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posted August 26, 2018 11:54 AM            

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I just don’t understand why he even kept me around!? like he even told me “I’ve had a great couple years with you” super sarcastically before.
And I knew he still wanted his ex, I frickin knew it, I could see through his lies, so like why did he agree to date me and continue to do so for so long?
Like why go through all the hassle to lie and pretend and do all this stuff, waste BOTH our times?
I would understand as a rebound, I make a great rebound I’m more attractive than chey lol so I know he probably wanted me to show off because she started dating his best friend and he was jealous etc.
But for almost 3 years I was in his life, why did he string me along for so long!? Aren’t rebounds like a short term thing? Was it really just for sex? But he didn’t even seem that into it tbh 😐
Or he just liked playing with me, got a sick kick out of it?
This is my last question, something that I’ve always wondered. I just want the truth, lay it to me I can handle it lol nothing you say will shock me when it comes to him trust lol
I just want to know what I’ve really been dealing with these past 3 years, accept it, heal and move on!

Oh and I forgot about your other q I’m sorry! Brb

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posted August 26, 2018 12:07 PM            

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Lovers eight Wands five Wands hermit nine cups ace pentacles hierophant king cups nine Wands

I still do think he really liked u and it may be hard to believe but he had good intentions in the last 3 years. Although it seems c was probably an influence to why I guys were together it wasn’t the only reason. Seems he did try to get over her with u but I think c might have done a number on him and he didn’t even realize it . I feel like yeh he lied but I still do think he did infact love u. Soemtimes people do things that don’t make sense but t doesn’t really mean he doesn’t love u. Bc cards are there that showed he didn’t just use u for sex and that there was something there but he honestly doesn’t even know himself what he wants in life or a relationship . So no I really don’t think theee years were wasted no matter how much **** u just said he did lols. I would love to say he was but I think it’s not the case . He’s just not expeoreicned so he doesn’t know how to handle his emotional towards u. Liek little kids picking on the ones they like.

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posted August 26, 2018 12:51 PM            

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Huh? Are you sure!? Lmao
What makes you think he loved me? I don’t even see any nice love cards there lovers I feel was just showing multiples, two, the other woman?

How did you phrase the question? Like what question did you ask?

That’s sooooooooo confusing 🙃 on so many levels. The dude was literally pining after his ex the whole time and you just said you still seen him doing that.. how could you love someone when you’re wanting someone else?
I don’t understand. How is that not using me and having bad intentions if he’s just trying to get over her through me?

You know what’s funny too is that I was told I’m a healer. So I’ll attract broken people, maybe that’s what it was. That’s why I felt like I needed to be so loving towards him, becuase it was my karmic duty to help heal him or something....
yet I just end up getting traumatized 🙃 lol I’m honestly so mad what an idiot!!!!!! I always told I’m his pride is his downfall, always said that to him. And look what happened. He could have just stayed with his truelove and not have dragged me into his bologna if he would have just been honest with me in the beginning!
I feel so victimized and I hate it so much. Like none of this had to happen if I wasn’t lied to, and he’s the only person to blame.

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posted August 26, 2018 12:54 PM            

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I asked if he genuinely cared about u for three years ?

And my lovers card has a third party too but i don’t use cards only to interpret. No cards are so black and white in meaning and definition for me . Just shows he’s not ready to be in a healthy relationship no matter how wel intention either party has

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posted August 26, 2018 01:04 PM            

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I asked if he genuinely cared about u for three years ?

And my lovers card has a third party too but i don’t use cards only to interpret. No cards are so black and white in meaning and definition for me . Just shows he’s not ready to be in a healthy relationship no matter how wel intention either party has

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Ohhh, okay makes sense
Sorry I don’t mean to make it seem like you’re not accurate or anything you’ve been sooo accurate it’s impressive and I’m very happy to understand things a bit more! So thank you ❤️
I’m just so conflicted and confused over this whole situation, it’s all such a mess and I guess my definition of love is very black and white. Either you love completely or not at all. I dont believe in second hand or second choice love, if you’re with someone and you’d rather be with someone else I don’t think that’s love. When you truly love someone, you don’t want anyone else. At least that’s my opinion anyway....

Oh and crap my reading for you didn’t even post I just realized!!!

