturn-Sun-Mars and Saturn-Neptune-Mars. The missing leg is in my 4th house aka the mother, family, and home.
What I'm wondering is, will there be a time where we finally get along? Here's my chart:
 My mother's:
Our synastry:
 Thanks in advance! And as a sidenote, if anyone wants to tell me any career aptitudes, that'd be pretty cool too 
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LostSoulRebecca
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posted October 31, 2016 02:20 AM
It takes me quite some time to take a deeper look into charts, but on the first glance I notice that her Saturn is squaring your Venus; it could mean that she doesn't appreciate your love. Also I noticed her natal Venus/Mars conjunction which makes her very emotional and can sometimes make her to be too pushy or coming on too strong. That could bother you from time to time since you have Mercury/Moon conjunction in Capricorn which is all about tendency to rationalize feelings; Capricorn Moon is also very hard to deal with when it comes to emotions.Hope this helps a little!  LSR
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apollo6284
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posted November 01, 2016 04:29 AM
Thanks so much for the insight LSR! I can attest for everything you've said, except for the Saturn sq Venus. Long story short, our conflict's gone back long enough to make me disillusioned about motherly love, so tbh, I don't really know how to express things like love and care for another person :POops, last sentence was supposed to be a plain statement...hope I didn't sound extremely cold lol! 
Would our differences be because of my Saturn opposing my mother's Jupiter? IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted November 01, 2016 05:45 AM
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Originally posted by apollo6284:
Oops, last sentence was supposed to be a plain statement...hope I didn't sound extremely cold lol!
No worries, you didn't sound extremly cold or anything like cold.  quote:
Originally posted by apollo6284:
Thanks so much for the insight LSR! I can attest for everything you've said except for the Saturn sq Venus. Long story short, our conflict's gone back long enough to make me disillusioned about motherly love, so tbh, I don't really know how to express things like love and care for another person.
But that is exactly the case with Saturn sq Venus. As I said, chances are that your mother didn't or still doesn't appreciate your love; so no matter what you would do, she wouldn't be able to show you love back, she wouldn't be able to teach you how to express love, emotions etc. I guess Saturn sq Venus did play a major role in your childhood and regarding your relationship with your mother. :/
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Originally posted by apollo6284:
Would our differences be because of my Saturn opposing my mother's Jupiter?
Well, it could be a factor in it. But more important I find the fact that Saturn and Jupiter touch each other ASC / DESC axis. That is far more important, I think. ------------------
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apollo6284
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posted November 01, 2016 07:21 PM
Oh, then Saturn-venus is definitely a theme in my life! When friends come crying to me, the only condolence I can think to offer is to awkwardly pat them on the back. And then they look so confused haha! I think it's also why I'm so selfish: as embarrassing as it is to type, I can only think for myself, since it's how I've always lived. But hey, at least over the years, I've been working to get rid of this bad habit!  quote:
Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
Well, it could be a factor in it. But more important I find the fact that Saturn and Jupiter touch each other ASC / DESC axis. That is far more important, I think.
Hmm, I guess I knew a lot less about astrology than I thought I did. If you don't mind, can you elaborate on this?I know I said thanks already, but I seriously appreciate the time that you took to dissect our charts. This situation's been plaguing us for years, and it's actually the reason I even started astrology! So thank you so, so much! IP: Logged | |
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