posted July 30, 2018 12:28 PM            

1. Is T cheating on me?
2. Why do T and M talk every day? Is there something going on I should know about?
3. How does T feel about me?
4. Is T going to introduce me to his kids within in the next 1 to 2 months?

posted July 30, 2018 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I'll be available this afternoon for exchanges if anyone is interested. I have a few questions....
my questions:

1. Is T cheating on me?
2. Why do T and M talk every day? Is there something going on I should know about?
3. How does T feel about me?
4. Is T going to introduce me to his kids within in the next 1 to 2 months?

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Hi dustib,
I am up but I am still practicing with tarot, so take this with a pinch of salt please.
1. I pulled 6 of pents, 8 of pents and 3 of swords. Is he absent-minded or doesnt respond to phone-calls or something like that, I mean do you have clues that he might be doing that, if you dont mind me asking? Cause from what I see here, maybe he is just too focused on his work/career, like too busy and he makes you suspicious with his behavior.. 6 of pents is about help received and money mostly, 8 of pents about apprenticeship and focusing very much on the work at hand (the pentacle), then 3 of swords is a clear no card imo for this particular q. Maybe he is just too wounded and in pain for that cheating to even happen, if I phrase that correctly..
Anyway in the booklet that accompanies the egyptian tarot deck that I have, it says :
6 of pents : The bundle of the papyrus - help given and received, Co-operation, gratification, repayment.
8 of pents : the sacred tree - stability, manual or commercial ability, professional capacity.
3 of swords : the division of Geb and Nut - removal, division, sharing out.

I am more experienced with runes, so I pulled a yes/no for that, just to be sure. I pulled thurisaz, which is the hammer of Thor, destructive/negative forces, anger and also the obstacle rune and is a clear no.

posted July 30, 2018 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Jazabel:
I can do 2 q

I'd like to know how Mtc is feeling about me these days. Maybe he moved on ...
And do you see any motion between us in our stalled connection. Any contact ? Progress ? Or nada.

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How he's feeling about you:
woman, mirror, cat, parrot, bottle and clarifying card bottle

posted July 30, 2018 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by mar1982delta:

Hi dustib,
I am up but I am still practicing with tarot, so take this with a pinch of salt please.
1. I pulled 6 of pents, 8 of pents and 3 of swords. Is he absent-minded or doesnt respond to phone-calls or something like that, I mean do you have clues that he might be doing that, if you dont mind me asking? Cause from what I see here, maybe he is just too focused on his work/career, like too busy and he makes you suspicious with his behavior.. 6 of pents is about help received and money mostly, 8 of pents about apprenticeship and focusing very much on the work at hand (the pentacle), then 3 of swords is a clear no card imo for this particular q. Maybe he is just too wounded and in pain for that cheating to even happen, if I phrase that correctly..
Anyway in the booklet that accompanies the egyptian tarot deck that I have, it says :
6 of pents : The bundle of the papyrus - help given and received, Co-operation, gratification, repayment.
8 of pents : the sacred tree - stability, manual or commercial ability, professional capacity.
3 of swords : the division of Geb and Nut - removal, division, sharing out.

I am more experienced with runes, so I pulled a yes/no for that, just to be sure. I pulled thurisaz, which is the hammer of Thor, destructive/negative forces, anger and also the obstacle rune and is a clear no.

Are you exchanging with a couple of q too? If I could exchange with you on that terms, my q would be how am I progressing in terms of spiritual evolution and growth as a person.
I can do one more q, do you have a specific preference from the remaining ones? Thank you very much!

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He does suck at answering calls or texts for sure! That is why I ask and you are 100% correct he is focused on work at work. And I have helped him financially as well so again, accurate!

I am curious about M and T and why they talk everyday.

Do you have any other questions?

how am I progressing in terms of spiritual evolution and growth as a person.

clover, anchor, compass, butterfly, apple and clarifying card angel

posted July 30, 2018 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Jazabel:
Thanks! Yes, he tends to overthink things and can be depressing.

