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posted December 21, 2019 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In Chapter 2 of The Art of Predictive Astrology, USA astrologer Carol Rushman asserts that the classic indicators of marriage being promised in a natal chart are :-

1. Aspects to and from the Sun (in a woman's chart), or to and from the Moon (in a man's chart).

2. Applying aspects from the ruler of the 7th house.

3. Planets in the 7th house, and their aspects.

4. Interception in the 7th house (indicates multiple marriages).

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posted December 21, 2019 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vansio:
If it’s ok I’d like to add my data to this exercise chain:
1. Sun applying quintile to NN, trine to Juno [all under 1° orb] next major aspect is a trine to ASC-Mars [8°]
2. L7 Saturn applies a sesquisquare to ASC-Mars [1°] then square to Pluto [3°] 😬, yet exactly applying square 5th House Vertex [0°]
3. Neptune-Uranus in 7th, sextile Mercury [2a°], sextile Pluto [5a°], square Venus [7a°]
4. No interception

From what I understand, some folks count a number of promises based off the each applying major aspect?



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posted December 21, 2019 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Although your exactly applying square from Saturn to 5th House Vertex does need to be considered, it is not shown on the above chart extract - because I do not know what letter Astrodiesnt use for the vertex in their programs. ... And I've left the Moon in, as it is at the anaretic degree and aspected by the Sun.
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1. Aspects to and from the Sun

The Sun (in Pisces/9th) is applying a 4-arc-minutes-orb 14th harmonic aspect to Mars (in Cancer/1st) ... indicating "striving to be noticed as someone-who-cares".

And ... it is making harmonic aspects to every other planet in the natal chart ... 71H to Moon : 61H to Mercury : 110H to Venus : 82H to Jupiter : 89H to Saturn : 9H to Uranus : 9H to Neptune and 19H to Pluto.

Currently though, I do not have even an inkling about the meaning of any prime number above 31 - so can produce working-interpretations only for the Sun's aspects to Mars : Venus (11Hx10H) : Uranus : Neptune and Pluto :-

Sun-Mars = "striving to be noticed as someone-who-cares".
Sun - Venus = "you know what/who you want - and nothing/no-one can stop you from getting it/him"
Sun-Uranus = "he has to be intellectually stimulating".
Sun-Neptune = "he has to be compassionate".
Sun-Pluto = "he has to walk-the-walk everyday, in every way".

So ... you have no difficulty in getting a partner (which the trine to Juno/Asc and quintile to NN confirm/reinforce) ... but partners will have difficulty in measuring up permanently, or even for long enough to be considered as a potential husband..


2. Applying aspects from the ruler of the 7th house.

Saturn makes an applying harmonic aspect to all other natal planets (but with varying %age strengths) :-

Sun 44H/71% : Moon 16H/77% : Mercury 14H/86% : Venus 7H/74% : Mars 29H/68% : Jupiter 45H/97% : Uranus 34H/55% : Neptune 34H/57% : Pluto 25H/72% ... and that almost exact natal Saturn-Jupiter aspect is applying only because Jupiter is retrograde.

My interpretations for these applying aspects from Saturn are :-

Sun-44H ... 'in situations which require compromise or/and diplomacy, your dogged defiance may be a problem"

Moon-16H ... "you have an emotional need to be in control, which (unnecessarily) creates obstacles or/and enemies."

Mercury-14H ... "intuition enables you to see behavioural patterns that others do not."

Venus-7H ... "intuition enables you to see who can/cannot be relied upon."

Mars-29H ... "you take pride in being someone-who-cares."

Jupiter-45H ... "you are devoted to duty."

Uranus/Neptune (34H) ... "you are a poster child for the rebellion through which your generation will change society."

Pluto-25H ... "you have the creative skills/abilities required to transform your society."

So ... with regard to the natal marriage promise ... I am leaning increasingly to the view that it may be "granted", rather than promised.**

[** My natal chart is that of a soul intending to experience life as a husband, father, grand-father and great-grand-father. Yet, when young, I was driven by the desire to succeed in my career - and did so (whilst also being a husband and father). Then, after retiring, a palm-reading psychic informed me that career success was 'granted' but marriage was 'promised' - which I can now see in my natal chart. ... In essence, both the palm-reader and the natal chart were telling me that "if push had come to shove, I would have sacrificed my career rather than my marriage" - and that would indeed have been so.]


3. Planets in the 7th house, and their aspects.

Bear in mind here that the Uranus-Neptune conjunction happens rarely (every 171 years or so), and seems to result in the birth of a generation which - in some way - reforms society (or the status quo.) ... So, whether consciously or unconsciously, this evolutionary objective/purpose will have a strong influence on you.

Hence, (in terms of the marriage promise), the contact made by the Uranus-Neptune conjunction to the Sun (9th harmonic, at 99% strength) is significant - because it makes you a "poster child" for (at least one of) those evolutionary changes. And, when combined with your (98% strength) Sun-Mars 14th harmonic "striving to be noticed as someone-who-cares", you have the potential to become a woman/Saturn that sacrifices her personal life/relationships for a 'greater cause'.


