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Topic: 3 of swords.. Help!
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Murikhi Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 22, 2020 03:13 PM
I did a reading for myself to find out what a guy dislikes about me and I got the 3 of swords. The king of cups was at the bottom of the deck. Afterwards I did a little clarifying and I got the king of cups again and the 8 of cups as what he dislikes about me. Would you say he thinks Of me as somebody who is a heartbreaker? The king of cups might mean he thinks I hold back emotions or perhaps I'm too caring? 8 of cup sounds like somebody who walks away from situations... Does he think that I would be a potential heartbreaker and I'd abandon him? Would love to get someone else's input/insight This was a bit of a confusing pull! Please and thanks in advance. Update: One more clarifying card was pulled for the 3 of swords and I got the 7 of swords. This is very confusing considering the history him and I have and he is actually the one who hurt me in the past. We are not currently in a relationship. 3 of swords and 7 of swords makes me think of infidelity or sneakiness that leads to heartbreak. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 123972 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2020 07:08 PM
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Saille Knowflake Posts: 1209 From: N/A Registered: Apr 2015
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posted February 26, 2020 04:47 PM
Either you bring him back to a time that he cheated on you, he emotionally hurt you, or knows that he could/might/will cheat on you again. You were probably emotionally distance from him if he did cheat, king of cups and you also likely left him..8 of cups...The cards are telling you who this guy is...and he see's you as the type of person he can easily do all these things too..cheat, manipulate, hurt....so I guard your heart. IP: Logged |
SabrinaLove Newflake Posts: 20 From: Hawaii Registered: May 2019
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posted February 26, 2020 05:02 PM
I feel this guy thinks you cannot make up your mind or you are uncertain or you are sending mixed messages. (whether or not you are I think this is what he feels) I dont think he trusts you, he is afraid to. Thank you for your post. IP: Logged |
Murikhi Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 26, 2020 10:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Saille: Either you bring him back to a time that he cheated on you, he emotionally hurt you, or knows that he could/might/will cheat on you again. You were probably emotionally distance from him if he did cheat, king of cups and you also likely left him..8 of cups...The cards are telling you who this guy is...and he see's you as the type of person he can easily do all these things too..cheat, manipulate, hurt....so I guard your heart.
Hi @Saille! Thank you so much for your input! I think I'd agree about perhaps bringing him back to a time where he hurt me. I pulled his feelings for me just today, actually and I got the 3 of swords King of pentacles [him because he has heavy Taurus influence] and 10 of pentacles. I clarified the 3 of swords and got the 5 of pentacles. This indicates to me he is heartbroken somehow and feeling 'left out in the cold' or rejected. I think it might be karma he's feeling because when I asked "why" he feels this what-- wouldn't you know it? The 8 of cups came out. I think he feels abandoned by me and it is most likely due to his past betrayal. I think [thanks to your help] that my deck is trying to tell me that he doesn't like that I am breaking his heart and walked away from my emotions for him. He probably doesn't like that I walked away from his sneaky behavior/stopped dealing with it. It all makes sense now. Ugh the ego. IP: Logged |
Murikhi Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 26, 2020 10:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by SabrinaLove: I feel this guy thinks you cannot make up your mind or you are uncertain or you are sending mixed messages. (whether or not you are I think this is what he feels) I dont think he trusts you, he is afraid to. Thank you for your post.
Hi @SabrinaLove! Thank you for your input too! He could feel that too! 7 of swords figure in the original RW looks very smug/sneaky. Not the first person I'd trust. He hurt me but it's clear his feelings aren't based in logic. He might be thinking that i, by walking away from him, made him feel abandoned or he thinks I broke his heart by getting outta dodge. Maybe therein lies his distrust. Again, not rooted in logic because the heartbreak was reversed. I was the one who was hurt. Badly. IP: Logged |
Saille Knowflake Posts: 1209 From: N/A Registered: Apr 2015
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posted February 27, 2020 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Murikhi: Hi @Saille!Thank you so much for your input! I think I'd agree about perhaps bringing him back to a time where he hurt me. I pulled his feelings for me just today, actually and I got the 3 of swords King of pentacles [him because he has heavy Taurus influence] and 10 of pentacles. I clarified the 3 of swords and got the 5 of pentacles. This indicates to me he is heartbroken somehow and feeling 'left out in the cold' or rejected. I think it might be karma he's feeling because when I asked "why" he feels this what-- wouldn't you know it? The 8 of cups came out. I think he feels abandoned by me and it is most likely due to his past betrayal. I think [thanks to your help] that my deck is trying to tell me that he doesn't like that I am breaking his heart and walked away from my emotions for him. He probably doesn't like that I walked away from his sneaky behavior/stopped dealing with it. It all makes sense now. Ugh the ego.
Girl, walk away! You're doing good! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 123972 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2020 05:32 PM
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