posted January 16, 2018 02:37 PM            

My question is what Venus, Mars and Moon sign would blend well with my own Venus, Mars and Moon?

posted January 16, 2018 02:55 PM            

You cannot do anything about it. There are some esoteric techniques to change or improve venus but I'm not allowed to share them.

posted January 16, 2018 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Spica:
Venus in Aries is in detriment. It causes one to be inconsiderate and not have good manners, someone who doesn't care about being just and fair, and become selfish when it's not appropriate to. Sorry it's sounds bad but I don't know how to say it in a more polite way.

You cannot do anything about it. There are some esoteric techniques to change or improve venus but I'm not allowed to share them.

You will get along better with venus in fire sign people.

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posted January 16, 2018 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I know it's in detriment lol and I know I get along with other Venus fire signs, but can you be more specific?

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Well if you already know then what else do you want to know? Now of course everyone is an individual and a synastry or composite can only tell if you'll get along with them. And in general to get along between with people and have pleasant relationships it would be good to fix your venus using esoteric techniques but I don't want to impose my beliefs and sensitive stuff online. I just told you what I know based on my knowledge. I gave my 2 cents, sorry if it didn't help.

A relationship is not determined by just the moon, venus or mars, it's much more complex. Venus is the planet of relationships in general so having a good venus will make you have better quality relationships. I can tell you one way to improve venus it's to feed fishes food on Fridays, every Friday and it makes venus' vibration in your aura improve and heal.

posted January 16, 2018 06:09 PM            

But

posted January 16, 2018 07:11 PM            

You should date someone with another double element. Maybe someone born on a New Moon. Those are the kinds of people who also have a firm grasp of their mission in life, and you can't help but adore/admire/gel with them.

With a Venus in Aries you could never date someone that you don't respect. Someone wishy washy would seriously turn you off. Your Venus is conjunct Juno, so you take commitment seriously. Your Venus is conjunct Mercury, so you need to date someone who is NOT an idiot.

I have a feeling you'll probably date someone who has a majority of earth/water elements in their chart because that's what you have. You have a grand earth trine with Sun/NN/Jupiter, and it turns into a kite with your SN. You'll probably need someone with inner planets to ping these specific planets. Maybe a prominent planet in air/fire to appease your fire venus.

I rarely ever see people date someone who has their Big Three in the same sign in their Saturn. In your case that sign would be Aquarius. However you have so much Cap in your chart (plus Uranus on your DSC) that Aqua could be a good choice since your probably comfortable with a Saturnine vibe.

I would avoid anyone with Leo. It'll be around your Chiron and opposite your Saturn. Could cause a bit of a mess for you. Your best fire sign bet would be Aries and Sagittarius.

Probably might want to avoid anyone with planets in early-mid Cancer as they'll fall into your 12th house. That's uncomfy synastry unless you consider yourself a really Neptunian person.

My thought is that Virgo would be an excellent choice since your Moon/NN is in the 6th (house of Virgo) and that's the sign your Jupiter is in. They could really fulfill you in a big way simply being who they are (Cap and Virgo are big self-sacrificing signs).

You might feel comfortable around people who also have an inner planet conjunct their node just as you do. You'll understand each others abstract thinking/intuition quite well. You'll feel like you can trust their vision and like they're also being guided by the hands of fate.

I'm also an Aries Venus and I would try to avoid Libra personal placements in a mate. A masculine sign on a woman and a feminine sign on a guy just doesn't jive. At least with this particular axis. Also had to learn this the hard way.

There are some "pitfalls" to your chart - Your Venus, Moon, and Jupiter are all in detriment.

However, your Saturn is in it's old school home rulership of Aqua and your Pluto is in its home of Scorpio.

With a Sun in the 11th, a Jupiter in the 3rd, and Mars in the 9th I imagine you must be a good student with a nice social life. How many people can say that on this forum??

