posted August 23, 2018 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Wow that’s so accurate! Like about not being truly compatible he would always say that! lol thought he was just trying to be nice and really he just wasn’t into or attracted to me haha which I still feel is true tbh. I’m like the opposite of his type

My other question is why wouldn’t he kiss me then if he wanted me like you said? He also would act super cold and distant? It’s just confusing I don’t understand how he could want me or I “make him feel” then, like he would never even tell me how he feels?

And Fox is usually deception isn’t it though?

Okay brb with yours

Thank you so much btw, you’re very gifted and seem spot on with these intutive readings so far

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posted August 23, 2018 12:15 AM            

Then I pulled ace of pents, moon, 6 of pents, devil
Clarified by my high priestess of air, deceit and forbidden oracles

posted August 23, 2018 12:22 AM            

But i still don’t understand why he wouldn’t kiss me and why he would act so cold and distant and never tell me his feelings for me when I would ask him?
He’s a Scorpio moon and he’s literally soooo confusing like nothing he says vs what he does makes sense or vice versa lol!

posted August 23, 2018 12:43 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
And ohh okay well that’s good to know at least

But i still don’t understand why he wouldn’t kiss me and why he would act so cold and distant and never tell me his feelings for me when I would ask him?
He’s a Scorpio moon and he’s literally soooo confusing like nothing he says vs what he does makes sense or vice versa lol!

Can you see why he would act this way? Despite wanting me like you said?
Any clarify would be greatly appreciated.
He drives me crazy trying to understand him lol

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he's acting out of logic because he is so sensitive, like what I see is that his feeling are actually SO strong, but since he has decided that logically this can't work, he is trying to lead with logic and not emotions an is locking his feelings in a box as a means of self-preservation and protection. getting physical with you will have his feelings totally triggered again and he doesn't want to just keep going in this endless cycle where he knows its not gonna work, yet he tries to convince himself that it will because of how much he likes you and how attracted he is. basically, he's trying to protect himself.

posted August 23, 2018 01:05 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
The thing is we were still physical though! lol we would have sex allllll the time.
But when I would say “kiss me before you go to work whatever” for the day, he would let me but wouldn’t kiss me back if that makes sense lol. Which he never did when we were still together for those 2 years. Before we broke up and have been in this FWB situation lol, which i didn’t see changing anytime soon because he didn’t want to commit and be in a real relationship again. That’s why I gave him an ultimatum and said either were together together or we’re nothing, it’s been a year and I’m not going to keep letting you waste my time if you don’t even have any intentions of getting back together like wtf are we doing?” And he said “you’re on one for no good reason, yeah that’s all I have to say”
So I was like wow, nothing to say, even despite me saying If he didn’t explain we’re done. Didn’t say anything.
So I blocked him, it’s been a week now.

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posted August 23, 2018 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Also, the fact you keep saying like and not love is another reason I felt like I should cut contact with him.
We were together for 2 years ,well kind of like 3 lol and if he STILL doesn’t love me that’s a huge red flag and problem. And i don’t feel like he ever really did or does, so that’s why I felt like he was just using me for sex and stringing me along yah know...

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but that being said, I do think his feeling for you were genuine. I actually think he may be tuning into a truth that you guys aren't that compatible and I think one day you will look back and see that he was actually doing this for BOTH of your best interests. doesn't mean on some level he doesn't want to let go, which is probably why he keeps having sex. in his mind, he has it justified that you can have sex and not be in love as long as he tries to assert that it is JUST physical (even though sex is never just physical)

honestly, I had similar situation with my ex after we split after 3 years. we continued to have sex and he wouldn't kiss me or say he loved me and it made me doubt everything we ever had.

it made me feel so ******* rejected and it was honestly the worst feeling ever

now a few years later... I see that he was actually right. we weren't;t compatible. if we had just gone of our pure emotions, we would never have split even though we were toxic. sometimes you gotta be logical.

posted August 23, 2018 01:42 AM            

I appreciate your optimism though ❤️ It’s a nice idea but doesn’t seem that realistic or probable looking at the facts. Especially since I know what a douche he can be lol
I’m just ****** he didn’t have the decency, after 3 frickin years and how good I was to him. Literally I’m like the best gf, I’m 100 percent loyal, giving and loving and i put up with so much of his crap and he couldn’t even be honest about how he feels and instead just lie and use me, like that’s why we’re not compatible! lol I would never do that to someone, waste their time and lead them on. It’s so selfish and pointless.