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Topic: @orange
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 06:56 PM
are you around? care to exchange? I'm feeling pretty down and lost right nowIP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 07:14 PM
What's up, girl How is your saga going?I am out right now but will be back in an hour or so. Marvelous weather here this evening. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 07:18 PM
he's still ignoring me, I did see him Saturday but he told me he does not want a relationship YET has a dating profile up looking for a relationship and is talking to multiple women. I spent the night with him Saturday BEFORE knowing all of this....I'm VERY hurt! I feel like I need to tell him that he needs to figure everything out and that maybe I will be around when he does....but what will be the outcome? He's pretty much already telling me he's done with ignoring me yet I know he wants to keep the sex side which is not what I want...I want all or nothing! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 07:21 PM
do you have any questions?IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 08:47 PM
but what is your question? your mind seems to be like all over the place. And based on what you said, it looks like he wants something different. Sorry about what you are going thru, hunIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 08:52 PM
I have 2...is he being honest and he's not ready because he has a dating profile up and is talking to other women so I feel like he just doesn't want one with me. But if I tell him I understand and I want him to he sure because I deserve someone who is sure and I might be around if he figures it out, will he come back into my life? And if so, when? I don't know what to do. I'm hurt that he is telling me he doesn't want a relationship yet has a dating profile up looking for one and is talking to multiple women and ignoring me. It sounds like he's done...is he? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 08:55 PM
well, yeah!!IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 08:58 PM
Is this a permanent thing?IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 09:02 PM
i am just going to pull one time and it is for his intentions:Crossroads - Moon ( Book) - Lilly - Letter ( Rider + Fox) it looks like he is indecisive right now, he does have some secret contacts/romances going on, he is in a horny state of mind, and judging by the last card - he does text multiple women, all are new to him. This is what he wants at this point. Not a relationship but he likes the flirting stage, the initial stage with several women. Seems like you are better off him, Dusty. he is not the one for you, at least not right now. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 09:03 PM
I am all over the place for sure. I have been told he'll be back and this is a shock to me for sure. I wasn't looking to jump into a relationship either but was the ultimate goal in the long run. I feel the best thing is to end contact at this point for me for sure. Just wish he would have been honest...no one likes to hear that someone doesn't want a relationship then find the dating profile where he's looking for a relationship! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 09:04 PM
Will he ever re-enter my life with good intentions? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 09:06 PM
I think, based on the cards above, especially the Letter + Rider + Fox - he likes the initial stage of a " relationship" , the flirting stage. He is not in for an actual full blown relationship. He is on this site only to get off other women desire for connection and flirt with them. I am sorry you go thru this, my friend. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 09:13 PM
Had hoped he was just going thru this because he wasn't sure what was happening with his job like he told me....and it wasn't a long term thing. That there was actually a chance of something in the future between us. *sigh* boy I have some luck huh. And I really let my guard down with him....last week was such a positive reading. I really hoped he would be back with good intentions at some point.Thank you IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 09:19 PM
maybe he will be! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 31, 2016 09:25 PM
Somehow I doubt it after your pull just now. Just disheartening but that's how it goes. Thank you so much! Let me know if you have any questions IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 09:48 PM
if you feel like pulling, maybe see how my week will goIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 01, 2016 07:11 AM
volcano, curtain, feet,devil and parrot. It looks like there are going to be some emotional talks but that these are going to bring about a new freedom for you. Once these talks are out of the way, you are going to feel a huge release and feel like you are able to go a new direction in your life. Also, beware of gossip next week IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 01, 2016 07:15 AM
Thanks, dustyThis is a strange deck of cards that you bought but i like it! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 01, 2016 10:13 AM
I do too. Just wish I could pull for myself. Lol Can I ask you to pull for me and see if he will ever come back with good intentions? You are always accurate for me and I appreciate it. I will be sending him a text later telling him that I think he needs to go away and figure out what he wants on his own and that I only want his happiness. And that I want someone who is completely in because I dont want to be with someone who isn't 100% about being with me. And that I hope I'm still here when he's ready but he needs to be alone to figure things out. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 01, 2016 12:22 PM
Rider - Child - Sun - Snake - Dogyes, he will turn around and things will be back on track, almost like starting again. I can see, however, that further down the road he may get distracted again, and it's possible that after time you will end being just friends again. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 04, 2016 06:57 PM
how did your week go? wanted to see if my pull was accurate or not IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 04, 2016 07:45 PM
your reading was very much on point. There were a series of emotional talks and yes, there was a tension release afterwards. how are things on your end? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 04, 2016 08:38 PM
very bad! I am having a very emotional time. He continues to text me and it's just making it harder. I told him tonight that I am pretty much done because I can't do it anymore....I know he's talking to other women and I just can't handle it. That he's either all in or all out but I can't do the half in or out crap he's doing. I don't expect a response at all but I had to do it. It's too emotionally draining. He's 46 and I think he's talking to a 25 year old...SERIOUSLY?? wow! I just am sad....I want to believe things will work out between us but I just can't and don't anymore. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2153 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 05, 2016 03:58 PM
would you like to exchange again? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5761 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2016 04:29 PM
ok, let's doIP: Logged |