With Venus in the 10th and Moon in the 6th, there's a high likelihood of your meeting your partners at work. Maybe even dating your superiors at school/the office. That's considered risky business for a lot of people, but I'm sure you'll be able to pull this off well.

posted January 16, 2018 09:00 PM            

Here's what stuck out for me on your chart:

Even though you have your natal Saturn, which rules your 7th house of partners, sitting in your natal 8th house (shared resources), it makes a positive aspect to your natal Venus in Aries, in the 10th house of social standing or career amongst other things. You understand what your responsibilities are with regards to your work and what others expect from you. The interesting aspect to your natal Saturn is the square to Pluto in your 5th house.

Do you like kids? If this is what I think it is, you eventually may marry someone (older in years and/or with more experience) that has children of their own and both of you will share the responsibility for taking care of them. The sextile from your natal Saturn to Venus will bring you opportunities, but as with all Saturn influences they will come slowly. You'll have a big opportunity during your Saturn return, which will begin in late February, 2021. That square from Saturn to Pluto in your chart will test your need for freedom versus how much responsibility you want to carry for others. I have Cap rising and know just how slow things can move as well.

Venus in Aries can be impatient, but those Saturn influences on finding the right partner will help you to learn to have more patience.

If you tend to hang on to things, try to be more giving and that should help you to bring what you would like to have in your life--sooner.

Hope this helps some.

posted January 16, 2018 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
People give intuitive psychic tarot oracle readings on an astrological site so u can def post your esoteric teachings if u wish. There’s no rule on linaldand hat says u can’t...

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If u never intended to post it why even bring it up? Like you’re just rubbing it in her face that u know how to help her but won’t ...

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My intention was not to rub it in her face just to tell her I can't.

I even told her about feeding fishes on Friday because this general esoteric technique does not carry any risks. But the esoteric techniques I know about, I don't want to share them because they might sound strange or inappropriate. And I don't want to take responsibility for anything going wrong in anyone's life since I'm not an expert but someone who learnt from another expert. I don't have the right to give out risky information like that especially online because not everyone can do it and those same techniques can be good for one and harmful for the other.

posted January 17, 2018 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
I know some Venus in Aries and they are super attractive and blunt. depends on other signs in their chart. but it seems u might enjoy dating uranus/ Aquarius Capricorn people . def attracted to Capricorn men so maybe serious lovers with a unique way of thinking. u like them detach and exude aura of confidence/ hermit?
thats my type too haha.

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posted January 17, 2018 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Sun,

Here's what stuck out for me on your chart:

Even though you have your natal Saturn, which rules your 7th house of partners, sitting in your natal 8th house (shared resources), it makes a positive aspect to your natal Venus in Aries, in the 10th house of social standing or career amongst other things. You understand what your responsibilities are with regards to your work and what others expect from you. The interesting aspect to your natal Saturn is the square to Pluto in your 5th house.

Do you like kids? If this is what I think it is, you eventually may marry someone (older in years and/or with more experience) that has children of their own and both of you will share the responsibility for taking care of them. The sextile from your natal Saturn to Venus will bring you opportunities, but as with all Saturn influences they will come slowly. You'll have a big opportunity during your Saturn return, which will begin in late February, 2021. That square from Saturn to Pluto in your chart will test your need for freedom versus how much responsibility you want to carry for others. I have Cap rising and know just how slow things can move as well.

Venus in Aries can be impatient, but those Saturn influences on finding the right partner will help you to learn to have more patience.

If you tend to hang on to things, try to be more giving and that should help you to bring what you would like to have in your life--sooner.

Hope this helps some.

Best wishes,
Spring

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posted January 17, 2018 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Spica:
Well if you already know then what else do you want to know? Now of course everyone is an individual and a synastry or composite can only tell if you'll get along with them. And in general to get along between with people and have pleasant relationships it would be good to fix your venus using esoteric techniques but I don't want to impose my beliefs and sensitive stuff online. I just told you what I know based on my knowledge. I gave my 2 cents, sorry if it didn't help.

