posted June 13, 2018 07:51 PM            

What's interesting is that Pluto is also squaring my natal Mercury. B's Venus also exactly conjuncts my natal Mercury and he is going through the Pluto square Venus transit. Before I started to talk with him, I also started to go through the transit of Pluto squaring my natal Venus, but mine had finished I believe the latter part of last year.

When I had an oracle reading done about a couple of years ago on LL, she gave me the same info you did on the one guy--dancing, etc., but she also gave me the info on B, which was different than the other one. I've had readings before talking about making a choice between two guys--one is a good one and the other not. I also had a dream telling me I was picking the wrong one (that was before I met B and after I went out with the other one). Well, the dancing one, or what you saw as my actual husband, he drove around my neighborhood over the last 6 years and more recently even stopped by my house and listened to a conversation I was having with a neighbor (he was driving the car belonging to his current girlfriend and pulled into the driveway across from me, so I think he didn't know that I knew it was him). He made a choice back then to hook up with her instead of asking me out--not so different than the other one. I think in both cases it had something to do with me looking out for my mom--like I have something to do that takes away from spending time with either one of them and that's why neither has approached me. Maybe when Pluto goes over my ascendant, everything will change as I think this situation of what is happening with B is reminiscent of things in years past for me--makes sense with transiting Saturn in my 12th opposing my Moon (which rules my 7th house) and squaring Venus (which rules my 8th house). I also had someone tell me to take a little time when responding to B--don't be quick and now I know why.

Along with Pluto still going through my 12th, I have been purging some of the ways of thinking, old emotions, etc. that I have held over the years. When I first started talking with B, I intuitively sensed a lot of stuff that was said about me, so I'm thinking he believed some of it and may not know the whole story. The group that he started to hang with not long after that may have supported those lies as well, and made them more believable, since they all had worked at the same company at one time and have kept up with the gossip thanks to the girl that popped up, who is also part of that group.

Maybe I'm learning to forgive.

Hope this makes sense.

posted June 13, 2018 08:14 PM            

Saturn is also going to be conjuncting my Cap stellium
Including that ASC ruler Venus of mine while
Pluto is still going to be there! And making its way towards the end of my stellium in aqua too with my Sun there. I feel like when Pluto hits my sun since it rules my 5th house that is when I will get pregnant with my first child 😊 a psychic, the same one who predicted my meeting with M lol told me I’ll have 3 kids and get married in the later half of my twenties, so in about 5 years which fits the timeframe 👍
Uranus is also going to be conjuncting my ASC in Taurus soon in a couple years! Lol
Lots happening with me, these next few years I feel are going to be a whirlwind. But I’m ready.

I definitely think when Pluto hits it’s going to bring a TON of changes to your life, even if it feels hard or scary/overwhelming at first to have parts of yourself die or transform, it’s also exciting especially if you’ve been feeling stagnant.
For me since it was Venus, that’s when I met M and it totally changed my life. Was an extremely intense karmic relationship that taught me a lot of lessons good and bad lol. Interesting too that I had transit Saturn in my 7th conjunct my DSC ruler as well! Two very heavy karmic planets.
He had transit Saturn conjunct his Venus and transit Pluto conjuncting his DSC when we met too👍

I have transit Jupiter in my 7th right now, and I’m supposed to be meeting a new guy this year while this transit is still there, funny too that he is going to be tall and athletic which I don’t usually go for but fits the Jupiter/Sagittarius archetype

posted June 13, 2018 09:08 PM            

I'm pretty certain that there will be plenty of changes next year for me. I don't have a big family and when people pass away, it usually comes in three's. Along with my mom being older, my aunt doesn't have the best of health either and keeps asking me to call her often. She also wants me to visit them, but I'm trying to watch what I spend as my project is taking longer than I anticipated in its completion.

That's interesting about you and M having those transits as some of that tends to bring the critical out in people.

I just tried looking for that reading, but with no success so far. The search function here doesn't seem to be working. The reader was Britannia and she was very good. I think she was fine tuning her craft, so she could be an online reader.

