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posted July 19, 2017 08:49 PM            

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will I be able to find some strong friendships in NYC when I move? for some reason its very hard for me to form long lasting friendships

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posted July 19, 2017 11:13 PM            

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Are you currently on still??

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posted July 19, 2017 11:14 PM            

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Yup what's up

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posted July 19, 2017 11:20 PM            

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Ok....my question is why is IC so distant with me? I'm confused....can you tell me what he thinks or feels about me?

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posted July 19, 2017 11:24 PM            

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Not sure why there is an up and down between your friends and you....but it's there. I do definitely see two of your friends cotacting you. I think one is air sign the other a fire sign. So yes, contact will happen. With two of them but not a 3rd one no.

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posted July 19, 2017 11:28 PM            

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oo thanks. doing ur q now. my friendships were always in and out hot and cold... but ultimately i always feel the bond with them regardless what happens

TD is air though shes more firery / TA is earth but shes more airy as well haha . i contacted the 2 to say hi.

im getting the feeling MV is the one avoiding me? can u tell me why

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posted July 19, 2017 11:34 PM            

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I know it sounds silly...but I see avoidance because mv focusing on something at the moment working on something to become or come to frutation. I think it's a man lol or boyfriend someone she's met that really has her attention and energy.

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posted July 19, 2017 11:37 PM            

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so to me his feelings feel stuck.He likes u but right now it feels friendly but im just getting the feeling he is putting his feelings for you on hold. for some reason i keep thinking theres a friend involved. like did he mention he had plans or is there a roommate?

i also feel like he feels bad / sorrow for you. did you open up to him about your personal problems? I feel like it made it difficut as he didnt know how to respond.. lmk if this makes sense

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posted July 19, 2017 11:38 PM            

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hmmm mv isnt the type to ditch a friend because shes preoccupied with a boy. last time i spoje to her was at a wedding and her friend and i got into a huge fight and i just didnt talk to her since.

TD on the other hand would not talk to me if shes got a guy haha.

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posted July 19, 2017 11:39 PM            

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posted July 19, 2017 11:43 PM            

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No there is no roomate here just me and him. We have in the past knew eachother had been intimate etc....so yeah it feels more like friends I feel a little awkward also. Like we don't spend lots of time in the same room...very little time like talking or anything...

Today he stayed in 1 room me in another then around 5 we went to the stores for a bit. He stays up late wakes up late but still..I feel like his avoiding me or something.

Is he disappointed in how I look physically like is he not attracted to me???

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posted July 19, 2017 11:46 PM            

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hmm it seems he is. sexually attracted to you... but its possible he might not like it that you have financial prioblems.. lmk if this makes. sense. just getting alot of. moeny cards and im assuming its possible he doesnt like to be taken adv of in regards to money

i read for u before on how the trip will go and i got the cards you should relly enjoy your time with him and dont over think or discuss anyting serious with him. other than that you guys will have fun. if theres no roommate invokled i think hes preoccupeid with business

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posted July 19, 2017 11:54 PM            

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Well....he is actually in financial hardship right now lol...I mean my financial problems I get money every week. He's talked about whatever I need he can take care of. He also yes work money hut a rough spot as 9f right now....he stressed I think...

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posted July 19, 2017 11:56 PM            

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im glad thats all there is to it. enjoy the rest of ur time with him and stop stressing !

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posted July 20, 2017 12:09 AM            

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Well...I don't know if that's the only reason actually lol...I just don't toy mentioned money thing so I mentioned how work money this week gone for him lol....

I still don't understand why the distance with me...

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