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SunAscendant
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posted December 11, 2016 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm one big mess of emotions all the time. I get easily offended thus causing me to become easily angered and then when the person yells back I cry easily like a big baby! What in my chart produces this? Is it my Mercury in Aries (angry speech), Taurus sun (bullheaded stubborness that makes me unwilling to see another point of view), Cancer rising (crybaby) or my Capricorn moon/Saturn and Capricorn dominant chart (too tough and unyielding at times)?

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Brendan34
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posted December 12, 2016 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds a bit like me as well. I feel like the Cancer Ascendant causes us to absorb emotions, environments, vibes, other people's energy easily which leads to irritability and getting overwhelmed. I am prone to crying episodes, at times panic attacks but have worked on this.

I have Mercury in Aries and Moon in Capricorn also. The Aries Mercury would cause us to say things we don't think about that can be cutting but then realize later that you want to take it back. I've said a lot of stupid things but only to those I'm closest to and I feel like I am pretty quiet otherwise. I constantly try to take a step back, go for a walk when I'm upset. Exercise in general helps me a great deal with stress/anxiety.

The Cap. moon causes us to be standoffish at points, a bit of wanting to be in control, perfectionistic and being too hard on ourselves. We may seem cold to a significant other physically but we really feel deeply and are complex in this way. I feel Cap. moon people can have breakdowns, crying because they strive to be their best but then learn to just do what's enough. Like we can't handle stress. I have been very "all or none" in my life with working on things at points, which leads to anxiety.

With your Taurus influences this can also cause you to be stubborn, short tempered, etc.

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SunAscendant
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posted December 12, 2016 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brendan34:
Sounds a bit like me as well. I feel like the Cancer Ascendant causes us to absorb emotions, environments, vibes, other people's energy easily which leads to irritability and getting overwhelmed. I am prone to crying episodes, at times panic attacks but have worked on this.

I have Mercury in Aries and Moon in Capricorn also. The Aries Mercury would cause us to say things we don't think about that can be cutting but then realize later that you want to take it back. I've said a lot of stupid things but only to those I'm closest to and I feel like I am pretty quiet otherwise. I constantly try to take a step back, go for a walk when I'm upset. Exercise in general helps me a great deal with stress/anxiety.

The Cap. moon causes us to be standoffish at points, a bit of wanting to be in control, perfectionistic and being too hard on ourselves. We may seem cold to a significant other physically but we really feel deeply and are complex in this way. I feel Cap. moon people can have breakdowns, crying because they strive to be their best but then learn to just do what's enough. Like we can't handle stress. I have been very "all or none" in my life with working on things at points, which leads to anxiety.

With your Taurus influences this can also cause you to be stubborn, short tempered, etc.


Yeah you definitely get where I'm coming from. I do have an "all or nothing" mentality with lots of things unfortunately. I think making sure I do get regular exercise would help. Thanks!

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llewsacm
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posted December 13, 2016 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have someone around you who is triggering your asc? Perhaps someone with mars there? I am a cancer ascendant and notice that I react strongly to people whose mars falls close to mine (asc)...i get really teary eyed from it sometimes. I am not usually like that... it seems to be very present whenever I interact with someone who has mars in cancer.

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posted December 13, 2016 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Do you have someone around you who is triggering your asc? Perhaps someone with mars there? I am a cancer ascendant and notice that I react strongly to people whose mars falls close to mine (asc)...i get really teary eyed from it sometimes. I am not usually like that... it seems to be very present whenever I interact with someone who has mars in cancer.

No, but I am Capricorn dominant and my bf is a Capricorn rising, Cap sun, Cap Mercury and Cap dominant as well, but he has made me super happy. Nobody that I know with Mars in Cancer though.

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posted December 13, 2016 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So its just out of the blue or is someone making you feel more emotional than usual? I'm just curious. Maybe a certain transit?

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Brendan34
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posted December 13, 2016 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Do you have someone around you who is triggering your asc? Perhaps someone with mars there? I am a cancer ascendant and notice that I react strongly to people whose mars falls close to mine (asc)...i get really teary eyed from it sometimes. I am not usually like that... it seems to be very present whenever I interact with someone who has mars in cancer.

Interesting, my ex girlfriend has mars/venus both in cancer and I'm a cancer ascendant. This happened to me too.

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posted December 13, 2016 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
So its just out of the blue or is someone making you feel more emotional than usual? I'm just curious. Maybe a certain transit?

I don't think so?

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posted December 13, 2016 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok well, I hope you are feeling better!

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Kannon McAfee
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posted December 13, 2016 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natally, the tendency is indicated by Asc in Cancer opposite Moon & Uranus.

In addition, Moon is square Mercury in Aries. This may be the likely culprit with getting an idea in your head and your emotions involved in both your personal opinions and how you express them. Because these hard Moon-Mercury aspects get cognition and feelings all bunched into a corner, it is too easy to state your feelings as if they were facts, and state your intellectual point of view with unneeded emotion.

The good thing about that Moon-Mercury aspect is that it helps a Capricorn Moon person be more expressive of their feelings and more communicative of them.

Plus you have Moon parallel Neptune (21-22° South declination), which means it is easy for your emotions to get fuzzy edges around what are your emotions vs someone else's. You're looking for the peaceful or ideal scenario and when it is broken it feels personal and disappointing. Neptune deals with the ideal and our desire for it. This type of aspect can make it a challenge to accept the harsher earthly realities. In time, you'll learn more of how to see them as opportunities for finding the ideal within yourself and sharing it a bit at a time with others through acts of inclusion and love.

Water, Pisces, Cancer, Moon, Neptune factors increase sensitivity generally.

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