4. Duplication of 7th and 8th house cusps.

A problem in the (1st and) 7th house is adversely affecting the activities of the (2nd and) 8th house. ... And, my guess is that this revolves around your Mars (in Cancer/1st) personal drive to be seen as someone who cares and the Uranus-Neptune (in Capricorn/7th) social urge to "make-a-difference".

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posted December 21, 2019 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vansio:
an origami boat came to mind

Interestingly, I saw "a mountain range" (representing a challenge) or "a ship-sinking iceberg" (representing a threat) .... but you see "a boat that can float" (representing an opportunity to travel/extend your horizons).

However ... I initially read origami as (representing )
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From what I understand, some folks count a number of promises based off each applying major aspect?

Carol Rushmore writes "in 90% of the charts I have done - for a woman, the number of applying aspects the Sun makes before leaving a sign will give the number of potential marriages. For a man, it's the applying aspects made by the Moon."

And ... in my own (male) chart, the Sun applies only to Uranus (I married an Aquarius Sun) plus Chiron (thus I was wounded in another relationship that had the potential to become a marriage). However, although my natal Moon applies to every planet except Jupiter and Saturn, I married only once - and will have been wedded for 50 years in January 2020.

Hence ... it came as no surprise to me to eventually learn (via astrology) that the soul-purpose/intention of my current lifetime is "to experience life as a husband, father, grand-father and great-grandfather".

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posted December 21, 2019 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I definitely see 'origami'.. whether the crane or boat, something that can float. as a child, I used to adore folding paper.

Now that you have pointed it out, I also see the origami crane and boat.

This was a heads-up for me (from transit Jupiter) - warning of the need to see this marriage promise through the eyes/persepective of the chart owner and myself, rather than only from my own perspective.

But ... might the current transit of Saturn over your 7th house Uranus-Neptune be (somehow) giving a heads-up to you as well? **


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** 7Ruler in 9th house, perhaps a testament to expansion, foreignness and travel.

"When the ruler of the 7th is in the 9th, partnership is a learning experience. The general orientation is to seek out a partner with whom there are many shared intellectual (if Saturn/Uranus is involved) or spiritual interests (if Neptune is involved). The individual will want to travel with her partner, as the urge for adventure plays a significant role in the urge for relationship." ... (From Rulers of the Horoscope, by Alan Oken.)
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congratulations on your golden wedding

Thank you.

Btw, and off-topic ... Your mentioning of the Crane reminded me of a (male) quiz show contestant who was asked to "name a bird with a long neck" - and answered "Naomi Campbell"


AND ... keep an eye on my post 3 above, as I am now in the process of adding comments to it.

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posted December 23, 2019 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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My 7th and 8th house Cusps are duplicated

Thank you for the heads up, vansio. ... I have now amended my post 3.

However, when considering applying aspects made by the ruler of 7th, would you take Sun-Saturn to be a (32% strength, separating) conjunction or a (71% strength, applying) 44H aspect?

If a separating conjunction, we ignore it ... if an applying 44H*, we consider it.


[* The 44H = "effort" (4H) x "doggedly persistent defiance" (11H) = "actively working on being defiant". ... And, in terms of the marriage promise, that would translate as "being a pain in the ass, when interacting with partners" - ie. 'in situations which require compromise or/and diplomacy, your dogged defiance may be a problem".]

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posted December 28, 2019 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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... if Marriage isn't promised, I wonder what is.

"to reclaim Uranus/Neptune rather than only projecting out"


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I initially wanted to ask the difference between the separating conjunction and the 44th harmonic?

Only applying aspects by the ruler of the 7th are considered. ... The 44H is applying, but the conjunction is separating.

With regard to the difference between the conjunction (H1) and the 44H (44th harmonic aspect) though ... the behavioural traits become more deeply submerged in the subconscious as the harmonic number increases. Hence, chart owners are more likely to see/become aware of (their own) behavioural traits relating to lower-numbered harmonics than those relating to higher numbered harmonics.


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I don't resonate with the word 'defiance' with partners, I'm actually quite accommodating (tolerating), and have had to take some time to think about this standing placement I initially agreed with, because of another resemblance. The energy I was reminded of when you said 'translates to pain in the ass' could be attributed to a natal mars-venus (aries) square, however with Jupiter in Libra, diplomacy and compromise are thematic in behavior and typically considered when I act. My point is I believe I agreed more with the generalized translation than the specific qualification. This is what sticks with me, and have been mulling over since. Perhaps they're two sides of the same coin from a holistic point of view. Because of the strength of the alternative aspect I want to give ground but I’m not sure I relate—could be semantics.

Are you able to confirm (with someone who knows you well) that your self-assessment is correct ... or does he/she see you as being "immovable" on matters/issues that you care deeply about?


