posted February 21, 2018 08:09 AM            

You said possibly, it will be belated happy birthday and it was, he wrote today.

posted February 21, 2018 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Jazabel:
OK I'm on my lunch break and just had my lunch , I can do a question now.

My question is if you see me changing my job in the near future. I dont feel settled here yet

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posted February 21, 2018 12:29 PM            

For your question i pulled the following :

Scythe - Woman -Anchor - Whip - Crossroads

In the context of your question - I gather that he would prefer you to be more detached. He is taking this slow and he needs to know that his actions are nor being regarded as another step towards commitment. Which makes him take a step back and retreat. So, be more detached, focused on something else like job or a hobby, leaving the impression you can do just fine with or without him. The card Scythe talks about the detachment, it's the first card.
the Crossroads shows the nonchalant attitude, like - i can go here but i can go there as well, you have options.
The Anchor shows you of a stable character, difficult to sway and having some strong principles, if he offers something - don't always agree.
Whip shows the need for you to be a hard to get a$$.
Woman - remain feminine and caring, he likes feminine.
So in a nutshell - you need to give the vibe of being interested but not eager to be with him and not agreeable.
He needs to be left with the impression that he is the one making the choice and not feeling like he might fall into a trap if he says or does something which may be interpreted as *I Want To Commit To You Now *. He is careful with that and it makes him to pause.

posted February 21, 2018 01:25 PM            

Example:
Before the reading, I sent him a pic of my Nutella jar with a spoon and wrote "my hell week has no end"

according to the reading I should not have done that, should have kept quiet and done nothing and just let him text when he feels like texting..

but soon after you gave your reading, he did reply, wrote what he was up to in his week..

but some days, he does not reply but waits a few days or just writes something short.