posted January 11, 2017 08:07 AM            

so yes, your relationaship has this pattern. you have to fight to sail through it. there are lot of factors that do not supoort your relationship but you have power to make it through. specially you awaken. you are like the more intuitive and balanced one. you have the upper hand means he really wishes to do things that make you feel special.

posted January 11, 2017 08:24 AM            

King of pentacles/10 of cups/The world

If he is the king of Pentacle, he seems to be more stable in his emotional and financial life or ready to become him right now. He wants to be happy and engage in a long-term relationship. It would seem that it is this maturity of no longer wanting to live for him drama and just enjoy a serious relationship with someone who understands what life is, with an ability to love. He seems to have entered upon making efforts.
There is a commitment made with a certain passion for the realization, to settle and to realize its dreams, this can create a family.
Some issues can be solved more quickly now around an emotional relationship, everything can be arranged. It can be about a relationship that can be committed and that becomes so because now things will become possible and are desired.
Something may have ended but is about to start over and take a more serious direction. It is about growth in the relationship and depth for an affective situation.

Does it make sens for you ?

posted January 11, 2017 09:07 AM            

Your reading is complete now...
The judment (jumped card):
This card points to the current issue: it can mean a difficult time in a relationship. He was able to judge you or you both had difficult words, accusations, suspicion thrown a little hard. There may be something more than the emotional that weighs in there.
It is reported that a relationship could be broken and that a healing time was needed. It can also indicate a state of anger for anger without one of you being really involved for a serious reason. Other things can be cumbersome and have nothing to do with you (career, work, finances, family ...)
Sometimes, in a relation, it is easier to start a fight than to really sit and talk about problems.
It is probably now a good time for the repair and regain a sense of freedom in communication and healing ...

posted January 11, 2017 02:04 PM            

1) does Ant have a clue how i feel for him?
2) how will i feel when Ant moves from the neighbourhood?

posted January 11, 2017 04:23 PM            

8 of swords/3 of wands/3 of cups

So, I think here the cards want to give you a kind of progression of possibilities in time ...

You may in the past have doubted your partnership or have felt some obstacles or you may feel trapped by circumstances, in any case limited. Perhaps you have doubts about the direction to take or how to manage things through this partnership and you may have felt overwhelmed, uncertain, and somewhat impotent. Maybe you find it difficult to feel the same wavelength as him.
Now you seem to have gone around the question and fallen back on your feet. You can do differently, look for greater opportunities. You can be anticipative and be able to anticipate obstacles when they arise. You can act more firmly, direct the actions you feel you have to lead and perhaps impose them more concretely by taking some form of responsibility in your partnership that you did not have before.
As this partnership gets working, you will be able to move forward with a team spirit, trust and common goals. You could even have very pleasant moments together self-confidence, support and also some moment of conviviality

does it make sens ?

posted January 12, 2017 04:55 AM            

So Ace of swords/9 of pentacles/2 of pentacles/knight of swords
There is a possibility of seeking objectivity and truth, of being able to discover facts in order to establish the truth. It seems that he is reflecting but he still doubts when things arise. Does he have a Carthese mind?
It seems there to exert some control over him as if he was going step by step. He seems to need to be in control of the situation to keep things in balance in him. It would struggle to let go on the intuitions of getting it really seems focused on analyzing the facts and occurrences happening between you two. He would have a kind of great caution with emotions and feelings, he is not insensitive but above all in control and in analysis.

posted January 12, 2017 05:25 AM            

9 of wands / the death / 9 of swords / 6 of cups
I guess the first card is about your current overall feeling. This indicates that you expect the worst and that you can have a cautious and guarded attitude. At the same time you would be in the feeling of not believing in an end while being afraid. You may be in a position of having to "hold on" and try to keep a balance and not give too much importance to your fears. You have endurance for this ...
There is going to be something that ends up in your relationship but that is mostly about a change in status but for you it is going from what is known to the unknown and you feel as if you are caught in the inevitable .
In fact you will feel anxious, tired but mostly because you will be in doubt and maybe some regrets about what you could not do, say ... There is like a phase of depression here.
But this will not last, you will be able to eventually feel good again, your consciousness can be quiet again. Joy will be back and maybe because of the sharing of something, it may be a gift, a bond that makes you feel good, some return about your relationship that can make you feel lighter and you Will make it possible to see things differently, perhaps from another angle. It seems that you will keep for him feelings around gift, exchange and sharing. The cards seem to show that you will be well surrounded and that you will take care of yourself or that taking care of others will do you good.

I send you gentle thoughts so that this separation can be as gentle as possible for you afterwards. I will withdraw for you if you give me another question for that.

posted January 12, 2017 07:24 AM            

but i really thank you for being so kind and help me out..i am really scared abour what will happen.
i mean i am okay now doing good but i dont know how will i feel when he will be gone..that part really scares me like anything..

posted January 12, 2017 07:47 AM            

I think I know what you are going to experience ... However, I hope that the intensity will be less heavy and overwhelming than for me ... There is like a before / after with a front that no longer exists And an after that does not exist. I try to create every day the present, moment after moment and it is already a lot. Karma ... I do not know, I try to learn quickly and understand to make sense of all this. You have to make sure to keep in touch ... What I could not do because I did not feel with the choice of anything.

posted January 12, 2017 08:29 AM            

... no option for you too I know about it, thoughts for you a lot, be kind with you

So an other one if you like :
How did he feel when we exchanged a long moment in the eyes for the last time ?

posted January 12, 2017 09:13 AM            

I think it's a yes to see it again / keep in touch, there will be different phases for you.

You appear first I think ...
It is about an affectionate, tender, intuitive, psychic, spiritual, sensitive to the feelings of others ... the list is long! In any case I see that this refers to your gifts of empath ...
The second card refers to the situation with a feeling of loss, a lack of direction, to feel submerged and waiting for something coming from the outside and that could save somehow. You may have a doubt that what you are doing will have an impact and you will feel helpless in your actions.
The third card means that things will in any case find a balance, as a common ground and come to mitigate what is difficult. There is a desire to find a compromise and to compensate for an extreme situation. I suppose as something that would be all one or the other (be able to see you or no longer see you). In any case harmony will be found, which seems contrary will no longer and a sense of security will be greater. Recovery of energies will be possible and well-being will be regained. It will be a time to gather together what is necessary, to consolidate and perhaps also to come together in a certain way.
The last card may mention creativity, something will be invented and will be frutuous. It is also about synchronism of events for a meeting.
A bold request can be made in a moment of optimism that could incite an action on the blue and which will allow a realization.

I complete for you my reading with the "yes" "no": YES

Ace of Swords / Ace of Pentacles / The world

There is a unique opportunity to grow in a new direction that exploits the energy of swords and pentacles in addition to the world
We must persevere with confidence. There is a dynamic of joining together, getting closer to the world in accomplishment and happiness card.

posted January 13, 2017 10:21 AM            

Ok now to your readings -

Why did his mother say so -

Ace of Pents, Moon, 10 of Pents

Did she meet you for the first time? as from your question it does seem that you guys met for the first time. she was very insecure about this meeting. i dont know why she is scared of something. maybe she already knows about you and wants to hide it from you. for some reason everything is not as it seems. things are better hidden from her point of view. she has some deep fears. i dont know it could be anything, it could be that she is not yet ready to open up to you and wants to know you from a superficial level first. or that she wants to just know you before she makes a judgement about you and lets you in her space. but the key here is major insecurity and fear in her heart that is stopping her from opening up to you because she just doesnt know you well and wouldnt want to share a bond with you before she completely trusts you.

but it also appears after some time she will start treating you as extended family.