posted June 07, 2018 09:11 PM
I came to know this guy who is pretty awesome at what he does- a successful MBA who had a good administration position to his credit. Smart, good looking and intelligent, he always had high standards in regards to physical beauty and ended up falling in love with his friend who looked nothing short of a supermodel.
Last year, she cheated on him with two other guys while still being in a marriage with him. That is when they broke up, even when he wanted her to apologize and return.
He was literally lost after that, invested in a business recklessly (to keep himself busy) and lost the money, missed his girl every moment, and was having a bad time concentrating on his job.
That is when we became friends and as I tried counselling him, he opened up more about the things that made me wonder if that had been a part of their sexual life (he denied that he ever had shared his wild fantasies with his wife), or a part of insecurity and trauma. He is usually very possessive of someone he is now dating, committed and loyal too, so sensitive that he would cry to see someone suffering (Remember seeing him cry to see a homeless child asking for help). But at the same time, he asked his girlfriend if she could indulge in swinger sex, or weird sexual demands that she couldn't feel comfortable with. She claims he even fails to get turned on without him having thoughts of someone touching her. She also shared that he once mentioned swinger helps couples have fun and still stay loyal and that, swinger couples don't tend to cheat.
Now this is surprising- on one side, he is loyal, possessive, committed and very serious- one woman man; on the other, he wants to indulge in sexual intercourse with other women and wants people to touch his current partner.
second, he is sensitive, caring, considerate, cute type of guy; and at other times, he would be too aggressive, getting mad at a small mistake. He loves his girlfriend but constantly criticizes her of her way of dressing up. She complains that he makes her feel he is looking to convert her into his ex, but that he always denies it when confronted.
His personality really made me think what could it be in his chart that could shed more light on his personality type. I am surprised and curious more I know about his fantasies- he looked like a shy type of guy ever since I knew him! Could it be his recent relationship trauma that changed him, or something deeper in his natal chart?
(The piscean sun made me think he should be a sweet-lover-kinda guy ; the mars cunj Venus - could it be the reason behind sexual obsession)?
What more could you clarify about his personality from the chart? Anything?