posted April 07, 2017 01:42 PM            

You have your 5th house lord as Saturn, the lord of time. So, you're after a long lasting relationship, and almost no one at this time of your lives is about long lasting things... But Saturn here delays love for after the first Saturn Return.

Marriage and partnerships is Jupiter the lord... Jupiter is in the 3rd and in Saggitarius, so you can meet your partner in the places where learning, religious practice is the way, Sun and Venus with square can be a little difficult for you to show or to feel at first moment but with time and knowing better the person you will discover that love is there. And with Saturn here, you will want someone older (not THAT older, but at least 5 or more years apart from you).

posted April 07, 2017 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Hi Valmu83... I'll give a try!!

You have your 5th house lord as Saturn, the lord of time. So, you're after a long lasting relationship, and almost no one at this time of your lives is about long lasting things... But Saturn here delays love for after the first Saturn Return.

Marriage and partnerships is Jupiter the lord... Jupiter is in the 3rd and in Saggitarius, so you can meet your partner in the places where learning, religious practice is the way, Sun and Venus with square can be a little difficult for you to show or to feel at first moment but with time and knowing better the person you will discover that love is there. And with Saturn here, you will want someone older (not THAT older, but at least 5 or more years apart from you).

Let me know about this one, we can dig a little more I think

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Hi DaniPepper! Longtime no see

Yes! I have passed my first Saturn return. I'm now 33 nothing worked before that..but it haven't been much easier afterwards either.

Currently I'm studying my masters degree but I haven't met anyone who is free to be mine. I think you are also right track when saying I don't show my affection so clearly. This is doing of the past bad experiences I don't want to be ridiculed or "lose my face." And I have had many crushes that are approximately 5y older than I'm ;D but I don't want to be with some guy considerably older than me. So if you can dig further please do it

posted April 07, 2017 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
I can't read charts but I can pull for you? If you don't want to I totally understand

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posted April 07, 2017 02:23 PM            

It doesn't mention marriage in the future for now, but looks like you will definitely be in a meaningful romantic relationship in the future. Someone you'll be with for the long term, with anchor in the centre of the spread. House with tower indicating you will move in together with him.

Cross + tree + ring

Asked if you will be with someone this year? Nice spread that came out, because you have a strong chance of meeting someone you'll have commitment with, if not, at least you'll have a strong friendship with.

posted April 07, 2017 03:03 PM            

And again for romance... I see that you will go after someone who has something to offer to you in terms of financial security. Saturn in the 2nd gives a fear of being poor, and here enters the older men thing. And romance you look for Venus.... Friends and place of MANY people, as indicating in 11th house. University is a good place, but take a little patience for this to happen. Pluto and Saturn are together, so this relationship can be a very deep transforming thing that will happen in your life, the deep of it will indicate for you why it took a long time to happen. Good things come with time.

I'm not THAT good in astrology, but I hope you can get the chance to know better...

posted April 07, 2017 03:13 PM            

The Essence of your Question: The Self Attack Conspiracy

In this conspiracy we are locked into vicious self-attack. Every time we have lost bonding we have developed personalities that have made us self-conscious and have led eventually to self-attack and self-torture. Our personalities drive us to do the things in an attempt to gain approval and make us acceptable and loveable. But these personalities, which are built on inadequacy, can only leave us with the feeling that what we do is not enough and never will be enough, to get us loved. Not attacking yourself makes you available to hear the calls for help from those around you. It makes you responsive and allows others to be responsive to you. It allows you to be in the flow where all good things can come to you and forward movement is easy. I think this refers you to being stuck with this situation. Are you keeping your quards up unnecessarily? Or are you afraid to clear things up? Or are you blaming or hindering yourself?

What Hinders You: Commitment

Commitment is giving ourselves fully to a person or situation. Commitment means giving yourself and withholding nothing. Commitment is for your benefit; you know yourself through you giving. Giving blesses you and brings you joy. Commitment is the way to give yourself totally. In relationships, work or life, it brings about a new stage. So you not texting your friend and being open is hindering the process of becoming terms again.

What Helps You: The Death Conspiracy

It is important to examine your attitude to see what direction you are heading in. What is the hidden or not so hidden, conflict that you have that you feel you cannot escape from. There is always an answer if you are not afraid to receive it. Deep in the mind we are attracted to the very things we are afraid of. This isn't so clear to me but seems that you have to listen your intuition. And to be brave and take contact to other person. Or does this open up for you relating to something else?

Does this person make up with SD? Queen of Pentacles

Yes. There is potential to form stable relationship again in a way you both are content

posted April 07, 2017 03:26 PM            

The ruler of your 7th house (partnerships) is Neptune, and Neptune is conjunct your IC. This generally means that you would want a partner that feels like "home" - someone naturally warm, loving, caring, whom you can be yourself around - yet they still give off this flair of adventure and are poetically inclined. Someone with a vast mind and a beautiful soul.

The IC is traditionally ruled by Cancer, and your 10th house is in the Cancer, so I was thinking that the person you would fall for is someone you would meet in your professional life. Maybe this is a figure who everyone turns for to help - someone that everyone admires and sees as an almost parental figure?

Your Neptune is almost exactly trine your Sun so I would assume that your future partner would have excellent leadership abilities, yet they're also someone fairly mysterious, who has many different hobbies that almost contradict one another. Your Mars in Leo reiterates the fact that you truly admire leadership and competence (your Mars is also in the 10th).

