posted November 21, 2018 10:58 PM            

The one ray of hope was I could make a new start. That I'd learn from this, heal and love again.

Then I woke up to the fact that Chiron's just moved into Aries.

I've got a Stellium in Capricorn: Sun, Mercury and Venus. Venus is at 26 degrees, so near the tail end of the transit. Chiron's going to be squaring them all. Slowly. So I guess this means a whole lotta more pain to come in relationships if not immediately, then definitely in a few years time. It tells me any relationship I form before then - before 2027 in fact - is essentially doomed.

posted December 30, 2018 08:45 PM            

Can you post your chart? Maybe there's something you've overlooked that can add a positive note or silver lining to all that you've experienced.

I have strong Cap placements as well and have had to learn to be patient, optimistic and move past the gloom and doom from how past workplaces had conditioned me. When transiting Pluto squared my natal Venus a few years ago, I learned what real love meant to me. Yes, I had a relationship or two end, but I realized that what those people represented relationship wise wasn't what I really needed. The transit of Pluto to Venus will usually end those relationships that are not the best for you and will bring you something better. The ones that are good for you will deepen. This transit also may make you crave love and sometimes instead of waiting for the right one, we jump into a relationship with someone that isn't a good choice.

With your Cap placements, you should be wiser in some ways, but being patient comes with having faith in knowing that all things will work out for the best.