posted June 08, 2017 12:46 PM            

Wtf is going on with them?
Is he wanting to be with her why the kisses?

also if its ok to ask 2

So I posted a pic of mickey mouse saying **** you.
and his nick name on fb is connected to cats and mice.

How does he feel about this pic? will he react to it?

posted June 08, 2017 01:41 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Soo
New thing is.
A is sending kisses to L on her pics..
Being all cutsey

Wtf is going on with them?
Is he wanting to be with her why the kisses?

also if its ok to ask 2

So I posted a pic of mickey mouse saying **** you.
and his nick name on fb is connected to cats and mice.

How does he feel about this pic? will he react to it?

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I think this is what you got the surprise, connected to her.
also this is why I felt nervous yesterday

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hey girl, so what I am getting is that they are on good terms right now. they're being quite supportive of each other and doing what makes them feel they are doing right by the child, i do feel a genuine warmth between them, they're getting along well now. i don't feel a strong commitment between them, but its really a nice phase of them being able to support each other and be kind to each other.i think seeing her as a mother is giving him more respect for her than he had before, although there are still reservations. he's appreciative of her for looking after the child and it is making him see her in a warmer light for the time being.

posted June 08, 2017 01:48 PM            

do you have any questions?

Will he have any reaction once he sees the pic?

posted June 08, 2017 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you. that sounds about right

do you have any questions?

Will he have any reaction once he sees the pic?

So is that is, will he build a love relationship to her, have I lost all chances to ever try anything?

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i wouldn't say for sure... it is almost as if this baby has helped them each to grow up and mature a bit and bc of that they are able to be more respectful towards each other and are getting along well.. it is pretty typical for this to happen AT FIRST. I do feel that she is REALLY hoping for a relationship. I feel him being more hesitant, i think what he felt about her prior to the baby is still there but its sort of on the backburner, he still has some worries about the behavior he used to see in her and hasn't totally forgotten about it. it's more like there is just a pleasant cover right now over the initial things they had going where she feels to be sort of manipulative... as opposed to them having actually worked through the issues, theyre still there its just covered rn

posted June 08, 2017 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you
It really makes sense.

do you have any questions for me?

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good i am glad it resonates!

i'm curious what my ex is feeling now. he didn't show up to court, just called in over the phone. my lawyer mentioned that i was pregnant, so he now knows that. the judge postponed the case 2 weeks, but seemed to not at all side with my ex and gave me permission to move on time!

posted June 08, 2017 03:55 PM            

Now I put a new pic up, so yes its possible he does not connect the 1st one with him, as the one I put now is more positive and this one connects me and him positively and it has his LIKE on it from when we were friends on FB.
( yes i a unstable today )

on to yours,

So here I get a feeling of Oh Oh I am really losing her, as in he is in a state of thinking rationally and understanding that all his tactics are not working and that you have moved on for a better life. it feel like it takes him long to get to terms with this in his life because it is like you are sorting your life out and he is still a mess.
IS he moving on finally, for the time being he is only becoming more stable and more rational and less wanting to hurt you. Honestly this feels for time being I still do not feel him fully letting go and fully moving on.

I also want to add I really feel connected to you today for some reason, maybe my crying made me more open so I do feel a good connection here today.

posted June 08, 2017 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
it does resonate esp knowing you went through similar feelings maybe with your ex. gives me a good insight

Now I put a new pic up, so yes its possible he does not connect the 1st one with him, as the one I put now is more positive and this one connects me and him positively and it has his LIKE on it from when we were friends on FB.
( yes i a unstable today )

on to yours,

So here I get a feeling of Oh Oh I am really losing her, as in he is in a state of thinking rationally and understanding that all his tactics are not working and that you have moved on for a better life. it feel like it takes him long to get to terms with this in his life because it is like you are sorting your life out and he is still a mess.
IS he moving on finally, for the time being he is only becoming more stable and more rational and less wanting to hurt you. Honestly this feels for time being I still do not feel him fully letting go and fully moving on.

I also want to add I really feel connected to you today for some reason, maybe my crying made me more open so I do feel a good connection here today.

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posted June 08, 2017 04:24 PM            

On the new pic I posted, which is a pic of what A calls me as a nickname.

When he sees it, what will he feel about me posting it?

posted June 08, 2017 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
please dont hate me for asking so much !

On the new pic I posted, which is a pic of what A calls me as a nickname.

When he sees it, what will he feel about me posting it?

and yours?

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hey don't worry, I have totally done the same thing! but I see him getting a smile, his feelings for you are good and it will be a nice memory that makes him reminice for a second. I don't seem him really dwelling on it or anything, but it will bring a little smile to his face!

can ask you, do you see my ex picking a crappy lawyer or someone good? or representing himself? his case is so bad, i don't think many good lawyers would take it!

posted June 08, 2017 04:50 PM            

IS there a possibility he get someone appointed to him, I feel like he will get someone not so good but also wont be from the worst pile, it feels like family may help pay for one and it will be someone either appointed or someone family knows. They will see that your ex does not have a good case but they will try to make the best of it and try to have the least damage possible which will be hard

posted June 08, 2017 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you
it makes sense.

IS there a possibility he get someone appointed to him, I feel like he will get someone not so good but also wont be from the worst pile, it feels like family may help pay for one and it will be someone either appointed or someone family knows. They will see that your ex does not have a good case but they will try to make the best of it and try to have the least damage possible which will be hard

how he felt,
Scared, not happy, like he was put infront of a wall, he felt like he is not your family any more, like he has no say any more
He felt awkward for some reason, he felt like he should be happy for you but cannot be yet.
He felt a lot of things
He is not happy for you for now he is not unhappy he just feels Numb and not knowing how to feel and what to say.

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posted June 08, 2017 11:49 PM            

I get nervous sometimes with my new partner if he is going to be able to support us financially. Sometimes he says things like "well I'll have to work full time.." And I tell him.. "well, that is normal, most people work full time and even overtime..."

posted June 11, 2017 02:12 AM            

How would A feel or react if I send him this specific song?

and

many people say A and L will crumble after a good run, as in break up or fight bad. I am wondering what will happen to bring about the negative?
( it could be a few things so I wonder if its one of the things I think it may be)

posted June 11, 2017 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I have 2 if ok

How would A feel or react if I send him this specific song?

and

many people say A and L will crumble after a good run, as in break up or fight bad. I am wondering what will happen to bring about the negative?
( it could be a few things so I wonder if its one of the things I think it may be)

thank you

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I get him being sort of taken off guard, like he wouldn't expect it, but he would like it.. although I do feel him partly wondering what was your reason behind sending it.

posted June 12, 2017 02:25 AM            

Why is he still ignoring and not replying

Edit : I just sent the song I asked about and wrote I wont give up until he says something.

posted June 12, 2017 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Can we do another?

Why is he still ignoring and not replying

Edit : I just sent the song I asked about and wrote I wont give up until he says something.

Will he? Do something?

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hey, I get him being unsure of how to respond.