posted July 11, 2020 07:57 PM            

Next I asked what is the situation as of now and this are the cards I drew:
http://imgur.com/e0jQfqC

What are your thoughts? How is the situation and how does he feel about me?

Not sure if important but every other card aside from my card knight of pentacles was reversed.

posted July 12, 2020 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Seeking for insights. I confessed my feelings to a guy over text messages and I asked tarot if I will received a favourable response. I drew emperor.

Next I asked what is the situation as of now and this are the cards I drew:
http://imgur.com/e0jQfqC

What are your thoughts? How is the situation and how does he feel about me?

Not sure if important but every other card aside from my card knight of pentacles was reversed.

I was drawing based on this spread: http://jilliancwilde.com/pages/relationship

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posted July 12, 2020 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
I'm reading now that the cards where reversed.
Why did you put them upright?
I'll came back to this eventually.
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Ok I pulled some cards as well and they are similar; the Ace of Wands came out reversed as well and in the last position as outcome there is The Sun reversed. So in brief, you are not seeing the situation clearly now (King of Sowrds reversed, which confirms the confusion of the Moon), the other person seems stuck and can be a little anxious (9 of wands reversed). I would say don't take further action and if the standstill remains, try to move on onto something more satisfactory.

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He has responded nicely that he is thinking and I have decided not to press on.

I am so amazed by tarot though!? That we managed to pull the same reverse cards.

posted July 12, 2020 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
With 5 of Pentacles as outcome doesn't look promising; there's clearly an unbalance and you're going to be left out in the cold. The situation is confused as it is now; you are more consistent with your feelings while he seems more in a phase of learning and exploration; you came forward with a message and a confession of feelings (the knight of cups) but maybe he isn't ready to take this offer; the Knight of Cups in this position (obstacle) suggest that you find yourself in this situation because you couldn't control your emotions. With the Ace of Wands as advice it means someone here is called to action and since you've already made your move (next time do it in person as by message you're easily left hanging) now it would be time for the other person to act accordingly. Action is needed; and you have to command respect for yourself.

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You are so right I am actually freaked out. "Being in this situation because I couldn't control my emotions" and him being in a "phrase of learning and exploration"

I placed them upright because I read online that its easier to read that way and I didn't want to trouble people on the forum too much with my petty problems >.<

This has been going on for about 8 months and I am ready to move forward. Hence I confessed properly for the last time and am trying to use tarot to seek any clarity his unwilling to provide to the situation (as of now) so I can proceed properly.

If it is not too much of a bother, could you also give me some insights as to why he is anxious/not ready to take up the offer and how he really feels about me?

posted July 12, 2020 11:39 AM            

Yes some people don't read reversals you can read them upright and get the message but I prefer to state "to the deck" while I shuffle that I'm not going to read reversals... Sometimes the amazing thing is that you put all the cards upright but there's one in the whole deck that decided to come out reversed anyway for whatever reason XD XD and I leave that.

posted July 12, 2020 02:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
No problem I'll pull some cards for you between today and tomorrow

Yes some people don't read reversals you can read them upright and get the message but I prefer to state "to the deck" while I shuffle that I'm not going to read reversals... Sometimes the amazing thing is that you put all the cards upright but there's one in the whole deck that decided to come out reversed anyway for whatever reason XD XD and I leave that.

I'll come back with your reading

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Thank you so much! If possible I would also like to know if he will ever give me a response to my confession.

You are such a nice person 😭

posted July 12, 2020 04:50 PM            

These are the cards: http://imgur.com/422epOg
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Firstly for <now> (what he thinks of the current situation) cards, the first card drawn was two of cups. I believe he thinks of the current situation as a soul/fated union, that we are meant to be.
With clarifier card: "The World", I believe it means he views me as everything he could ever wish for.
(Details: This is actually my 2nd time trying to push my feelings across to him. The first time I tried, he gave me some excuses and I disappeared for 2 months afterwards. I came back because I heard his going through some life stresses so I wanted to be here for him. Our relationship has improved a lot, especially in terms of communication. He thanked me many times for being his "light" and also told me "I am more than enough." <- because I told him I thought he turned me down the first time because he felt I didn't measure up)

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Next, as for <what he thinks> of me , the first card drawn was 8 of swords. I have heard from him several times that I am a "cause for worry" and that he is "protective" of me and the last thing he wants is to hurt me. I believe he views me as an inexperienced child he needs to protect.
The clarifier cards: 9 of wands I believe to also coincide with 8 of swords, that he views me as "vulnerable" and require even more protection. Especially as I have opened up to him more about my past recently. On the other hand, it may also speak of his "doubts" and "fears" of getting hurt by me which may be causing his hesitations in committing to me properly. I would attribute that to him only ever having one relationship despite being 29 and that relationship starting/ending around the period when his mother died.
But I view the third clarifier card: The Star, as he is hopeful I can heal him? As his "light" (He actually saved my name in his phone with two stars emoji! Coincidence?✨✨ ). I believe this to coincide with "The World" card.