Is this spread for the first question or the second question ? Or is it a combined spread for the 2 questions ? I am confused

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It's a little bit combined. Let me ask if there will be any forward movement between the 2 of you since it shows contact.

posted July 30, 2018 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by mar1982delta:
Why these 2 talk every day .
King of cups 5 of wands (clarified with 3 of swords) Sun.
Are these two friends? To my limited knowledge at least, the sun comes up mostly to friendship and not so much about romance. There are stable grounded emotions too (king of chalices) but there is a balance between emotions and logic and they are restrained and under control. 5 of wands in the middle made me wonder what it meant here, as its about conflict, tension, strife, disagreement, anxiety, competition. The clarifier was 3 of swords so its again about pain, emotional wounds and suffering. Has sth negative happened between you recently or is this about his past wounds? It impresses me that the same card appeared twice, he is really wounded as it seems..then the sun is about happiness, optimism, fulfillment, purity and innocence. So I am hoping that if my reading is right there is nothing between them, but he probably shares with her his anxieties and his negative thoughts or their interaction makes him forget his struggles and pain and brings some joy to him.
I pulled some runes for that
Alguz rx raidho gebo.
I clarified the reversal of algiz with mannaz, so its indeed rx.
Then I pulled also a clarifier for gebo and got jara.
Algiz rx is about feeling disconnected, isolated, in despaid, under negative forces and influence and it fits the previous pattern of the cards for conflict and pain imo. Raidho is about movement, traveling..are they away from each other? Lastly gebo is a rune of balance, equal give and take, exchange and social relationships, friendships and such. Gebo is also about gifts. I clarified furtherly with jara, which literally means year, so do they know each other for years? Jara is also the rune of the harvest and accomplishment, it has also a karmic undertone. From these I am sensing there isnt something going on between them, although there are stable emotions and a solid foundation, probably for psychological support and sharing each other's problems? Hope this is right!
Now my q would be what was the purpose of me falling in love with KK (unrequited)?
Thank you very much and I ll brb with the second part of your q!

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M is his oldest son's baby mama. Everything I know about her is, she's a b**tch and they argue all the time YET he cheated on his other baby mama with M a few times. So, I feel my fear is founded since she put him down every chance she got until she supposedly found out about me. He claims she knows about me, I've not met any of his kids of the 2 bm so I don't know. I do know they added each other of FB just recently which is an issue for me. The reason sounded bogus and fake so I am of course worried. They tried to get back together 2 years ago but he claimed it didn't work. So, I don't know what their "status" is but I 100% hope you're right and I'm going to go with you are since you were spot on with the 1st question.

Your question: what was the purpose of me falling in love with KK (unrequited)

wow, a lot of the same cards as before! clover, peacock, butterfly, anchor, pyramid and clarifying card fire.

posted July 30, 2018 02:25 PM            

Can you pull 3 more cards for feelings since the first spread you pulled was a combination of 2 questions and it only showed a bit for each.

posted July 30, 2018 02:31 PM            

The flanking cards are Bear and Coffin and I think he is out of job or money or both and has a lot of time on his hands so flirting is a way to spice up his life....

posted July 30, 2018 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
M is his oldest son's baby mama. Everything I know about her is, she's a b**tch and they argue all the time YET he cheated on his other baby mama with M a few times. So, I feel my fear is founded since she put him down every chance she got until she supposedly found out about me. He claims she knows about me, I've not met any of his kids of the 2 bm so I don't know. I do know they added each other of FB just recently which is an issue for me. The reason sounded bogus and fake so I am of course worried. They tried to get back together 2 years ago but he claimed it didn't work. So, I don't know what their "status" is but I 100% hope you're right and I'm going to go with you are since you were spot on with the 1st question.

Your question: what was the purpose of me falling in love with KK (unrequited)

wow, a lot of the same cards as before! clover, peacock, butterfly, anchor, pyramid and clarifying card fire.

