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Topic: Did my boyfriend breakup with me without telling me?
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ProxyxBlue
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posted June 15, 2019 06:45 PM
  
On June 8th, my boyfriend told me that he needed some time to think alone. I responded, he hasn't read my messages since then. I've reached out since then (messaging and called three times) also and nothing. He has been completely ignoring me. Did he break up with me without saying anything? Or will he actually respond to me soon? IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 15, 2019 08:18 PM
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Dons2angelss
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From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted June 15, 2019 09:21 PM
Not sure how long you've been together but it sounds like it hasn't been that long. I think he's distancing himself from the relationship or already has and is hoping you'll do the same so he doesn't have to say it to your face. It's really immature and he should at least let you know something but people have their own ways of doing things and this may just be his. My advice is to just let him go. Forcing him to confront you is probably going to make it worse, especially if he's immature enough to ignore you. I'm sorry you're going through this ❤️IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 15, 2019 09:33 PM
So basically you're saying that he broke up with me? And that really sucks...I purchased my plane ticket already and he knows this.IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 15, 2019 09:38 PM
Sorry to ask, but do you know why he's doing this? IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss
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From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted June 16, 2019 12:09 AM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Sorry to ask, but do you know why he's doing this?
Not a clue on why. Do you have his chart? IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 16, 2019 12:24 AM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Not a clue on why. Do you have his chart?
No, I don't have his chart. I only know his DOB is 1/5/87
Mine is 10/25/88 IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss
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From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted June 16, 2019 08:58 AM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
No, I don't have his chart. I only know his DOB is 1/5/87
Mine is 10/25/88
Do you know where he was born? IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin
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From: Cordoba, Argentina
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 16, 2019 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Not sure how long you've been together but it sounds like it hasn't been that long. I think he's distancing himself from the relationship or already has and is hoping you'll do the same so he doesn't have to say it to your face. It's really immature and he should at least let you know something but people have their own ways of doing things and this may just be his. My advice is to just let him go. Forcing him to confront you is probably going to make it worse, especially if he's immature enough to ignore you. I'm sorry you're going through this ❤️
I agree with this. I experienced the same thing two months ago and I had to broke up with him by text for him to answer. I believe that if I hadn't written "we broke up", he would be ignoring me for years or something like that, or maybe he would have stayed by my side but lying and not feeling comfortable at my side. Even if he is not wanting to end up the relationship, this thing he is doing is very immature and he must apologize. Nobody deserves to be treated this way. I think this is disrespectful and horrible. I don't see much love there but I hope he does love you. I'm sorry you're going through this situation. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 19, 2019 07:03 AM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Do you know where he was born?
No, I don’t know where he was born for sure. I know where he is currently living, but idk if he was born and raised there. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 19, 2019 07:08 AM
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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
I agree with this. I experienced the same thing two months ago and I had to broke up with him by text for him to answer. I believe that if I hadn't written "we broke up", he would be ignoring me for years or something like that, or maybe he would have stayed by my side but lying and not feeling comfortable at my side.Even if he is not wanting to end up the relationship, this thing he is doing is very immature and he must apologize. Nobody deserves to be treated this way. I think this is disrespectful and horrible. I don't see much love there but I hope he does love you. I'm sorry you're going through this situation.
Edited out to limit my babbling lol IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted June 24, 2019 01:16 AM
No, it is not common to break up this way no matter what sign and nationality he is. He may not have planned to MIA but your constant messaging/calling may have caused him to ignore you. You only gave him 2 days before you started contacting him. That's a very short time. If I tell someone I need to think, I need a few days to a week and I don't wanna be bothered. Especially he's a Capricorn who doesn't rush into decisions. In fact, most earth signs need plenty of time to mull over things unless they've a lot of fire in their chart. You cannot rush them. If he intends to break up, he should convey this to you properly and not run away. For now you should just leave him alone and let him come to you. But you don't have to be waiting. He can MIA. You can move on w/o telling him too. IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong
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posted June 28, 2019 05:31 PM
i pulled some cards that makes me think he's having financial difficulties...maybe he got laid off of work or owes people money and now is trying to figure it all outIP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted June 29, 2019 05:08 PM
Sorry my reply is late. Thank you everyone for commenting. I really appreciate it.  It could be possible it's about money, because he was stressed about work and there were other reasons behind that from what he revealed to be previously. So you are correct about what you said, ithinkimightbewrong.Hikaru29, I know I probably shouldn't have sent messages so soon, but for me I didn't understand why it was happening because it was sudden and he didn't give any warnings or reasons as to why. I do suspect it's because of what happened the previous day and maybe he felt offended or something. Either way, it'll be okay now though. IP: Logged |
todd
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posted July 01, 2019 10:44 PM
I think he is in lust with someone but it will not last
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ProxyxBlue
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posted July 01, 2019 10:58 PM
Oh really? 😲 I suppose I’ll ask him about it. Thank you for commenting!IP: Logged |
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