posted January 24, 2018 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
I don't know if he is a player so much...just...inconsistent...or something I can't figure it out yet.

I met him we instantly connected. He asked for my number. He lives in a state over but was in town that weekend I met him. We started talking on the phone, texting etc. He came back to see me we spent some time together. He kept saying, he was going to come again then things would come up or he did not come. Which was ANNOYING. I did not ask him to come or beg or give him idea it was him...so to not come through was annoying.

We had some issues disagreements I was irritated he would say he would come then not. He was going through some stuff and wanted to relocate here. I even found him a roomate situation. He even talked to the person who had the room on the phone. He said he would have the money that week and would take care of it. Well, he ended up not having the money (I guess) did not come I got really ****** because I took my time energy to find him something cause he said he wanted to come here. It was difficult, I think finances were not that great for him..also he needs to get his papers fixed to be here...he let those lapse...so its tough.

Communication like tapered off a bit, we got over it..I guess. I got a new phone, lost his number. (we talk everyday). Anyway I did not talk to him for like...2 days he messaged me I told him i got a new phone your number I didnt have it saved. Small talk but fine he said how he liked that I was type of woman to stay home not always in the streets just regular talking. Then one day just whoosh he disappeared. like, his whatsapp was not working phone going straight to Voicemail. I called from another phone to see if he blocked me it did the same thing. It was like he was dead I was worried he had died or something.

Anyway, 2 days ago I noticed him online on whatsapp so he has resurfaced I do not know where or what he was doing. I am too nervous to message him. He has not messaged me. So, that is what the scenario is. I'm totally confused here and just like that was stressful month of not knowing what happened to him.

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yeah, I got the feeling he cut off everybody like that which shows why all the women (and you) asked about in relationship to him have been in stressed, compromised positions. I'm thinking he did something which is why he went ghost like that. Still be cautious of him he sounds deceitful and like he plays mind games. Men need to be straightforward and chasers.

posted January 24, 2018 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
yeah...it was complicated...the whole thing.

Do you want to exchange more

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