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posted June 23, 2017 11:02 PM            

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Can someone help me please tell me why my mom hates me?? O feel it, see it, she treats me awful....like screams bloody murder at me bangs in the walls screaming at me absolutely insane please tell me why I'm desesperante i have no where to go

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posted June 24, 2017 12:09 AM            

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posted June 24, 2017 12:33 AM            

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hey girl, so i don't think your mom hates you.. what it feels like to me is she honestly has mental issues. she feels to have impulsive thoughts that she cannot control and EXTREME emotions that almost feel like tornados going on inside of her. they're so extreme that she feels powerless to them. she definitely does project on you and take things out on you. because she's so irritable, you realy don't have to do anything to trigger it

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posted June 24, 2017 02:44 AM            

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posted June 24, 2017 03:22 AM            

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I'm confused why did you bump the thread? Missblyss helped you with your question. Did you want more answers??
And I doubt your mother truly hates you.

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posted June 24, 2017 03:37 AM            

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I know I just realized I didn't say thank you miss blyss. I bumped cause I wanted some more insight. It's really bad I'm basically homeless now....it probably hate....ever since I was little she called me handicapped for being left handed, curse at me, to this day my dad had package get stolen he kept mentioning ut to me as I was supposed to pick them up I had jib interviews to go on etc etc...u wasn't home 24/7 all week but my grown adult brother his grown adult girlfriend were I basically just told my mom there were 2 ither ppl here who could of got the packages she went PSYCHO started saying she I needed be nicer I'm a ***** she saw a long haired dark figure come out my room tO'Day it was because I'm "mean evil" I told you used to stay in that room said you saw were scared of things...I said ever since I was little you've treated like **** basically she screamed bloody murder banged on the wall screamed shuttt up shuttt upppp! When I wasn't saying anything, I said I'm packing leaving she pushed door open tried mind **** me said go get help you need help you really need help like a 2 faced lunatic I said why was she so scared tell my brother anything ever when she went psycho went more psycho my brother gets special treatment btw. I went outside said there I'm leaving I'm down she went psycho told my dad there she is she's coming back here he screamed body kurder started chsdi NH me down driveway trYing pick up rocks to throw at me it llojed like I dudnt look back or anything but it was psychot8c.. no disrespect but if you knew how I'm treated things my mom says does yet I pay rent to her try my best to help them....you wouldn't be like oh I doubt she hates you she treats none if my other siblings like that she went pyschological when my car broke down then some busted out my windshield on side of the freeway instead of being om glad I was okay she went psychotic....no one knows the worthlessness or issues she has ingrained in me

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posted June 24, 2017 01:25 PM            

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i was hesitating to put this out there HV but i think your mother is really dealing with some negative spirits herself. again, i know it FEELS like hate and it appears to be that way, but she is a sick woman and you are, and have been for many years, the person she takes out her abuse and pain on. like when i look into her thought process, she is not in control there. her impulsive, angry, negative thoughts are strong and she isn't able to stop them.

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posted June 24, 2017 02:42 PM            

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She only treats me like that my sister treats her talks about her like garbage. Tells her stuff my blubbering crybaby when my sister tells her stuff...just psycho

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posted June 24, 2017 02:55 PM            

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She only treats me like that my sister treats her talks about her like garbage. Tells her stuff my blubbering crybaby when my sister tells her stuff...just psycho

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but my dear, it doesn't change things... my neighbor has serious mental illness and harasses me constantly and my child.... hates me, berates me, etc... but she LOVES my other neighbor. it isn't something that you can logically figure out, by saying oh she loves her and not me.. bottom line she has the underlying mental issues.

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posted June 24, 2017 02:56 PM            

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you are trying to find alogical answer for something that is not logical. i can't think as to why my neighbor hates me, there's no reason. think less about why and focus your energy on getting yourself out of the situation where you are being abused.

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