posted January 26, 2017 02:09 PM            

Care to exchange? I would like to know how J would react if I told him yes, it's best that we don't hug. A little strategy haha!

posted January 26, 2017 02:20 PM            

I think he might Show you just how nice a hug can be! Or more.

posted January 26, 2017 02:31 PM            

six swords, king of cups, seven pents, clarified by queen of wands

The six of swords shows you and P being together at this workshop. King of cups and Queen of swords. I feel with the seven of pents, it is showing a lot of positivity and if he is not the king of cups then he will be showing a lot of positive body language towards you!

posted January 28, 2017 06:16 PM            

He wants actually to make a rather fair and balanced decision about it, not from his heart alone but also from his consciousness, and he wants your relationship to be grounded and balanced.

Even more so he wants clarity, a decision, maybe Clearing the air and having an open talk about what you can be for each other.

And with Empress coming up it seems like he wants your relationship to evolve into more sensual Terms, to develop it together on the Basis of shared affection, warmth, sensuality.

it is certainly NOT a platonic Card.

posted January 28, 2017 06:46 PM            

Thanks for my reading.

Here's yours

Death, judgement. king of pentacles, clarified three of swords

With the death card it looks like he will be coming to an end in his relationship. It doesn't look like you though. Judgement will mean that he will get very, very clear about what he wants in your relationship and then make the steps for it to come about. It will be slow and steady. The three of swords unfortunately is showing some delay and possibly pain surrounding this BUT he does want a relationship with you and he does want to make it work.

posted January 29, 2017 08:17 AM            

Though it is an intriguing spread.

Still I think it is not likely he Ends his marriage, and he should not!!!

Well if he is unhappy and does not love her and life is unbearable for them all, THEN he should, but not because of a Little crush he might have on me. And me on him.

I am not going to be his escape-route.

Sounds funny right? As much as I ask about him? And still I am not convinced I would even WANT to be in a relationship with him, even IF it was possible.

I like him, and there is attraction and chemistry, and I like being around him, it feels good and encouraging and I feel so comfortable and much like myself.

The Kind of Connection that has evolved betwen us, the communication and all, it IS intriguing to me, and I`d like to figure out what this really is all about, but this is not a good reason for him to get a divorce.
And I am VERY sure he knows that and hopefully sees it the same way.

posted January 29, 2017 02:11 PM            

Just read your reply. I hope you don't feel that I am implying you are heading for an affair. You made it clear that this would not happen. The readings I have done for you are showing that he is not happy with his married relationship. There definitely is a spark between the two of you though. I did two more readings for you to get a better clarity perhaps. Tarot and Lenormand.

Lenormand...woman, birds, man, clarified by bouquet

O.K. this is showing you having a conversation with him and shadowed by bouquet, it will be very heart-felt. A lot of emotions will be coming out but also where you stand with each other. The two of you will be friends.

Tarot...WOW! Similar!

Page of cups, eight of pentacles, king of wands, clarified by three of wands.

posted January 29, 2017 03:55 PM            

no I did not mean to say you implied anything.
I was just thinking aloud I guess. Am in the middle of a thought process here.

It`s one Thing to realize that Feelings are existent, mutually (no matter how deep or shallow actually), but there is this: What to do with that Knowledge?
You know?

I don`t know, but I guess I do not Need to know at the current timeframe, as basically that is really all that happened, some eyeopening Moments, about that there is this mutual sympathy and a spark. It`s nothing more than that, but definitely much more than I would ever have expected to be there.

Thank you so much for doing These spreads.

"Lenormand...woman, birds, man, clarified by Bouquet"
Wow, strong. woman, man, birds, Bouquet.

Yes lets hope for friendship, though the woman-birds-man-spread is a classical one for a couple actually. *sighs* not possible in this instance, so friendship is a perfect route!

also means of Course talking, you are absolutely right.

We`ve been step for step coming closer to These Things that have to be said. Well we have both said that we love each other, over the Course of the last weeks. But of Course always in a playful General context.
so we can tell ourselves, it does not mean all that much. maybe it doesn`t, maybe it does.

Great Tarot spread as well. He is the King of WAnds, yes, most of the time (if he is not the Emperor), he has Sun-Moon-MC in Sagittarius, and ARies intercepted in 1st house, with Mars conjunct Jupiter (albeit in Virgo).

And yes, leave your question of Course.

posted January 30, 2017 01:38 PM            

Yes, I think he will miss you badly, even though he probably will not admit it or talk about it.

Clouds - road - Tower
No, I don`t think he will write you an email, though he will feel the distance acutely.

As for the other question (was that one for Tarot or for me personally?)

posted January 30, 2017 01:54 PM            

Thanks for my readings. You worked 12 hrs. Wow

Yes it is strange that he has started to hug me again. Not complaining! I guess my feelings are that I am getting a lot of mixed messages from him, hence all the readings LOL. But when we have our talk it will come out.