posted November 27, 2018 09:35 AM            

yes they are aware of the underlying current between the 2 of you.

So, T and I texted a bit this morning. He said he didn't block me and friends don't need to talk every day. I told him I agree that friends don't talk daily but he knows what I want and even then, friends don't ignore each other. I told him I am done trying to fight for a spot in his life and if wants me in his life then it's up to him to put me there. And he's gone silent....what will his decision be and if it's to make an effort, when will he contact me or is it done?

posted November 27, 2018 03:26 PM            

I feel like He’s lying to you about blocking you. My cards and guides clearly show me that he blocked you so the other woman would not see any coorespomdencd between the two of you as she does check his phone. Let’s be real here-this is not a friendship nor can it be. It’s black or white for this situation and he’s trying to keep it in a gray area because he doesn’t want to lose you , yet it’s unfair and I feel you should work towards freeing yourself from this until and when he is free. He’s choosing indecision at the moment, which is why he has pulled back. He will contact you withi. The next three days but I still don’t see much resolution at this time , sorry

If you are up for reading , I’d love to know where mt’s feelings are in regards to me today.

Second question would be - would his friends/family accept /welcome me? What do they think of me ?

posted November 28, 2018 12:13 PM            

would his friends/family accept /welcome me?

ring, sun, baby

well this says it all! They would be super happy and accepting when they 2 of you get together.

What do they think of me ?

compass, dog, ladder, cage, spider

they think you are a special person based on the changes they have seen him make(for the ones that know why and about you). They see you as a successful person who has their life together and that you are loyal and generous as well. They do think the 2 of you will get together and it's going to be a long term commitment.

Yes I know he's lying to me about blocking me. I'm not stupid.....he does have to make a decision and right now he's completely silent. I'm curious as to how he would feel if he knew I was starting to date again.

posted November 28, 2018 02:19 PM            

as for J- he was surprised to hear from you, but pretty open and accepting about it. Like he is interested to talk more and 'see where things go'. Feels like this was left hanging, and he's curious to see where/if it can go anywhere .

posted November 29, 2018 06:41 AM            

So his feelings for you are package, house, clouds, ring, butterfly and clarifying card ladder

He's actually depressed right now because he's still not ready he feels to step forward. But he definitely feels he can have the family and commitment he wants with you. He is wanting to complete his transformation to come towards you because he knows you deserve that. He is hoping to surprise you with the transformation he's made.... that will you notice.

posted November 29, 2018 02:09 PM            

bridge, arrow, hammer
yes and you both will feel strongly about the other. you both have the same goals when you get together as well!

posted November 30, 2018 10:36 AM            

wow so this is interesting! I have several cards showing change and a journey which tells me this is going to get him thinking of looking elsewhere(not in terms of women!). It looks like there will be some secrets that come out in regards to either why you left or something he's been dealing with and not happy with. It looks like you leaving will force him into action a bit more for sure. He's definitely going to be sad about it.

posted November 30, 2018 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
for you I got train, bread, curtain, road, pyramid and clarifying card spoon

wow so this is interesting! I have several cards showing change and a journey which tells me this is going to get him thinking of looking elsewhere(not in terms of women!). It looks like there will be some secrets that come out in regards to either why you left or something he's been dealing with and not happy with. It looks like you leaving will force him into action a bit more for sure. He's definitely going to be sad about it.

What you wrote made perfect sense! What would he lose if he chose me? That's interesting and doesn't sound like a good thing and he will choose to go the other way. There is still silence and I refuse to contact him! He knows what I need and I left the ball in his court and will NOT reach out to him!

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Hi d-
Would you mind clarifying about him looking elsewhere ?
My other question would be : do you see him communicating with me once he hears ?

posted December 01, 2018 10:55 AM            

do you see him communicating with me once he hears ?

Wave, tree and angel

The angel means message of good news so yes he will but it won't be right away. I see him going back and forth trying to decide but then he'll just do it!

posted December 01, 2018 08:40 PM            

Ok/ so will mt and I see each other at “the” holiday party? If so , how will it be ?

posted December 02, 2018 10:05 AM            

Heart, clouds, sun yes you will see each other and one of you will be a bit down in the dumps. I pulled another card for why and it looks like someone is going to be "in their feelings". I feel this will be him, he will be surprised to see you and that will make him happy.

And also- what do you see for me lovewose the next few months ?
Ladder, falling, fairy, scissors, cherries and clarifying card volcano

Honestly not seeing too much change in the next couple of months to start but it will slowly start up. It looks like you will get a request to help someone out, I'm feeling yes from MT because he will figure out that you like them and that is enough to give him courage/ability to kind of control the situation and that's almost what he needs to move forward. looks like they will also mention they like you as well. It's going to be a slow start but it's a start!

Can I ask, what kind of outcome will come from this talk? He's not willing to "risk" anything according to him and he has to be there 100% for his kids. Not sure what else we can talk about....he knows what I need. I know he's doing anything to try to keep me in his life with this phone deal, he's offering to pay his part of the bill moving forward. Uh no!

What is going to happen love wise for me the next couple of months? Will I completely let T go and find someone else?

posted December 04, 2018 03:13 PM            

when he hears I've replied yes, will that impact him to attend or to not attend?

hands, mask and bottle

yes it sure will but he will never admit to it. I do think he will plan on going but I'm thinking he will get sick so he won't stay long but he will go.

posted December 05, 2018 06:10 PM            

I asked for the next month and got Snake, compass, fox and overall energy butterfly

It really looks like he is going to face a lot of his fears this next month and figure out which path to take. Based on the overall energy meaning a transformation, there will be progress and change coming

Secondly- any good love prospects for the new year

Dog, cherries, bread and overall energy train

Yes looks like someone will be loyal, sweet and will have a lot of qualities that you feel you "need" and things will move forward with.

posted December 08, 2018 02:37 PM            

You asked :
OK so T and I had the talk you mentioned, he always swears he's so busy with his kids but promises to try because he wants me in his life but never delivers. He's always telling me how he's stressed and so busy and doesn't have time yet he goes out with his friends. I feel like if he wanted to keep me in his life, he'd make an effort. And today I told him I was done because he promises to call and then never does so I told him he's made his feelings clear. How does he feel and will he try to come back or will he accept that I am walking away?

I am sorry to say, as much as he is attracted to you and cares for you, it feels as though his energy is moving away from you. You saying that has made him recognize that he needs to choose a path right now, and unfortunately, he has chosen the path of least resistance right now. He finds it 'easier' to let you go . than to fight for you, unfortunately. I feel like you may have spoken again after you asked this question...is that true?

If you are up for another exchange, I'd love to know if I have been on MT's mind, and if so ,How?

posted December 12, 2018 03:07 PM            

Is he still feeling the same way? And he's still done?

I'd love to know if I have been on MT's mind, and if so ,How?

feet, fountain and bird

posted December 13, 2018 09:06 AM            

Is he feeling the same way and is he done?

Bear, Fox, Mountain clarifier: Road

Wellll.....He's still feeling protective over you and the whole situation. He's not done, in his mind he needs to distance himself. He's nervous of spiraling out of control. For now, it is done but in his mind, it is just delayed. He really thinks and hopes he can keep a lifeline open and that when 'he's' ready, you may take him back. He's a bit delusional this way. Overall, it's over in your mind and almost, youer heart....

May I ask you something? This woman 'G'.(connected to MT) what does sh think of me? Also, does she think anything of MT & I?