posted March 03, 2017 07:06 PM            

We had discussed things what would be in my current life at the time I would meet my future husband. Although I had some inquires out for readings , it seems like people may be too busy to get back to me so I wanted to ask could we go ahead and proceed since the other ones have not been replied to.

You had listed a spread for

1. Character and personality
2. Apperance
3. Education

I also wanted to know if you could tell me if my future spouse is FS? If it is not him then could you please see if I have met him already?

posted March 04, 2017 08:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ymmi:
Did you try your natal chart for your future husband? You can get some clues about your future husband from natal chart!

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posted March 04, 2017 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have looked at it and others have tried to help me with it but, thank you!!!!

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posted March 05, 2017 09:17 AM            

my ethics urge me to warn you of muddying the waters by asking about the same subject so regularly. I have read for over 20 years, and I can tell you that this is not helpful to you.

Bear in mind, whether I can tell you about his character or education, or whatever, will not make it happen any quicker, nor will not telling you mean it won't come to pass - does that make sense?
This will happen in its own time, in its own way no matter how much information you have on him. Have faith that you will recognise him, you will, I assure you of it.

I will conduct this reading, because it was an offer I made and I trust that your other requests were not answered, but I must urge you, with kindness, to then consider *patience*.

posted March 05, 2017 12:21 PM            

Thank you and I will take your advice on things, try to be patient and trust in my own ability as knowing who he is.

posted March 05, 2017 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I understand Colorfulbutterfly, I just want people to get the most out of tarot, and for that we must have boundaries. Granted, it is the reader's responsibility to set those, which doesn't always make you popular!

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posted March 16, 2017 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Dear Colorfulbutterfly,

I have not forgotten

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posted March 21, 2017 11:34 PM            

I know you are busy and please know I am being patient. I just wanted to ask if there was a way to know the age of the guy that I will meet? If you are unable to add any more I do understand and just thankful for whatever you can offer to do, when you can.

I did want to add that I understand about things will happen when they happen, this was actually advice I gave to someone else so it is completely understood, funny though as I was trying to help interpret cards that were pulled by that person .

For me , I am really intrigued by tarot and understanding how things work, as well as how they manifest, etc. A lot of this is about learning and curiosity as well.

posted April 03, 2017 07:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Dear Colorfulbutterfly,
please accept my apologies for not getting back to you sooner, I have been busy and then took unwell. I am recovering now though and I have some time over the next couple of days where I can conduct your reading if you still wish it?

I can't give you an exact age, this isn't something I am skilled in, however, if the other is represented by a person card, we could estimate the age that they *appear* - this could be a literal age or it could be their apparent level of maturity.

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Thank you Viox,

posted April 12, 2017 10:21 AM            

So I have conducted your reading as follows Colorfulbutterfly (some slight adjustment from the original plan):

1. The first thing you may notice
2. Appearance
3. Personality
4. Character
5. Education

I have drawn a person card, which is lucky for our query of what age range this man could be, it was a Knight, therefore, he is likely to be aged mid-twenties to mid-forties.

Your Reading.

1. (10 Swords) The first thing you may notice is, that he may have a tendency to catatrophise, to dramatise or exaggerate. He may have somewhat of an anxious disposition initially - it could be perfectly normal if you have just met and he is not confident around new people or in the particular situation, or he may actually struggle with generalised anxiety. Which of these remains to be seen.

2. (3 Cups and Star) Appearance
Friendly and jovial, probably with key emotional skills that facilitate fruitful relationships with women in particular. He should be in touch with his emotions and able to bounce back from adversity. These attributes should give an easy smile, probably relaxed clothing choices. There may be a hippy/bohemian vibe to his outer appearance, and I think you would struggle not to notice him in a crowd (the Star is quite Uranian).

3. (The Moon) Personality
A jovial exterior may protect a tender, but fearful heart. He may be fond of deep inquiry, but resist this from others. This could devolve into a suspiciousness or jealousy if not reassured. Certainly, there is a sense of insecurity here. He may have a tendency to lie to avoid dealing with problems, but he will likely experience a lot of guilt from behaving in this way. Hopefully, with maturity, he will find the courage to live by his true value system, and not just that that keeps him "safe".

4. (Ace Pentacles) Character
He may be a self-starter, enjoying the thrill of planning, setting up and initiating new projects or lines of thought. He may struggle to finish things though, but he will rarely be short of ideas. If around people with ongoing development and investment skills, he could own a business.

5. (Knight Pentacles and 8 Cups) Education
So, it looks like he will be "qualified" when you meet him, however, this may not have been through higher education, he may have worked his way up and/or learned a trade or skill. It's suggested that he may be in the process of moving on from a job or changing career when you meet him. It looks like he will be in a transitional time of his life, where he is reevaluating his future. However, with the Knight here, he should have the knowledge and savvy to get his affairs in order and rebuild if he must. Probably because of all those great ideas

Thoughts: The first 3 cards have me thinking along the lines of Cancer or Scorpio placements, possibly with Aquarius/Uranus rising. This snapshot seems to be around the time of the Saturn Return, or just after it. I feel that honesty will be a theme for good or ill in the marriage, however, the security of marriage *may* help him curb this tendency, but only if he is ready. Don't rush in, he appears to be a slow-mover. I can't grasp his level of self-awareness, but avoid taking too much responsibility for his feelings, he must know himself by the most direct route - courageous self-examination.

As always, bear in mind that this is a snapshot and not a comprehensive overview of this person. Nor is any of it set in stone. We cannot predict the future, because it is always changing due to our choices. You may make a choice that completely changes your path, and that is how it should be.

Hope this helps Colorfulbutterfly.