I’m going to have to retype it brb

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posted August 26, 2018 01:11 PM            

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Empress (omg there you are again!), 6 of cups, king of pents, high priestess, seven of swords, queen of swords R
Friendship, change and discipline

Alright so, looks like he misses you, or this is someone you have a past with, there’s a strong familiarity here. I feel like this was romantic? Because I have chance and friendship. So I feel like this friendship is a new thing, a change. Looks like him works hard to keep this that way or has a hard time controlling himself just being friends or something too.

Queen of swords I feel is you since your an air sign.
King of pents I’m assuming is him? Is he a earth sign?
Also though I got high priestess and 7 of swords. So this makes me feel like he’s suspicious of you or vice versa. There is an element of secrets, hidden things here. Maybe there was a lot of secrets between you two.
He does think you’re beautiful and loving and nuturing though. Empress is my truelove card actually. It’s that warm fuzzy feeling, tender and intimate.

Let me know if this resonates!
I’m pretty tired still it could be off

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posted August 26, 2018 01:22 PM            

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Yup 100 percent resonates . That’s what I’m picking up for his feelings as well lols. Def a good friend atm but he was my ex . Thank you!!

He’s air and earth like I am . But very earthy approach to most things

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posted August 26, 2018 01:49 PM            

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Anyways enough about M ugh. 2nd biggest regret of my life so far! Every time I think back I just cringeeeeee. So embarrassing how pathetic I was lol a naive lovesick idiot. But boy have my feelings changed, they say there’s a thin line between love and hate and I agree 👍 definitely feeling more hatey as time goes on

Thanks so much for putting up with my drama and rants and venting and endless questions lol my Virgo moon tends to over analyze. You’re such a gem to do this for me and crazy gifted! You picked up on the situations so well, it made me remember everything so vividly and get me in my feels lol.

Let me know if you have anymore questions ever.
Going to try sleep again now ❤️

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posted August 26, 2018 04:02 PM            

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Anyways enough about M ugh. 2nd biggest regret of my life so far! Every time I think back I just cringeeeeee. So embarrassing how pathetic I was lol a naive lovesick idiot. But boy have my feelings changed, they say there’s a thin line between love and hate and I agree 👍 definitely feeling more hatey as time goes on

Thanks so much for putting up with my drama and rants and venting and endless questions lol my Virgo moon tends to over analyze. You’re such a gem to do this for me and crazy gifted! You picked up on the situations so well, it made me remember everything so vividly and get me in my feels lol.

Let me know if you have anymore questions ever.
Going to try sleep again now ❤️

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You’re welcome sweetie! I know relationships are tough so I can understand the frustration. I get like that too . I have Virgo ascendant so I’m all for over analyzing some things haha. But thanks for the compliment . Usually I can connect with chill and calm people. I find I pick up people’s anxiety and it affects the reading at times . Sometimes I don’t even want to read for them anymore so I’m glad you’re energy’s so warm.

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posted August 27, 2018 09:15 AM            

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Mars r u here ?? Got a q

So why did he just come and leave ??

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posted August 27, 2018 09:56 AM            

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Mars r u here ?? Got a q

So why did he just come and leave ??

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Hi furry I am yes, I just got back from work! I ll brb with your q!

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posted August 27, 2018 09:56 AM            

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Thank you! Leave ur q

I’ll be back in 30 m

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posted August 27, 2018 10:11 AM            

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Ok what I wanted to add yesterday but now its too late lol was that I wasnt sure if you are gonna see him this week or later but I was getting that sth unexpected would happen (I tried several times and got the Wheel twice and also the Magician, which I somehow thought it was confirming the same in that particular spread) Now I got no proof lol, but you saw him after all hehe
Now for your q
I got king of wands 3 of cups the World. Maybe he went to meet some friends? That came unexpectedly? He could have gone to meet an older man or if he is the king of wands in this spread for some reason, then he got super active and energetic, fiery and met with other people having a good time and being totally complete and satisfied. Maybe it was a celebration about sth ending even or an anniversary of some kind. Now I got no idea how you are gonna tell me if this resonates but let me know anyway!
If you want to ask me another q too, so that we can exchange, because I left the yesterday question half-answered.
Or if you want me to redo this one to see if we ll get more info, feel free to ask!

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posted August 27, 2018 10:23 AM            

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Haha I do know hes social, seems he talks to a lot of guys at the gym. But yeh he just came and looked at me then left 20 m later. As long as it has nothing to do with me. Lols

But yeh what’s ur question? No need to redo it .

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posted August 27, 2018 10:29 AM            

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Are u sure? You can guve me another one too!
Thank you for the reading too, it resonated !

