posted March 07, 2017 08:23 AM            

Bottom line, he's being generous. We have NO cards on feelings here at all so he doesn't have feelings. I feel like more than anything, she has whined and played on his values and who he is as a person, it's like there is pity there but we both know L will take it the wrong way. There is a method to this craziness though of sending her gifts and it's more based on him trying to still find balance and doing some self reflection but it all comes down to him being generous to her. He's trying to be a good person.

posted March 07, 2017 01:24 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Why is J so distant and will it change? I am almost ready to walk away

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right now, he isnt wanting to make the decisions. I get a sense he wants to still be single but also wants you in his life so there is a sort of tug of war in him where he is trying to make up his mind what exactly he wants. So I feel like he is taking a step back before he takes a step forward. So its like he needs to be quiet now before he does something he may hurt you with or he may be hasty with. so him being quiet is him giving himself the space he needs to make some decisions.

posted March 09, 2017 11:51 AM            

Feels like lots going on. A very busy week and a week where you may get some clarity but not total clarity. The week feels like something on sociak media may get your attention and it feels like a more friends oriented week. I also sens some release of stress in you. Like you may let go of some thoughts and wont be as bothered by things around you that much.

YES 100% I have let go of things. I do still want to see J but if he doesn't contact me and things are over, I'm good with it. Definitely is helping with the stress of the situation

There will be some things at work you will just feel like you are put on the spot.

This happened yesterday! I was in on a firing and definitely feel like he put on the spot with telling me I need to get out and everything else.

I get communication just not so much the one you want or the amount may not make you happy.

OMG correct again! E has contacted me and I'm just like eh whatever. J has been VERY silent so not happy with that....very limited contact.

But feels a filled up week with up and down busy energy.

100% busy energy! you are once again correct!!

Can I ask, will J contact me today at all and if he does, will he ask to see me tonight? He's been so different lately and I'm wondering if he's just done.

posted March 09, 2017 02:35 PM            

will he notice this week?
volcano, bottle and swan.
yes he will notice this week, he hasn't been on there a lot lately to really notice anything but he's going to get on after a long week and really spend some time on there....it's almost a way to decompress since he's so drained.

how will he feel when he notices?
mask, fountain, ladder, wave, candles and clarifying card curtain
he is going to try to hide the fact that he knows you're back on there but he's going to be happy you did. It's like he uses that as a way to be aware of what's going on with you. Fountain is about pleasure and ladder is awareness. It will bring him comfort for sure.

posted March 18, 2017 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I'm wondering if things are over between J and me. And if not, when will he contact me?

What questions do you have?

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