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the enemies bit is an odd assessment, perhaps because I am not easily influenced

These kind of "enemies" are people that (in secret/behind-the-scenes) will actively try undermine you, rather than people with whom you will have face-to-face confrontations.


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Ruler of my NN, Jupiter, in my 5th house (Placidius), devoted to... Love and creativity.

+ 45H Saturn, "dutifully devoted to ... Love and creativity."

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These kind of "enemies" are people that (in secret/behind-the-scenes) will actively try undermine you, rather than people with whom you will have face-to-face confrontations.

I've heard this, have been warned of this, a handful of times.. Its one thing and quite understandable for others to be jealous of what another has but an entirely different experience (conundrum) of jealousy or contempt from who you are. Fascinating and slightly creepy.. I would like more information about this.


With harmonic aspects, H1 reveals the chart owners potential and each subsequent primary number relates to a specific behavioural trait ... H2 = seeking feedback from others ... H3 = taking a talent for granted ... H5 = ability to recognise patterns (intellectually/consciously) ... H7 = ability to recognise patterns (intuitively/subconsciously) ... H11 = ability to (defiantly/steadfastly) "stand apart" from others ... and the list goes on. ...... However, no matter how far up that list we look, only the 2H involves contact with others - and this 2H aspect series manifests in a very specific way :-

1) 2H = oppositions ... in which the chart-owner is unaware of a behavioural trait in himself/herself, so projects it onto another person. Thus, the other person becomes a mirror that enables him/her to (eventually) recognise the trait in himself/herself. [At the H2 level, third party observers tend to be able to see the trait in the other but not in the chart-owner.]

2) 4H = squares ... it now becomes apparent to third party observers that the chart-owner has the behavioural trait that he/she is projecting onto others. [But, those third party observers tend to not point this out to the chart-owner - who remains unaware of the trait in himself/herself.]

3) 8H = semi and sesqui squares ... third party observers become irritated by the chart-owners failure to recognise in himself/herself what (to them) is now glaringly obvious. [So, now the third party observers do try to make the chart-owner aware of the issue - but remain tolerant of his/her failure to see it.}

4) 16H = aspects that are multiples of 22deg30mins ... third party observers become annoyed with the chart owners inability to see in himself/herself (what, to them, is) a blatantly obvious behavioural trait that he/she persists in projecting onto others. [And now, those observers decide that pointing this out to the chart owner is never going to work - so they begin conspiring to make life difficult for him/her, in the belief that this will result in the chart owner realising he/she has an issue/problem which needs to be resolved.]

5) 32H = aspects that are multiples of 11deg15mins ... the chart owner now experiences the repercussions of failing to recognise the behavioural trait in himself/herself. [As third party observers become exasperated, and now begin to openly make life difficult for him/her.]

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posted December 29, 2019 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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if Marriage isn't promised, I wonder what is. [..] "to reclaim Uranus/Neptune rather than only projecting out"

Because it's the ruler of my 10th? Or perhaps the generational conjunction? In other words, do I have a career promise?



Noel Tyl's Midheaven Extension Process uses the dispositior chain of the MC ruler to identify the planets whose qualities contribute to 'job satisfaction" in careers/vocations. And the dispositior chain of the ruler of the 6th house (paid work) can reveal the planet qualities of work which is "financially rewarding".

However, when exploring the career promise in a natal chart, Carol Rushman advises astrologers to look for planets in (or connected with) the 10th house. And, in your chart, these are Mercury (in 10th) : Jupiter + Neptune (ruler of Pisces/sign on cusp of 10th) : Saturn (natural ruler of 10th) : Sun (in Pisces, ruled by natal 10th house rulers) : Uranus+Neptune (in Capricorn, ruled by natural 10th house natural ruler) : NN (in Sagittarius, ruled by Jupiter/natal 10th house ruler).

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Originally posted by vansio:
Hakuin: ‘Is that so?’

these third-party harmonics sounds like they’re meant for others to grow from as much as the native, conspiring being a strong word the way you’ve described it seeming justified whether one’s conscious of the superficial context of such a thing.. what is a third party anyways? Judah or the Jewish Authorities?

I’ll tell you this much about the expression of hidden enemies on a personal note; a few of the people who have so-called conspired against me (scapegoated) have also unexpectedly come back much later after the undisclosed fact to offer gratitude recognizing something or seek forgiveness for having contributed. on separate occasions.


Ah. ... Like you, I have been awarded that particular t-shirt many times ... and worn it with a kind of defiant pride.

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Originally posted by vansio:
Hi graham, I’d like to add that my natal Mars is Out of Bounds (declination 26°41'46")

Yes. ... That would add to the independent nature which can make marriage less likely, and undermining by others more likely.

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So ... with regard to the natal marriage promise ... I am leaning increasingly to the view that it may be "granted", rather than promised.

Note how the joke you share with your mother reveals a tendency to expect men to not measure up to your own high standards. ... And how you have now linked the marriage promise with co-dependency, thus rationalising the concept of independent women being less likely to marry (than "needy" women).

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