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Topic: anyone wanna exchange?
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 18, 2017 02:17 PM
let me know your questions!IP: Logged |
MoonChild30 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: USA Registered: Jan 2017
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posted June 18, 2017 04:51 PM
I can't exchange but could use some help if you're willing to answer a question for me. I would greatly appreciate it. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 10:33 AM
whats your questionIP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 12:23 PM
sure I canIP: Logged |
MoonChild30 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: USA Registered: Jan 2017
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posted June 19, 2017 12:27 PM
Thank you. I appreciate it. I'm trying to figure out what the true nature of E's relationship is with J. E is male J is female. Lord knows he's denying everything and I've seen things. I just can't figure it out. If she's seeing him or someone else entirely. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 12:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: sure I can
So something ****** happened with A, and I sent him a long text and said to text me when he figures out what he wants from me. So I want to ask, what do you see happening now, will he reply to it, is it over or what.. not sure how to even ask this? what is yours? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 12:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonChild30: Thank you. I appreciate it. I'm trying to figure out what the true nature of E's relationship is with J. E is male J is female. Lord knows he's denying everything and I've seen things. I just can't figure it out. If she's seeing him or someone else entirely.
they are flirting and talking, I dont feel them meeting up too much, I get some interaction with them as in physical but it feels like it is not planned on his part, so something is insinuated from her side. The talking also feels more from his side and it boosts his ego though IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: So something ****** happened with A, and I sent him a long text and said to text me when he figures out what he wants from me.So I want to ask, what do you see happening now, will he reply to it, is it over or what.. not sure how to even ask this? what is yours?
ahh girl, I'm sorry! Okay, what I am seeing is he is going to get it and mostly initially try not to deal with it. He will read it, and sort of spend some time in his head formulating responses. It will be on his mind a lot and he's going to be thinking about what he wants to say, but I do see a delay in him sending something. It's bc he is not 100% sure what to say, so he is going to initially sort of try to just not deal with it. So energetically, I think you'll feel him thinking about it, thinking about you and what you've said... but you may not get a response for some time. I don't think it's over, there is going to be communication again, but right now there is a blockage there. My question is; I have court next tuesday with my ex. Our final court date... Do you think he is really going to put up a fight or has he sort of given up since hearing that I am pregnant and engaged and bc the judge has given us permission to move out of state?
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MoonChild30 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: USA Registered: Jan 2017
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posted June 19, 2017 12:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: they are flirting and talking, I dont feel them meeting up too much, I get some interaction with them as in physical but it feels like it is not planned on his part, so something is insinuated from her side. The talking also feels more from his side and it boosts his ego though
Thank you for answering. I'm so confused. Yesterday she posted a pic to indicate she was with her boyfriend at a specific event. At the time the pic was posted and she had checked into this event he was texting with me rather consistently. So I'm not sure if she considers him her boyfriend or if perhaps there is someone else in the mix as well. I know specifically at that time he was talking with me. If he was with her I would be surprised because we were having a pretty serious convo and it was consistent. Not a few random texts. And he will admit to nothing to me so I don't know what to think or do.
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 12:52 PM
what A did was, I liked his pic which was public and he removed the pic in order for ofcourse her not to see. SO I got all p.issed off and wrote him the text. Can I ask to clarify, the blockage, is it him blocking me on fb or just delays in communication? Your ex, there will be a small fight but it will calm down, I feel when you or your lawyers say something that he will calm down and be more calm in the case. He wont be in such a fighting mood I dont feel it honestly, at first there will be a defensive energy but it will all just mellow down IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonChild30: Thank you for answering. I'm so confused. Yesterday she posted a pic to indicate she was with her boyfriend at a specific event. At the time the pic was posted and she had checked into this event he was texting with me rather consistently. So I'm not sure if she considers him her boyfriend or if perhaps there is someone else in the mix as well. I know specifically at that time he was talking with me. If he was with her I would be surprised because we were having a pretty serious convo and it was consistent. Not a few random texts. And he will admit to nothing to me so I don't know what to think or do.
he wasnt with her. he is not her bf
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 12:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: what A did was, I liked his pic which was public and he removed the pic in order for ofcourse her not to see. SO I got all p.issed off and wrote him the text. Can I ask to clarify, the blockage, is it him blocking me on fb or just delays in communication? Your ex, there will be a small fight but it will calm down, I feel when you or your lawyers say something that he will calm down and be more calm in the case. He wont be in such a fighting mood I dont feel it honestly, at first there will be a defensive energy but it will all just mellow down
No not blocking you, a block in communication... Not out of any bad energy, but out of him not wanting to deal with it/ not knowing how to deal with it/ not knowing how to respond IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:04 PM
Thanks Blysswanna do another? IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Thanks Blysswanna do another?
sure! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:16 PM
HOw did he feel about the part where I wrote For him to contact me when he figures things out?yours? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:17 PM
Holy **** he just read the text !!SO NERVOUS IP: Logged |
MoonChild30 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: USA Registered: Jan 2017
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posted June 19, 2017 01:35 PM
Thanks IF. I appreciate your help. I wish you the best of luck with yours. I will use some positive energy and thoughts for you. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonChild30: Thanks IF. I appreciate your help. I wish you the best of luck with yours. I will use some positive energy and thoughts for you.
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 01:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: HOw did he feel about the part where I wrote For him to contact me when he figures things out?yours?
I feel him having mixed feelings. Ultimately, I get this feeling of while he wants to contact, he feels like he can't right now. I sort of feel like he has come to this resolution in his mind that it is best that he doesn't engage for the time being, which he is making that choice out of logic instead of emotions. He's caught up in 'trying to do the right thing"... But he is also feeling bad about not being in communication with you, but I do feel him trying to block that out. BUT, because the feelings are still there, it won't last forever. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 01:47 PM
my question is, do you see my ex trying to fight my move at all?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:47 PM
thank youThere are no negative feelings towards me? like hate or being mad right? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: my question is, do you see my ex trying to fight my move at all?
funny you said that because in my text I said " you wouldnt go to these lengths if you didnt care "
He will slightly, but I think I am more picking up his feelings on this and thoughts like he is more thinking of wanting you not to move away, but in terms of doing something in the case, no I dont feel him but I feel this is more because lawyers or someone explained it is best to not try to stop this and make it even more complicated. Thank you
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1160 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 19, 2017 01:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: thank youThere are no negative feelings towards me? like hate or being mad right?
no, the worst emotion i feel from him is slight frustration about not wanting to be in this situation where he feels the need to act in certain ways, but is sort of trapped by how he feels he should act... but no i don't feel either of those emotions IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8707 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 19, 2017 01:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: no, the worst emotion i feel from him is slight frustration about not wanting to be in this situation where he feels the need to act in certain ways, but is sort of trapped by how he feels he should act... but no i don't feel either of those emotions
thank you I did tell him 1. I gave up on us and 2. To contact when he figures it out so yea him not replying makes sense But he did open the message to read it, so he does care to see what I think IP: Logged |