A relationship is not determined by just the moon, venus or mars, it's much more complex. Venus is the planet of relationships in general so having a good venus will make you have better quality relationships. I can tell you one way to improve venus it's to feed fishes food on Fridays, every Friday and it makes venus' vibration in your aura improve and heal.

This is an astrology site and not esoteric so I won't post anything more than that.

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posted January 17, 2018 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Here's my thought: you're someone with a double-element in your Big Three. You're a Sun trine Moon person. This is actually an extremely powerful aspect, and it means that you're a person with a solid identity who knows who they are. Doubly so because the element is in earth, doubly so because you have Moon conjunct NN (an aspect which means your intuition is almost always right, and will lead you many fated encounters with others).

You should date someone with another double element. Maybe someone born on a New Moon. Those are the kinds of people who also have a firm grasp of their mission in life, and you can't help but adore/admire/gel with them.

With a Venus in Aries you could never date someone that you don't respect. Someone wishy washy would seriously turn you off. Your Venus is conjunct Juno, so you take commitment seriously. Your Venus is conjunct Mercury, so you need to date someone who is NOT an idiot.

I have a feeling you'll probably date someone who has a majority of earth/water elements in their chart because that's what you have. You have a grand earth trine with Sun/NN/Jupiter, and it turns into a kite with your SN. You'll probably need someone with inner planets to ping these specific planets. Maybe a prominent planet in air/fire to appease your fire venus.

I rarely ever see people date someone who has their Big Three in the same sign in their Saturn. In your case that sign would be Aquarius. However you have so much Cap in your chart (plus Uranus on your DSC) that Aqua could be a good choice since your probably comfortable with a Saturnine vibe.

I would avoid anyone with Leo. It'll be around your Chiron and opposite your Saturn. Could cause a bit of a mess for you. Your best fire sign bet would be Aries and Sagittarius.

Probably might want to avoid anyone with planets in early-mid Cancer as they'll fall into your 12th house. That's uncomfy synastry unless you consider yourself a really Neptunian person.

My thought is that Virgo would be an excellent choice since your Moon/NN is in the 6th (house of Virgo) and that's the sign your Jupiter is in. They could really fulfill you in a big way simply being who they are (Cap and Virgo are big self-sacrificing signs).

You might feel comfortable around people who also have an inner planet conjunct their node just as you do. You'll understand each others abstract thinking/intuition quite well. You'll feel like you can trust their vision and like they're also being guided by the hands of fate.

I'm also an Aries Venus and I would try to avoid Libra personal placements in a mate. A masculine sign on a woman and a feminine sign on a guy just doesn't jive. At least with this particular axis. Also had to learn this the hard way.

There are some "pitfalls" to your chart - Your Venus, Moon, and Jupiter are all in detriment.

However, your Saturn is in it's old school home rulership of Aqua and your Pluto is in its home of Scorpio.

With a Sun in the 11th, a Jupiter in the 3rd, and Mars in the 9th I imagine you must be a good student with a nice social life. How many people can say that on this forum??

With Venus in the 10th and Moon in the 6th, there's a high likelihood of your meeting your partners at work. Maybe even dating your superiors at school/the office. That's considered risky business for a lot of people, but I'm sure you'll be able to pull this off well.

Potentially problematic: Chiron in the 2nd, Saturn in the 8th, and Neptune/Uranus in the 7th. For obvious reasons.

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You're definitely right about me dating people who are "in my element" sort of speak (literally and figuratively). I usually date other Earth dominant people and in recent years have dated guys around my age who have that same Capricorn dominant influence. My recent ex was on the Cap/Aqua cusp (Jan 20th) and a guy before that was also on the cusp with his sun exactly square my sun (he was born Jan 22nd); I seem to love Cap/Aqua cusp men because I have had crushes on guys born between Jan 19th-Jan 24th almost all my life.

