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Topic: Sick grandparent
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MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted January 25, 2019 01:13 PM
My grandpa has been in and out of the hospital the last couple months. He is in a home now with dimentia but is not adjusting well. It is taking a toll on my mom who is his main caretaker, there with him every day. She is very sad and stressed. We are unsure how much time he has left. Is there any messages for me or more importantly my mom? I don’t know a way to put her to some ease. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 106748 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2019 12:13 PM
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sVirgo5 Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Washington Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 27, 2019 12:39 AM
Hi MMarie, I am also going through similar turmoil, my Mom is behaving weird. She is not ready to adjust with anyone.
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MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted January 27, 2019 07:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by sVirgo5: Hi MMarie, I am also going through similar turmoil, my Mom is behaving weird. She is not ready to adjust with anyone.
I am very sorry you are dealing with this with your mom. I see how much my grandfathers sickness is effecting my mom and family. Hope she will be okay or you can find some peace in the situation. IP: Logged |
sVirgo5 Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Washington Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 27, 2019 08:20 PM
We are planning to take her to old age home today. I am in US and she is in India and no one is ready to take her responsibility anymore.I am sending her Pink light all the time when she is in my conscience. Thanks! IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 27, 2019 09:22 PM
Hi Marie,I pulled some cards, but am unsure about their meanings: deep emotional feel, love. It's as though this is a test for her. There is a platonic friend who will lend their compassion and kindness to help. The last card is showing that she will enjoy the philanthropy that will come from what monies are left behind. I know when there were tough times with my mom, 94 years old, I needed to get the sugar (including over doing the amount of fruit) away from her otherwise she wasn't easy to help with things and everything seem to go off balance for her with that. Don't know if this helps. Take care, Spring IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted January 27, 2019 09:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Springtimeflower: Hi Marie,I pulled some cards, but am unsure about their meanings: deep emotional feel, love. It's as though this is a test for her. There is a platonic friend who will lend their compassion and kindness to help. The last card is showing that she will enjoy the philanthropy that will come from what monies are left behind. I know when there were tough times with my mom, 94 years old, I needed to get the sugar (including over doing the amount of fruit) away from her otherwise she wasn't easy to help with things and everything seem to go off balance for her with that. Don't know if this helps. Take care, Spring
Thank you Sprintimeflower! I very much appreciate this. I can see how this might be a test for her. There is a lot of fighting with other family members that does not help the situation. And I will keep in mind the sugar intake. Anything at this point to help. Thank you! IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 27, 2019 09:43 PM
You're welcome Marie!Is there a religious person that she knows? I saw that, too, in the cards. Maybe they can talk with her as they are good in these situations. Spring IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted January 28, 2019 08:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Springtimeflower: You're welcome Marie!Is there a religious person that she knows? I saw that, too, in the cards. Maybe they can talk with her as they are good in these situations. Spring
His sister is a minister and has come to visit this past weekend. She is coming back this week with their other sister. I think my mom feels a sense of relief when she is around. Thank you!
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mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10967 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted January 28, 2019 11:13 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 106748 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2019 10:28 AM
I hope she feels better.IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 02, 2019 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: I hope she feels better.
Thank you Randall! IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 02, 2019 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: I hope she feels better.
Thank you Randall! IP: Logged |