posted November 20, 2016 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
No it was a relationship. Sorry I didn't connect. Not sure if you really connected either which does happen as we know. But I do appreciate your time and energy and maybe you did connect and you are spot one! Time will tell. Lol thank you again!

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posted November 20, 2016 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Umm yes J is a real person. His name is John. He will be going on holidays as of November 25th and returning December 16th so I was asking what our relationship will be like then. How was your reading?

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posted November 20, 2016 06:19 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by calliope23:
I'll be back tonight with more for all the above requests from:

Astro
Poochy
Cherful
dusti[/QUOTE]

posted November 20, 2016 06:21 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by dustib:
Wow 6 months wasn't a relationship? We were in a relationship and he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. That's when the dating site came to be and we stopped talking.... OK thanks [/QUOTE]

posted November 20, 2016 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Sorry let me be more clear. When you had asked the question... no you were not in a relationship. To the point where he was already looking for a new lady to date. So whether it was in the past or not is not where I am getting confused. You had a relationship in the past but at the present you do not and therefore I couldn't pick up a romantic relationship.

QUOTE]Originally posted by dustib:
[b]Wow 6 months wasn't a relationship? We were in a relationship and he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. That's when the dating site came to be and we stopped talking.... OK thanks

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posted November 22, 2016 08:23 AM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by poochycat:
We would love to hear back from you when you are able [/QUOTE]

posted November 22, 2016 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Cherful

You are right that I can be stubborn. I'm a Taurus after all haha. Thank you for your readings. Calliope's readings were very on point as well as yours.

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posted November 22, 2016 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Hi Cherful

If I start a thread would you be up to exchange?

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posted November 22, 2016 06:51 PM            

re: what's coming in romantically...

Temperance flipped over as I was cutting the deck, so I think this is about waiting. It sucks to be stuck in a lull and to have patience, but I imagine the current cosmic climate is asking you to try to be still and soak up or work on whatever other lessons are heading your way this time. I don't think romance is what you need at present, but there are probably other more important (though less exciting) things you need to focus on and engage with right now.

3 PENTACLES - KING PENTACLES - DEATH (all Rx)

Having these all Rx enhances the meaning of temperance for me, like things are slow moving, if it were astrology...things would be retrograde right now.

posted November 22, 2016 07:05 PM            

4 SWORDS

LOVERS (Rx) - 6 SWORDS - JUDGMENT (Rx)

Lovers in the past here is clearly pointing to things between you and J disintegrating, but the fact that is it showing up makes me think it's a pointed reminder that things did not work for you before and to keep that in mind as you move forward. Whatever your relationship meant, whatever obstacles there were, whatever things led to the end of it: spirit wants you to know to keep those in mind or else I don't think this reminder to the upset/end in that relationship would be showing up. ESPECIALLY with 6 Swords in the present...because it means you're feeling hopeful. Whether this is hope for J or hope for someone new, or even both, you can't forget what brought you to your current place (your journey to recovery/feeling okay again) and your current desire for something better than what you previously had with J. Judgment Rx makes me think you will be unable to forgive J or whatever faults he continues to bring to the table, so I would suggest just letting go of him honestly. Four of swords falling out reminds you to have the mental power to do what you know deep down is right.

I pulled a clarifier to see if someone better would come in if you let J go, and I'm using it also as a yes/no card:

King of Cups

Someone who is more diplomatic and open minded. I feel like I got this in your previous reading on J, but have to go check. This is also unclear whether it's yes or no because his dark side is insecurity. I actually think spirit had me pull this because J is currently literally obscuring your desire to believe there is someone better out there for you. I think previously I said J was trying to prove a point with you, and my sense is that if you take his word for it that he has changed, you will be disappointed all over again.

posted November 22, 2016 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Cherful:

re: what's coming in romantically...

Temperance flipped over as I was cutting the deck, so I think this is about waiting. It sucks to be stuck in a lull and to have patience, but I imagine the current cosmic climate is asking you to try to be still and soak up or work on whatever other lessons are heading your way this time. I don't think romance is what you need at present, but there are probably other more important (though less exciting) things you need to focus on and engage with right now.

3 PENTACLES - KING PENTACLES - DEATH (all Rx)

Having these all Rx enhances the meaning of temperance for me, like things are slow moving, if it were astrology...things would be retrograde right now.