So, falling in love with KK was to help you change and transform....the butterfly and the fire are both about transformation. It was to help you with your confidence and get over a restriction you had placed on yourself. These cards are all about change, transformation, overcoming but also about a foundation. It was to help you figure out what you want with someone who you will be with in terms of that foundation. I pulled another card for a tiny bit more clarification and got child which shows the growth and maturity you learned from falling in love with someone who didn't have the same feelings. Yes you were hurt but when that hurt is all the way gone, you will see the growth and transformation if you haven't already. It was all a way to help you on your journey

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Aha, so maybe the 5 if wands was for them arguing after all. Its a weird connection if thats it, both 5oW and the Sun?
So he s got 2 different kids from 2 dif. Women and they have a history..I really dont want to bring bad news but, objectively speaking, you are right for watching that woman closely and you should really keep an eye on her..ironically I pulled the queen of Swords before reading your answer (b*tch) and the booklet says : QoS : the lady of Revenge - difficult character, sterility, rancour, loss..
So she really sounds like one lol.
Other than that, I wasnt sure about that spread, I rephrased the q a bit to "should Dustib beware of M and T.-like is she dangerous and such)?
Do you agree with that phrasing as the second part?
Thank you very much about the reading too!!

posted July 30, 2018 02:39 PM            

I get that he enjoys the intimacy with you and he definitely enjoys the sexual part of your relationship. I think during sex is when he shows his emotions. He can loosen up significantly during those moments. The central card is Garden so I feel he is not committed yet, he still searches for a greener pasture, it seems. Maybe this is his nature....Bear and Clover straddle the spread so it seems he feels lucky to have you in his life, you seem to help him a lot and he is like damn I am so lucky with it.

posted July 30, 2018 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by mar1982delta:

QoS : the lady of Revenge - difficult character, sterility, rancour, loss..
So she really sounds like one lol.
Other than that, I wasnt sure about that spread, I rephrased the q a bit to "should Dustib beware of M and T.-like is she dangerous and such)?
Do you agree with that phrasing as the second part?
Thank you very much about the reading too!!

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posted July 30, 2018 03:02 PM            

Knight of chalices - High Priestess - queen of Pents.
Now I am not sure if I ll be able to post a photo of the cards (as I dont have the proper account and I am on my phone) but the knight is looking to the right, the queen to the left and the priestess is right in the middle, centered, self content, sure of herself and super calm, looking straight ahead (like looking at me lol)! It s even a little funny as a picture all 3 together.. this tells me that maybe what he told you has some truth (that part for them till he met you and such) and you are indeed the "obstacle" between them (for her).
You should listen to your intuition (not fear, but intuition) and beware of this M. Ironically the queen of Pents is pregnant and this fits with her being his first son's mama.
As for him, as a knight, he is emotional and maybe likes the attention/loves all forms of love or whatever, of course he is slightly immature too..
Now the booklet says :
Knight of Chalices. : the enjoy of Nephtis - close friend, lover, gift.
High Priestess : Science - the threshold of the temple of Isis where mysteries areonly revealed in solitude. Study, wisdom, intuirion, mysteries, secrets, research.
Queen of Pents : The lady of glory - severity, yet compassion, marriage of convenience.
As for the runes before, jara could mean karma as I mentioned (they have karmic ties, considering their story you tsaid before and he harvest could also be the child they share).
Now I pulled for that part too and got
Eiwaz thurisaz rx nauthiz.
Clarifier for thurisaz rx : perthro.
Now eiwaz is the rune of the yew tree, the tree of life and death and is a spiritual rune, also connected to kundalini (and the death card in tarot). It leads to transfofmation but its meaning is mostly negative. Thurisaz is about anger, defensiveness, destructive forces, violence, rage. This could be about their relationship again (fights etc). Lastly nauthiz is again a rune with a karmic undertone as it means need. Need is the mother of invention and here it could mean necessity, perseverance. Perthro as a clarifier is ironically connected to the seer (hence the HP before too). Its also about the lot-cup (in one of the previoys spreads I also pulled Wheel of Fortune). So the runes tell us that there is some strong force (negative mostly) that you should watch out for regarding M and T, nothing happens between them right now most probably, but this doesnt mean you shouldnt be cateful after all..You shpuld be strong and inventive in that case and some things are left to fate after all (nauthiz, perthro in a broad sense)..
Hope these helped..