My Pisces MC makes it difficult for me to focus on one specific task so school has been up and down for me. I'm also not as social as my 11th house Taurus sun might have you believe .

posted January 17, 2018 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Here's my thought: you're someone with a double-element in your Big Three. You're a Sun trine Moon person. This is actually an extremely powerful aspect, and it means that you're a person with a solid identity who knows who they are. Doubly so because the element is in earth, doubly so because you have Moon conjunct NN (an aspect which means your intuition is almost always right, and will lead you many fated encounters with others).

You should date someone with another double element. Maybe someone born on a New Moon. Those are the kinds of people who also have a firm grasp of their mission in life, and you can't help but adore/admire/gel with them.

With a Venus in Aries you could never date someone that you don't respect. Someone wishy washy would seriously turn you off. Your Venus is conjunct Juno, so you take commitment seriously. Your Venus is conjunct Mercury, so you need to date someone who is NOT an idiot.

I have a feeling you'll probably date someone who has a majority of earth/water elements in their chart because that's what you have. You have a grand earth trine with Sun/NN/Jupiter, and it turns into a kite with your SN. You'll probably need someone with inner planets to ping these specific planets. Maybe a prominent planet in air/fire to appease your fire venus.

I rarely ever see people date someone who has their Big Three in the same sign in their Saturn. In your case that sign would be Aquarius. However you have so much Cap in your chart (plus Uranus on your DSC) that Aqua could be a good choice since your probably comfortable with a Saturnine vibe.

I would avoid anyone with Leo. It'll be around your Chiron and opposite your Saturn. Could cause a bit of a mess for you. Your best fire sign bet would be Aries and Sagittarius.

Probably might want to avoid anyone with planets in early-mid Cancer as they'll fall into your 12th house. That's uncomfy synastry unless you consider yourself a really Neptunian person.

My thought is that Virgo would be an excellent choice since your Moon/NN is in the 6th (house of Virgo) and that's the sign your Jupiter is in. They could really fulfill you in a big way simply being who they are (Cap and Virgo are big self-sacrificing signs).

You might feel comfortable around people who also have an inner planet conjunct their node just as you do. You'll understand each others abstract thinking/intuition quite well. You'll feel like you can trust their vision and like they're also being guided by the hands of fate.

I'm also an Aries Venus and I would try to avoid Libra personal placements in a mate. A masculine sign on a woman and a feminine sign on a guy just doesn't jive. At least with this particular axis. Also had to learn this the hard way.

There are some "pitfalls" to your chart - Your Venus, Moon, and Jupiter are all in detriment.

However, your Saturn is in it's old school home rulership of Aqua and your Pluto is in its home of Scorpio.

With a Sun in the 11th, a Jupiter in the 3rd, and Mars in the 9th I imagine you must be a good student with a nice social life. How many people can say that on this forum??

With Venus in the 10th and Moon in the 6th, there's a high likelihood of your meeting your partners at work. Maybe even dating your superiors at school/the office. That's considered risky business for a lot of people, but I'm sure you'll be able to pull this off well.

Potentially problematic: Chiron in the 2nd, Saturn in the 8th, and Neptune/Uranus in the 7th. For obvious reasons.

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posted January 17, 2018 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Thank you for the advice. I have tried magic spells and do tarot readings on myself and while those esoteric techniques are great I find astrology to be the only esoteric practice that consistently gives me correct predictions and almost always hits the mark on a prediction I make based on transits. I also like harmonic charts and have studied my 9th harmonic (said to be a chart that reflects your ideal partner). I know aspects are more indicative of what a person likes than planets are. I guess I made it seem like I am completely new to astrology. Sorry about that.

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No problem but astrology and tarot are not really the type of things I meant when I said "esoteric techniques" astrology and tarot and just prediction techniques, they are not magical or symbolic rituals or practices to bring change into one's life. I was talking about activities or practices that affects a person's life/aura/vibration so it's something serious, much more serious than astrology or tarot. As I said, one of the safe and positive practices is like feeding fishes on Friday to improve venus' vibration, it's nothing like astrology or tarot. Just wanted to clear that up.