Three P Rx generally suggests that your career/work/school is something you're growing restless with, but since we are talking about romance, I'll apply to that. Perhaps it was what you were putting your energy into it for some time, but now you're growing tired of that stasis or the obstacles you've faced there....a good reason why you're eager to find romance to shake things up. King P in present also points toward some sort of work ethic/devoted effort, he's someone very rigid and also points to being stuck in a rut. He can also point to someone else who you thought was "it" but in getting to know him more you've come to find you're not necessarily too fond of this person....he sort of shattered the idea of ending up together, and so it's disappointing. In the present this should be happening now or soon, so keep an eye out for this one. King of P points to a Gemini, or someone with those placements. Death Rx in the present shows me you're refusing to accept some sort of change that may have occurred between the two first cards (some blend between work and romance potentially), and that's what is keeping you stuck (again another card indicating being stuck in limbo). I think the theme here is an overall feeling of needing to either come to terms with something that happened with someone in the past or maybe this King P Rx guy and letting that go to move forward, or taking all this static energy and reevaluating from a new perspective what it's trying to tell you about romance being something important for your journey in the next 1-3 months. Overall, it seems like nothing new is coming in, but there needs to be an objective withdrawal from the current situation in order to gain insight to what it is you're holding onto or feeling trapped by and working to resolve those forces.

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posted November 22, 2016 07:17 PM            

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cherful:

yeah, when I pulled all these cards I kept getting "career, career, career" but wanted to associate it to love since that's what you were asking about. maybe your work is actually overpowering your love life right now, something i felt when reading, but again didn't go into.

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posted November 22, 2016 07:26 PM            

sorry, i feel like you never connect with my readings/i never get a good read on your situations!

posted November 22, 2016 07:38 PM            

re: new jobs

KING WANDS - 10 WANDS (Rx) - MOON (Rx)

Haha, this is sorta funny: when I was shuffling for you I got all sorts of imagery of tall fir trees. And I pulled all wands for you (basically sticks, the way branches from a fir tree protrude from them) and the moon card in my deck has actual fir trees on it. I see finding a new job being relatively easy for you. You're charismatic and creative, a people person, and someone who everyone generally sees as likable. The 10 Wands Rx is good because it means there really won't be any sort of burden or difficulty in landing something new, and then the Moon Rx means you don't have a whole ton of self-doubt when it comes to the fact you can get a new position. Have you started looking yet or applying to anything? I feel like you've just been sort of grazing what's available, but I think you should definitely start to take action!

My sense with these cards is you'll find something in a creative industry, whether writing, art, teaching, media, just something a little bit less ordinary in the sense that you won't have super traditional hours or a traditional role (like a 9-5 number crunching job or government position, for example). You'll really enjoy what you end up with and will thrive.

I pulled six of swords as a clarifier, and I'm taking this to mean a sort of entering a new frame of mind (an offshoot of the "travel" meaning it indicates). You may actually take a job that involves frequent travel or maybe something with a longer commute.

posted November 22, 2016 07:54 PM            

re: renewal of physical relationship vs. friendship with J

High Priestess was first, again indicating that you already know the answer to this question but are resisting it.

Then I pulled 3 Cups (Rx) guessing he will offer friendship, if that? If he does, it would be more of a way to appease you. 3 Cups Rx also points to 3 people involved, with you being the third. You said he was with someone named B, right? And then 9 Swords (Rx) means you're getting all worked up when, really, this does not have to be a complicated issue.

Have you taken into account and fully appreciated the actions J is displaying and what those mean? Like the fact that he is with B? If he isn't with you, distance aside....isn't that saying something too?

I'm not trying to be harsh, I just keep getting cards that point to you already knowing what his view is on being together, but you don't want to accept it.

I also pulled Two wands (rx), which indicates being focused on a goal, but the dark side it getting so obsessed and anxious over it that you're actually losing control of being able to make decisions for yourself because you're too afraid to stray from, or are clinging too closely to, what is familiar, to your detriment.

posted November 22, 2016 08:10 PM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
dusti:

re: new jobs

KING WANDS - 10 WANDS (Rx) - MOON (Rx)

Haha, this is sorta funny: when I was shuffling for you I got all sorts of imagery of tall fir trees. And I pulled all wands for you (basically sticks, the way branches from a fir tree protrude from them) and the moon card in my deck has actual fir trees on it. I see finding a new job being relatively easy for you. You're charismatic and creative, a people person, and someone who everyone generally sees as likable. The 10 Wands Rx is good because it means there really won't be any sort of burden or difficulty in landing something new, and then the Moon Rx means you don't have a whole ton of self-doubt when it comes to the fact you can get a new position. Have you started looking yet or applying to anything? I feel like you've just been sort of grazing what's available, but I think you should definitely start to take action!

My sense with these cards is you'll find something in a creative industry, whether writing, art, teaching, media, just something a little bit less ordinary in the sense that you won't have super traditional hours or a traditional role (like a 9-5 number crunching job or government position, for example). You'll really enjoy what you end up with and will thrive.

I pulled six of swords as a clarifier, and I'm taking this to mean a sort of entering a new frame of mind (an offshoot of the "travel" meaning it indicates). You may actually take a job that involves frequent travel or maybe something with a longer commute.

I can't really glean what sort of industry exactly you'll be in, but again...it's something you're ready for and ready to jump into, and you will easily, but it won't be a super generic job/role.

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