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Topic: Am I Meant To Be Single & Spinster Forever???
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Iris98
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Registered: Jun 2020
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posted June 25, 2020 08:15 PM
  
Hi! I am 22 years old young woman. That's my chart- https://ibb.co/RC0X4GC
I've never been in a relationship, even on a date. Also I am worried that I've never been in love with a boy or a man. I want to, I want family & partner & maybe kids one day, but I am always attracted to women. And they are always much older than me- 30 to 50ies years old, and heterosexual. I am attracted to beautiful and feminine, but powerful and high ego women. They are always some kind of selfish, childish and self orientated, one type of bodies and smiles,very beautiful and always Sun & AC in Libra! I don't know how this happens.. I am very feminine in appearance, but I am feeling like a man inside, I am thinking like a man. I am feeling a need to impress a woman, to take care of a woman, to make love with a woman and etc. But every time is a disappointment and one-sided love or just a flirt. And I got so obsessed, attached, idealizing the woman ( especially the last one I am still deeply in love with her). Also I am perfectionist with high standards, especially about the physical appearance & I am attracted to someone only if looks perfect & charming & sexy to me. I want to fall in love with a man or with a lesbian & my age but I can't and I attract forbidden or unshared love. I am tired and broken and now I've started to think that I will be a spinster & this is the only "happy end" instead of more unshared loves and hard pain & frustration. I want a family but how it could happen? What do you see? Why is this happening?
That's the transits & progressions combined- https://ibb.co/ctHJf9g
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 2032
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 26, 2020 05:16 AM
You are only 22 and you are asking if you will end up a spinster? Come to back us when you are 30. You are still a very young girl.
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 2032
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 26, 2020 05:16 AM
upload your chart again without those asteroids.IP: Logged |
Iris98
Newflake Posts: 11
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Registered: Jun 2020
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posted June 26, 2020 05:40 AM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
upload your chart again without those asteroids.
Thank you- that's the chart - https://ibb.co/Zmq271S
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Kannon McAfee
Moderator Posts: 4485
From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 26, 2020 07:53 PM
There is a mate for everyone who wants one. No one is meant to be without companionship.It's all about timing -- yours -- not anyone else's or any so-called 'normal' progression of social involvement. ------------------
Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
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Lalafortunaea
Knowflake Posts: 1275
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted June 28, 2020 12:30 PM
Honestly first thought I had was that you've gotta have some Virgo and/or Pisces. Though not positively expressed...Your ideas of relationships are hyper unrealistic and unhealthy. Being over concerned with your age, plus describing everything you want from another person, almost like a pre-packaged item will not lead to happiness. The best thing for you is to have an actual relationship, even if the person doesn't at first seem like your ideal. Experience is the best dose of reality. Also, doing other things to work on your own personal growth, like reading and such, maybe even get your hands on as many relationship books as possible to help you rewire your ideas.
Hope this helps and I wish you the best. GL!
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Saille
Knowflake Posts: 1341
From: N/A
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 28, 2020 11:32 PM
Don't be silly...I'll be joining you at this current rate.  IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 129427
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 05, 2020 02:26 PM
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TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 968
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted July 07, 2020 12:24 AM
As 42 yo "spinster" I can confirm it's a totally fabulous lifestyle, 😂. I have about a quarter century left to live it. Then when you die the pain dies with you. With love comes pain. Always. Any kind of love. I don't think it's all that cracked up to be honest.. Enjoy your life, either way single or not most people will complain about their situation. Asked any divorced person or people stuck in a marriage well past their used by date. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 129427
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 26, 2020 03:06 PM
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