The issue I see here is your NN conjunct your MC. This means you really prioritize your professional life, and in the past you've made sure no one could ever come in the way of your career, which has maybe stalled your romantic life?

Your Neptune is conjunct your SN, so my assumption is that you only feel complete when you have a partnership that feels destined, fated, all-consuming - as if you were both surely married in a past life.

Transiting Saturn will be conjunct your IC-ish this whole entire year, so you're feeling antsy about laying down permanent roots and changing your life's current foundations. There's a major dissatisfaction thats taken hold of you lately because of this.

The transiting NN is conjunct your Venus at the moment so you're either going to meet this person VERY VERY soon or you already know someone that you have your sights on. Something very important is being seeded right now. It might not seem that way, but if you look back on this date a year or so from now, you'll be able to really connect the dots.

I'm gonna say around July-August you're going to meet someone that will change your life. The transiting NN will be on your Sun, and the transiting SN will be on your Moon.

Later in the year Jupiter will be conjunct your Pluto, so it sounds like big things are in store for you this year.

posted April 07, 2017 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:

I want to ask if you can see romance for me in this year, a long term one, I'm tired of "almost there" ones. I'm 29 and no long term relationship yet...You can use Leno or Tarot, you can choose!!

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Thank you!! It does help me in the sense of self awareness but I really would like to know when nice to hear also about that kid!

Here is your reading, Sorry to say but this won't look so very promising according to this year but year 2018 looks more sunny for you!

EIGHT OF SWORDS
Fear and bewilderment are causing restrictions and you do not know what to do. The thing is to stop panicking. You may be feeling stuck, but there is an easy way out of your predicament It is only the confusion of the situation, which prevents you from seeing Your possibilities.

SIX OF PENTACLES
In this year you may be busy in doing practical things even trying to do too many tasks in a short period of time. You may be donating to charitable causes, spending your time to helping your friends or relatives or sharing our finances and time with some other people.

IX THE HERMIT (Reversed)
This implies excessive caution or timidity, even loneliness and isolation. Perhaps you have closed your mind to the possibilities available to you, refusing to see what is on offer. This may be the result of a lack of an insight into your present situation.

Prospects for year 2018?

posted April 08, 2017 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hi Valmu! Dani did a great job at interpreting your chart and it's hard to add onto that! I was noticing a few things myself, such as..

The ruler of your 7th house (partnerships) is Neptune, and Neptune is conjunct your IC. This generally means that you would want a partner that feels like "home" - someone naturally warm, loving, caring, whom you can be yourself around - yet they still give off this flair of adventure and are poetically inclined. Someone with a vast mind and a beautiful soul.

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Yes, I definitely do And lately I have realized even more strongly that I need someone with whom I don't need to keep up any appearance. I need to feel I'm enough and my lifestyle is accepted.

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Your Neptune is almost exactly trine your Sun so I would assume that your future partner would have excellent leadership abilities, yet they're also someone fairly mysterious, who has many different hobbies that almost contradict one another. Your Mars in Leo reiterates the fact that you truly admire leadership and competence (your Mars is also in the 10th). [/B]

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I do appreciate competence and that the man knows what he wants from life. And also that he is doing stuff independently not clinging on me all the time. Also that he has will of his own as I'm strong willed..so that there is some balance.

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The issue I see here is your NN conjunct your MC. This means you really prioritize your professional life, and in the past you've made sure no one could ever come in the way of your career, which has maybe stalled your romantic life? [/B]

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That's on the spot. I don't want to end up to be other half of professional couple and that the other person (man) is given all the glory from my work. As it seems to go often. But I don't have had any opportunities anyway with anyone. But I have been concentrating on my career as it works. I know how to make it work..relationship are difficult for me.

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Your Neptune is conjunct your SN, so my assumption is that you only feel complete when you have a partnership that feels destined, fated, all-consuming - as if you were both surely married in a past life. [/B]

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Yes I have noticed that I feel most happiest when I feel it is destined but so far these connections has been just hurtful to me. Like they have came to my life just to awake my feelings and turned me down ;( ;( making me suffer.

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Transiting Saturn will be conjunct your IC-ish this whole entire year, so you're feeling antsy about laying down permanent roots and changing your life's current foundations. There's a major dissatisfaction thats taken hold of you lately because of this. [/B]

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I definitely feel anxious and restless. I have been thinking lol of partnership.

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The transiting NN is conjunct your Venus at the moment so you're either going to meet this person VERY VERY soon or you already know someone that you have your sights on. Something very important is being seeded right now. It might not seem that way, but if you look back on this date a year or so from now, you'll be able to really connect the dots. [/B]

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There has been several connections now with different men. I don't know if any of them is the one for me. One of them is more precious to me than others..but he is married already Basic stuff in my life..

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Later in the year Jupiter will be conjunct your Pluto, so it sounds like big things are in store for you this year. [/B][/QUOTE

I'm also going through major Saturn transits but I cope with them quite well. I don't know if Saturn Rx change this for me. I really would like to start new phase in my life.

[QUOTE] Saturn/Pluto will both be in Capricorn all of 2018 and in that year, Uranus will go into Taurus. At some point Saturn/Pluto will be trine Uranus, and this will effect your 4th and 8th houses. I would see any kind of marriage happening in 2019/2020. [/B]

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posted April 23, 2017 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
Thank you for clarifying! So this is Vedic version of "Saturn return"? I hope it works better in that sense than actually Saturn return

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