The dreams I have had--both in meditation and while sleeping have shown me the dog I have, but not who I would marry. In both cases--me sitting in a porch with the dog laying on the floor and (someone next to me) and another time being dressed up (they were there and then the pic slowly went away before I could see them). Maybe because it would be undecided by me up and until a certain point in time. I had a good feeling about B after he hugged me years ago. The other one scared me and I found him calculating, but could put on a nice face like what you wrote. The jeckle and hyde thing would alarm me and over time I would not be happy. He also seems to have attached energy cords to me, which I've been trying to figure out how to get rid of--he is also an empath..but doesn't seem to have had the same development so far that I've experienced. There was something online showing how to quickly get rid of the connection, but when I clicked on it, I didn't have the application needed to view it. I've been told that when I lose my mother one day that the emotion I experience for a couple of weeks will get them to remove their cords for good. I also had someone say the connection was karmic.

posted June 13, 2018 09:54 PM            

I’ve learned that Uranus, Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto and Neptune (outer planets) conjunct your 5th or 7th ruler or Venus or in those houses tends to bring about new relationships that are significant or marriage etc.
I forgot to mention that Venus/Mars/Jupiter was also conjunct my moon (4th ruler) and trine my Venus when I met M also haha
And these were conjunct his IC.
We had a lot of close conjunctions between our charts with the angles and so we tended to get similar transits etc.
I think that’s pretty neat and goes to show how fated our meeting was. “The stars were aligned” lol.

posted June 13, 2018 11:43 PM            

Here's my birth info:

B is 11.20.48. No birth time, but possibly Virginia. He is tall and I'm thinking Taurus rising or cancer rising with Uranus in Gemini near his ascendant or Scorpio there with mercury near or in the ascendant.

T is 04.18.52, no birth time, but possibly somewhere in Chicago. He seems large framed, so maybe sag rising or Jupiter near his ascendant.

We seem to have different things to learn with each person we date.

Your cap stellium being affected by Pluto and Saturn should bring you new beginnings as well.

It will be interesting to see what you find.

posted June 14, 2018 06:05 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
So I definitely like B a lot better for you!
His cancer moon conjunct yours (which is also your DSC ruler) and DSC itself is really really great for not only attraction but true compatibility. You guys would understand each other, especially since cancer moon is so sensitive this is important to be with someone who is similar and understands that you have strong emotions and can be moody or changeable sometimes for no good reason, and who doesn’t criticize or tell you “you’re too sensitive or dramatic or being a baby” which tends to happens to people with lots of water like yourself or water moons since it’s very hurtful to you guys.
T with his Aries sun and aqua moon would be far too abrasive and detached or intellectual and would have a VERY hard time understanding your needs or feelings or where you’re coming from and would most definitely probably make those insensitive comments like I mentioned above which would be very damaging to you over time.

Also the fact that B is a Scorpio and you have mars in Scorpio and your sun is your other intercepted DSC ruler in leo so a partner with strong Scorpio attracts you 👍
B fits the bill very well. But too bad we don’t have his accurate TOB...

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Thank you. I agree with your observations and what's interesting is that my chart's 7th house ruler, which also describes a potential partner, would also have a moon in cancer and with it sitting in the 6th house of work--that's where we first met around 2002. I had never thought of him as a potential partner even after his spouse passed in 2004 and then he left the company and was gone for 7 years. We never had the get to know you conversations back then even as coworkers. It wasn't till 2014 and getting the connection after he hugged me goodbye did I feel like there might be something more to bumping into him every so often. I sent him emails afterwards, and he didn't respond, but my intuition said he read them and liked getting them. I think he wondered if I had some ulterior motive, though, and that is his natal mercury square pluto aspect working overtime. He left the company to work on his own, but never gave me his email, so then we would just bump into each other.

Thank you again. I think my 1st house with aquarius intercepted will bring me more freedom as others have mentioned in a reading or two. The hardest part will be losing family members. I would love to move from where I live at the moment, so that would be AOK with me.

Hope your next guy is really great and supportive!