posted August 17, 2017 11:47 PM            

For further information, the quoted passages are from the deck The Power of Surrender by Dr Judith Orloff (she's an intuitive psychiatrist who has written some best-selling books).

posted August 18, 2017 03:01 AM            

So not a direct answer but hints at taking a break, getting back to nature, being comfortable in your own company at least until the next relationship comes along.

@Colorful Butterfly – 'Surrender Unhealthy Relationships.
Let go of relationships that don’t serve you, including unavailable or toxic people. You deserve to be treasured by others and to be surrounded by positive people.'

As soon as I pulled this, I thought uh oh. And then got the feeling that you were treated badly and I felt sad for you so wanted to send you a virtual hug. Take care dear. I’m not sure what to add here except please look after yourself. I hope you are setting appropriate boundaries for yourself in relationships. If you have had toxic relationships in the past it can mess up your relationship barometer so to speak, so please don't 'settle' for just anyone. With your current relationship, I think this is a friendly warning to set appropriate boundaries.

@HappyLIght – 'Surrender to Nonaction
Now is the time to be still and not act. Simply breathe and focus on your own power. Let others come to you.'

I think, assuming you are female, is let him do the work. Don’t push, don’t force anything and see what happens. If you are male, the advice still stands. Don’t force the situation, if that makes sense.

@Poochycat – 'Surrender to Miracles
Be open to miracles occurring in your life. Feel and know that these events are real. Let go of any resistance and banish any doubt that miracles can happen.'

Well this is a nice and optimistic message. But whether it directly answers your question I can’t say 100% until I pull further cards, which I may do if I have time. Meanwhile I think the ‘resistance’ issue needs to be looked at. Are you resisting in some way?

@Furrybunny – 'Surrender to Setting Limits
It is healthy to set boundaries in relationships. Practice expressing your needs and remember that “No” is a complete sentence.'

Picture shows a lady holding her hand up, palm facing forward as if saying, “Stop!” Could also refer to setting limits on what you have to do. I’ll leave this here for your consideration.

@Neptunicity – 'Surrender to Nonaction
Now is the time to be still and not act. Simply breathe and focus on your own power. Let others come to you.'

I had a hard time trying to decide on yours for some reason. I did shuffle and draw in between readings. Picture shows a pretty lady (princess?) with her eyes closed and seemingly peaceful and meditative. I’ll leave this here for now.

@Awaken, I pulled two for you.
1) 'Surrender to Your Intuition
Tune in to your inner voice. Be aware of any gut feelings, flashes, knowings or ‘Aha!’ moments that come through to guide you.'
2) Surrender to Nonaction (yet again! I did shuffle in between)
'Now is the time to be still and not act. Simply breathe and focus on your own power. Let others come to you.'

posted August 18, 2017 07:16 AM            

I defiantly agree that I have had some very toxic relations and thank you! I have looked at somethings about chaotic situations and what to do about them. This was one of the things mentioned was to set boundaries. I do agree that until you change a standard in the way people treat you then a person can drawl the same energy again and again. Yes, I do deserve to be cherished, valued, love and respected.

posted August 18, 2017 09:06 PM            

Hey thanks for the reading! to be honest my career has been something I've been obsessed over. I started a new job and I think its telling me to not set limits and go further. def setting limits right now is stunting my growth in my field. hope that makes sense/ offers some clarification.

posted August 19, 2017 01:05 AM            

@Furry, congrats on the new job

@PhoenixFire

I pulled a couple for you. There seems to be a definite message coming through about trying to change/fix/control someone else. I hope it is helpful in some small way. Actually this is a good message for me too lol.

posted August 19, 2017 12:26 PM            

Yes, this is a frequent theme/lesson for me. I'm an empath and tend to get caught up in others issues too much. The second part is also right on the mark. I've been very stressed in job searching, and declined an offer recently because my intuition told me it wouldn't be a good fit. Being a worrier, I'm now a little anxious about whether I should've just taken it despite the many cons...this message from the cards feels like I just need to let go of worrying about it and trust in the process.