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posted August 27, 2018 10:30 AM            

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posted August 27, 2018 10:35 AM            

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Lols can u unquote me
He didn’t come just to look at me lols. That would be bit crazy. Obviously he came to workout but he just looked at me went to the bathroom and came back out and left . He usually changes to his workout clothes so that’s why Iknow he left . Just wondering how did he feel when he saw me ?

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posted August 27, 2018 10:36 AM            

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Done, sorry I quoted myself the swcond time LOL
Brb

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posted August 27, 2018 10:40 AM            

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Lovers ten cups king cups fool three Wands nine cups hanged man 9 swords

I like to say he didn’t like how things ended. My 9 swords can be a stalker so maybe he’s been checking up on you. I do think he wants a fresh start with u or maybe possibly meet up and talk and see how u are. Seems he is thinking about possibly settling down and I feel like you might have been someone he thought would fit into his life perfectly . I do feel like he’s going to try contacting u and asking for a fresh start . Just feel like u were a friend too so it didn’t make sense to cut coordination / walk away.. does that make sens ?

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posted August 27, 2018 10:47 AM            

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Hmmm yes we didnt end very well, not at the beginning (of the end lol), but fairly later after that, so this could be true. And also he def stalks LOL, I dont know to which extend though..hopefullt only facebook, where I am.not really active anyway lol
As for friendship yes, I considered him a friend too. Thanks so much.

Your q
Page of Pents 4 of wands 5 of swords 4 of swords the Fool (clarif. The Lovers)
He totally observed you and was looking at you carefully, this page is so fitting about examining someone and analyzing them too. He felt happy seeing you and also a bit like a winner, like the smug face of someone having a competition (?no clue how this could fit here) or it could be that he feels that he has competition for you in general and this makes him feel frozen and inactive/being at a standstill. However in the end we got the fool so he seems to be totally open to a romantic potential between you cause I got the Lovers as a clarifier.
Did you feel like he was looking at you differently than other times for some reason?
Let me know if this resonated and also if you got more q! I am available right now, i am drinking my afternoon coffee!

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posted August 27, 2018 10:53 AM            

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Actually funny u say that... I did think it was different this time but part of me hopes that too haha.

Like I always look at the mirror while working out to make sure my posture is good . He looked at me while he was walking and kept staring until he got to the mirror then looked down knowing I see him looking so I felt that was intentional liek to show he’s interested ? ... anyways I thought I was crazy

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posted August 27, 2018 10:58 AM            

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No I dont think you were crazy, at least the page of pents doesnt let me to believe that LOL (ypu know I am teasing you right? )
Hmm now that I think about it more..do you think he could be at least subconsciously or a tiny part of him competitive to you in the gym?? Like for the training part lol. This could have brought other thoughts about you too, so thats why the Fool is right after the 5 and 4 of swords, like he hadnt aknowledged that perhaps till now??
Also as I am writing this I have thought of a new q let me know if you are up for it and leave your q!
Oh I also saw you got Virgo Asc and I have Virgo Moon, too curious to ask do you remember the degrees of your Asc? 😂

I edited my comment on the reading here

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posted August 27, 2018 11:01 AM            

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Hahah . I mean I do compete with him at the gym. Like when I see him work out harder I try my best as well. Just adrenaline rush. I’m so immature. Lols .im pretty strict with my training days. 6days a week so maybe he thinks he’s not as dedicated lol

Or he think competition wise , he might notice guys are interested in me? I know a few men think I’m attractive but not sure if he would notice that.

23 degrees Virgo ascendant.

U can leave ur q too. I guess we can ask is he aware men are attracted to me ? Is that what the competition thing comes from ?

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posted August 27, 2018 11:08 AM            

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Hehe just some min ago i editted my comment above and told you my opinion but I will def ask for that too. I am on the phone right now so I ll brb
My q is how does MP (a female coworker) feel about me?
I ll think of some more q too if you dont mind, i didnt read your answer thoroughly because I am typing on thw same phone I am talking lol

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posted August 27, 2018 11:16 AM            

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No worries I’ll be here lol

So it seems there was some situation when u first started that caused some tension between u two? I feel like maybe u messed up on a task and she’s always been somewhat iffy about your abilities. But it seems she moved past it now and she is judging u fairly for ur work and view u as an equal / respect you . Although it seems she keeps her cold distant demeanor with u Bc that’s how she is. I feel like there were 2 incidences where u guys didn’t get along but it seems it’s water under the bridge. Now she knows u have an important role in the company

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