posted February 20, 2018 08:23 PM            

I'd be up for one if you are?

posted February 20, 2018 08:46 PM            

There is some silence and distance between them but I feel that it is work related. Someone is working or they're both working and they don't fit around to each other's schedule to see each other often. The man in this relationship is depressed and going through some things, but he's dependent on the woman in the relationship, and uses her for her security and comfort, and in the case also, her literal home. It looks like he provides a sense of stability for her, regularity, convention in her life, but she also does it for him too. Just the regular ole, regular ole, nothing different going on. Everything goes on by routine and every day is the same. Barely anything different. There's arguments here and there but it's like that for any couple.

posted February 20, 2018 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
I can exchange a question

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posted February 20, 2018 09:59 PM            

jeez, what an animal....

posted February 20, 2018 10:59 PM            

Sorry for delay.

Anyway sorry for delay I try do them ASAP. Had to run our though.

posted February 20, 2018 11:57 PM            

I think he feels you are a blunt, to the point no nonsense girl. You can hold your own and call out things in a blunt honest matter. You are a individual who doesn't need to follow crowd or anyone you do you. He finds you mature and really smart. I think he feels you can be dominating over people or things...not in a obsessive, unhealthy way. You can put your foot down and stand up for yourself and have a lot of self control. I think he finds you different. You are super feminine but also got that edge to you that is like..whoa..did she just say that? Do that? You are no push over. He does respect you a lot sees you as someone who is pretty balanced or handles hurdles well. You are like someone who can go into battle come back on your horse still look good as in the last card 6 of wands. You are well rounded with home life, responsible and even maybe creative. I say all in all he really respects you and digs your traits. I think he doesn't know you THAT well yet but what he has gathered so far is positive.

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posted February 21, 2018 05:22 AM            

Sure. We can exchange more. What is your question?

Mine will be I am curious about my ex IC....how did he feel when I left our apartment in Ohio (our fallout/breakup) whatever.

posted February 21, 2018 05:32 AM            

Okay my question is about O again, what does he think of my looks?

posted February 21, 2018 05:57 AM            

Wow, this is very telling.

When you left it was the complete end of your relationship. No turning back, no making up and getting back together, nope it was cut off the line completely. He just kind of accepted it. He knew it was going to happen. The relationship already showed signs of failing before and things just kind of blew over. The next logical conclusion just would of been to end it.

Both of your feelings were hurt, compromised, and you didn't have the same love for each other anymore.
He thought about it a lot. It stuck on his mind for a long time. He kept repeating your relationship with him, and how it all ended, over and over again and he wondered what he did wrong, what you did wrong, and what he could of done to prevent it. He felt hurt and crossed. He didn't talk about it with you immediately though and pretty much kept his thoughts to himself. But it stuck with him for a while and he felt restless about it. Depressed.

His heart became closed off and he accepted this was the end between the both of you. He knew he couldn't do anything to take that back from you. He just sucked it up and got over it, at least I hope he did. I'm seeing he made part of the decision too, and probably told you to get over with it.

I'm also seeing presence of loved ones; did he have an affair or other women on the side?