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Originally posted by thatonegirllol:
No such thing as bad synastry just challenges. Some people like challenges so more challenges in the synastry or composite chart can have them hooked. Some don't and the relationship never even gets romantic.He has his venus squaring your uranus in the synastry. I didnt see any venus square uranus in his chart and if its not in your chart then that means its a new energy created when you're together and could potentially be the biggest challenge you face when interacting with each other. Maybe not now but down the road cause synastry aspects need a couple years to really start showing.
So, if you don't have venus-uranus in your chart, and he doesn't have it in his, then you both don't know how to deal with this energy from each other. and since its a square it'll be new challenging territory for the both of you. Uranus is exciting and can add the necessary spark and excitement needed in a relationship, but uranus doesnt really like to be held down.
You see how this can become an issue in a square, where one persons personal planet squares with the outer planet that doesn't want to commit seriously to a relationship?
If you do have venus square uranus in your natal chart then thats a different story. You're used to that energy so having it in synastry with someone would make it easy to deal with
I also don't see any uranus aspects to the lumimnaries in the composite...so thats good. That decreases the chances of having "wandering eyes" in the relationship (if it gets to that point)
Not much saturn contacts in the composite...saturn is the main thing that keeps people together for a while in the composite at least. You guys have it in your synastry tho. I personally feel like in synastry it focuses more on insecurities and working through them more than that soul-binding connection with the composite
Pluto is conjunct the composites ascendant. In fact theres a lot of contacts to the luminaries regarding pluto. Im thinking a relationship between the both of you would be pretty plutonian. A strong sense of "we were meant to be together" or "I feel like i've met you before". Obviously if someone feels like they're meant to be with you they wont play you, but pluto is manipulative and will play someone to get revenge on them. If you do end up together, be careful you dont start to think he's your twin flame. Just in case lol
At the end of the day, I still cant tell if someone is a player from their chart cause that really depends on their free will and common sense, butttt I've given you some things to look out for!
Thanks for your input I think Saturn aspects in synastry can be binding as well that's been my experience anyway. I do have Venus square Uranus in my own chart. I don't really like conventional relationships and I like having space. I like excietment too so I usually get bored and start talking to someone else even if I don't completely leave the other person. As for this guy I like him I think I like his Scorpio energy due to me having a lot of planets in my 8th house. He likes to talk to me everyday at first I was annoyed by it. But now it's ok we have Moon trine Moon so I think that's why I can tolerate it lol. I told him that I thought he's just the type who wants sex. He told me I was wrong and that he likes commitment. But we live five hours away from each other.