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Topic: Help with my husband
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missblyss
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posted November 09, 2018 11:15 AM
  
My (scorpio) husband is in a bad mood at least 50% of the time. He’s a good man, but I have such a hard time dealing with his moodiness. It really affects me negatively 😓 he’s basically just got a black cloud around him half the time. Only sees negativity in his life. Anyone wanna exchange about this? Either astrology or tarot? Idk what to do. His birthday is October 26, 1988 11:51 pm San Diego California IP: Logged |
furrybunny
Knowflake Posts: 3979
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Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 09, 2018 01:55 PM
Heyt. So I suspect one reason he’s moody is because the ex is stil in the picture . I also see planetary energies affecting him more so than the average person . asking for angels guides or doing energetic work will help his moodiness as long as he gives u permission.
I actually think when u move to Hawaii his mood will drastically improve . Soemthing about ur current location I think seems to set him off easily . I think also maybe it’s possible you think you’re being caring and understanding but I think he thinks it’s not enough at times like u don’t try hard to get him... is what I’m getting Temperance
Fool
sun
King cups
King pents
Hierophant
queen cups
World If this resonate just wondering is there a high chance x and I be in a Relationsip in 2019 ? Or is it with another person ?
Thank you!
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MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 09, 2018 03:01 PM
Hi Missy
So I just looked at his chart and compared it to yours (I had your details). So I can see that there is excellent compatibility between you 2. He is a cancer ascendant so he can be very moody. So are you which is why his mood swings may affect you too. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. As you know I went through a break up. The key learning for me was that there should always be good communication. So if you think something is bothering him, make sure you get it out of him. Being cancer ascendants, there is a tendency to keep things inside. Just approach him with love and he’ll take it out (this was non astrological advice btw). Just wanna ask, was his relationship with his father not good or father was absent from his life? I can see that he tends to be more logical with matters of love and you are can be a bit dreamy. I think it’s a nice balanceIP: Logged |
Caprika
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posted November 09, 2018 03:14 PM
What degree is your Aries Venus? TR Saturn might be squaring it right now or soon will. IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted November 09, 2018 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Caprika:
What degree is your Aries Venus? TR Saturn might be squaring it right now or soon will.
Hey girl I am pretty sure it is at 10 degrees! IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 2737
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posted November 09, 2018 07:15 PM
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Originally posted by furrybunny:
Heyt. So I suspect one reason he’s moody is because the ex is stil in the picture . I also see planetary energies affecting him more so than the average person . asking for angels guides or doing energetic work will help his moodiness as long as he gives u permission.
I actually think when u move to Hawaii his mood will drastically improve . Soemthing about ur current location I think seems to set him off easily . I think also maybe it’s possible you think you’re being caring and understanding but I think he thinks it’s not enough at times like u don’t try hard to get him... is what I’m getting Temperance
Fool
sun
King cups
King pents
Hierophant
queen cups
World If this resonate just wondering is there a high chance x and I be in a Relationsip in 2019 ? Or is it with another person ?
Thank you!
I do see there being a chance of a relationship with X. There is definitely a connection there that could evolve into something more serious! Thanks for my reading girl. Yes, he hates where we live now. He is a surfer and we basically live in the mountains now. And our rent is $3k per month to live somewhere we don't wanna be. He is DYING to be in Hawaii. I think the sunshine and beach and being able to surf will make the hugest difference for him. I think you are right, I am not always the most empathic even though I'm a pisces. I'm too sensitive so I can sometimes get upset when he's in a bad mood rather than being there for him. IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 2737
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posted November 09, 2018 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by MrShawn:
Hi Missy
So I just looked at his chart and compared it to yours (I had your details). So I can see that there is excellent compatibility between you 2. He is a cancer ascendant so he can be very moody. So are you which is why his mood swings may affect you too. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. As you know I went through a break up. The key learning for me was that there should always be good communication. So if you think something is bothering him, make sure you get it out of him. Being cancer ascendants, there is a tendency to keep things inside. Just approach him with love and he’ll take it out (this was non astrological advice btw). Just wanna ask, was his relationship with his father not good or father was absent from his life? I can see that he tends to be more logical with matters of love and you are can be a bit dreamy. I think it’s a nice balance
thank you! Yes, we are super compatible... like, I literally think he was designed for me and vice versa. we are just basically the same. and in the ways we aren't the same- we balance each other out! I think most people who know us see as as "relationship goals"  you know scorpio/pisces is a THING haha. I am very dreamy  IP: Logged |
MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 09, 2018 11:28 PM
Was I right about his relationship with the father?IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 2737
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posted November 10, 2018 10:44 AM
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Originally posted by MrShawn:
Was I right about his relationship with the father?
His relationship with his dad isn’t BAD, but he does say a lot about his dad being really negative and moody as a child. His dads an Aquarius which I think is probably not the best parent for a Scorpio. He definitely favors his mom, despite the fact that she was a drug addicted and very absent most of his childhood. His parent fought a lot too. IP: Logged |
MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 10, 2018 11:33 AM
Your husband is actually a Libra sun according to Vedic astrology (sorry to break that to you). I can see the fights between his parents. Mars is aspecting the 4th house of mother ftom the 9th house (house of father). Also, you told me that you guys met at a garage which I should’ve picked up on. Was this a social gathering by any chance? Also was there any symbolism relating to twins. It could be 2 similar cars, 2 similar looking people basicallly any 2 things that looked similar. It could be in the form of painting, sculpture or real life.
Also career wise, i can see that his work requires him to travel. Is that the case?IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 2737
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posted November 10, 2018 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by MrShawn:
Your husband is actually a Libra sun according to Vedic astrology (sorry to break that to you). I can see the fights between his parents. Mars is aspecting the 4th house of mother ftom the 9th house (house of father). Also, you told me that you guys met at a garage which I should’ve picked up on. Was this a social gathering by any chance? Also was there any symbolism relating to twins. It could be 2 similar cars, 2 similar looking people basicallly any 2 things that looked similar. It could be in the form of painting, sculpture or real life.
Also career wise, i can see that his work requires him to travel. Is that the case?
lol, you aren't breaking anything to me. I didn't know you were referring to Vedic astrology bc you didn't specify. I know he's svati sun in Vedic, krittika moon, pushya lagna, uttaraphalguni venus (conjunct my moon!) my sun satabhisha is also conjunct his rahu yes we met at a party at his garage. I'm not sure if there were any twins there. he does have a cousin his same age who was my boyfriend at the time so that could be the "twins" and also there may have been a twin there but im not 100% sure IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 2737
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Registered: May 2016
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posted November 10, 2018 12:56 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MrShawn:
Your husband is actually a Libra sun according to Vedic astrology (sorry to break that to you). I can see the fights between his parents. Mars is aspecting the 4th house of mother ftom the 9th house (house of father). Also, you told me that you guys met at a garage which I should’ve picked up on. Was this a social gathering by any chance? Also was there any symbolism relating to twins. It could be 2 similar cars, 2 similar looking people basicallly any 2 things that looked similar. It could be in the form of painting, sculpture or real life.
Also career wise, i can see that his work requires him to travel. Is that the case?
his work doesn't require him to travel,
he works for my business and helps me make my herbal products at home IP: Logged |
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