posted August 28, 2018 01:06 PM            

1. There are certain circumstances that make me think that John is dating other ladies and Barb is not exclusive. Could you tell me what you feel.

2. He is still some what reluctant to hug me. Is it because he is still sexually attracted to me or because he feels I might want more?

posted August 28, 2018 06:47 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Missy
Could I ask you a couple of questions if you feel up to it?

1. There are certain circumstances that make me think that John is dating other ladies and Barb is not exclusive. Could you tell me what you feel.

2. He is still some what reluctant to hug me. Is it because he is still sexually attracted to me or because he feels I might want more?

Leave your question too. I can get back to you a bit later 🙂

---

1. I feel him being very flirty. I also feel that he is not totally 10000% committed to this barb, so that sort of just gives the perfect environment for cheating; whether it is physical or emotional. He definitely feels like a flirt. And also like he is curious and very open to experiencing more women. Like, he may be trying to force himself to be loyal bc that is what he thinks he’s supposed to do, but it doesnt feel like his natural tendencies.

2. It’s sort of a blend of those things. Like he doesn’t want to feel anything and also wants to have strong boundaries so that he doesnt feel anything. He feels like he is “doing the right thing” by doing that

My question is;

posted August 29, 2018 12:58 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Missy
I’m back and so sorry for making you wait so long!
Page of cups, moon, queen of pentacles , ace of cups

At one time I thought it might be more than six months but look st these cards!! It’s all self explanatory especially with the ace of cups to clarify. You and your family will be very happy living there. One of the best cards in the deck. I’m jealous. Hawaii OMG!🐬😎🏄🏼‍♂️

Your first answer about John fits to a T. That is so him, that’s why I thought he was lying when he said he has a girlfriend.
Not really clear on your second answer though. I remember you saying as well as others that we would be intimate again but not for a long time coming. Do you feel it’s still going to happen. So you feel he still IS attracted to me?
Take your time, Missy, as it’s bed time for me and I made you wait.

---

Sorry i dont think i was clear enough with what i meant with the second answer. I actually meant he IS attracted to you, like that is why he is trying to maintain some boundaries. I do think he is attracted to you. You are like the stable, regal tree.. (haha random metaphor). You are the peace and the safety. It’s interesting to me, because it’s like there is this youthful side of him that wants to have fun and wants variety and pleasure.... but if he were to chill out, get centered, and see what truly made him feel LOVE (not ego love, not pleasure, not excitement) it would be you.

Let me tell you something interesting, I friend-zoned my curren husband when I first met him. I was 17 and I wanted that ego stroke that I got from being with guys who were “hard to get” and who treated me poorly. I actually was dating my current hubby’s cousin then! It was all of the excitement that comes with these ego connections.. My husband, even though I denied him, was always there for me... just smiling and being a stable presence in my life. I cried to him and always came back to him.
Years later, I healed a lot of my ego-issues with spiritual work... and I saw that not only had my husband always loved me, but I always loved him...
I just never knew what love felt like.

posted August 29, 2018 10:46 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by poochycat:
Good morning Missy
Thank you so much for your reading. It was so sweet the way you and your hubby came together. 💕 It is now making sense why he is reluctant to hug me. I guess he is feeling because of our differences it would be difficult to be committed and doesn’t want to hurt me. However ha ha, I would be happy to have a friendship with benefits. 🙂. Do you see it happening though. I remember you were saying yes. I know I’m probably bugging you with all these question but it’s the last one for two weeks as I have holidays.
Leave yours too and I would be happy to answer them.

---

I mean, I always wanna preface that I believe we all have much control in our lives and readings are only based off the energy that I feel NOW which can change with our divine will! That being said, yes I do feel that you could have that. Definitely. It is just a matter of him really maturing a bit more and really just being honest with himself about who makes him feel good.

My question is;

Are there gonna be any big crazy events in my life in the next few months?

posted August 29, 2018 11:13 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by poochycat:
Lovers reversed, tower, four swords, six cups
Hmm...this looks to me like it could be involving your ex as I rarely get reversals. So the lovers reversed in the past next to the tower is definitely showing an ending. It is shadowing the six of cups which is showing your past. The four of swords is like peace in the middle of the battle because you know the end is in sight. Burning the red jacket was symbolic. Destroying all the negative energy surrounding you. There could be some upsets with him still but I feel the Universe is on your side.

** So you see us getting frisky again. Yeah. 😛
Thanks, Missy💕

---

Thanks so much! Can’t wait to update you about that! and yes I definitely do see that