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(I actually have troubles with interpreting here) Next, as for <what he feels about me>, the first card: 3 of Swords, I interpret this as him being fearful of getting hurt by me, or thinking of me as a "potential" heartbreak. I link this to 9 of wands of wanting to be more "defensive" and have his guard up. And probably The Star- because I am a lot more "attractive" than he is, hence more "options" available (and maybe younger too. I am 23).
The clarifier card, 5 of pentagons although seems to be a bad card, however I interpret it as him seeing me as someone who'd be there for him through the thick and thin, as his "light". As I have proven, by coming back during his time of need and sticking around until things have gotten much better.
The third clarifier card: Queen of Cups, a website's interpretation, "this card might point at the influence of one partner’s past on the current relationship. There might be undealt with sadness, either in you or your partner, that is slowly but surely influencing, maybe even sabotaging your bond. If you can help one another walk through this maze of grief, your relationship will deepen and it will last. It’s a difficult feeling to deal with, but you can also see it as an “opportunity” to be more open and vulnerable with each other". Additionally, I believe it also speaks of him wanting to "nurture" and possibly "spoil" me but also, me being "full of love" for him have possibly given him some hope.

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And finally 😬 for the <outcome>, the first card: 8 of Cups, I believe he has decided to walk away from his past, towards the clarifier card: 10 of Cups, that is happiness, fulfilment, commitment, basically a happy ending, with me as the first card drawn: 2 of Cups suggested.

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(Is this too positive of an interpretation? I hope I am not being delusional but I like how the first card drawn and the final card drawn seems to suggest the same thing though. First card being a "thought" and the last card being "working towards that")

posted July 13, 2020 06:24 AM            

So, for the second time I got for "His feelings for you" the Page of Pentacles, clarified by the Emperor; with the page he’s taking time to consider what he wants, the figure is holding a pentacle in his hands and he’s looking at it with curiosity and attention, so if the pentacle it's you -let’s say- or what he feels for you he is taking time to know more about it. Pentacles are very slow so this is not fast as a process.

The Emperor re-states the same, he takes things in moderation, in this case he wants also to “grow in power” which means if he has been through some difficulties lately or has to face his fears regarding relationships (remember the 9 of wands and now I’m thinking also about what you said about his difficulties), basically he wants to be that powerful man and feel stable before dealing with another rel.

How he sees you: 6 of Cups. This can mean that he sees you as kind and protective – especially if you’ve tried to be there for him as you said. It is also a soulmate card for me so this could resonate with your reading - but be cautious!-, considering also that this card is followed by a 4 of wands. I pulled the 4 of wands card to answer to “what he doesn’t say to you”; he thinks you’re relationship material or someone looking for a stable rel and he could want the same too; you’re a sort of steady presence for him and clarified by the 3 of Cups it could mean that he sees you as a good company for him, someone that cheers him up or brings him happiness. In both cards people are celebrating so you could have very happy times together.

The "potential" of this rel: The Chariot. Someone is the driving force in this rel, and I guess from what you say that is you; your emotions are powerful (this is Cancer) but the card while indicating progress in this rel also warns about emotions having to be kept on track. It doesn’t assure how things will go. I would have preferred to see a 2 in this position.

As "final outcome" for how things are now is another major Arcana: The Star. I see this as hope and possibility; these are powerful cards but I would have preferred something more concrete to come out. I pulled an advice for you from another deck and the Chariot came out again, followed by 7 of cups. I see you moving towards these new possibilities and actually I think that this is an echo of what you pulled for yourself, 8 of cups and 10 of cups; this gives me the impression that you may decide to leave this situation behind and find what you wish for elsewhere. Or, that there's still a long road ahead before reaching that wonderful final where everyone is happy with a house and a family and rainbows; 8 of cups also indicates growth to be done personally and emotionally before being ready for that 10.
Same with Chariot and Star there's a lot of work to be put to fulfill your wishes.

You don’t have necessarily to know from the cards what he wants to say, ask him directly if he sees the 2 of you going somewhere or being something more so that you can know NOW if there’s a possibility for commitment with this man or not. If not, other possibilities for happiness are out there for you. The problem when we confess our feelings to someone is that we do it with the expectation of being reciprocated immediately or that the other person will open up just because we did. But it’s not how things work. Reciprocity is the key; if you don’t get an answer, this too is an answer.

By the way, stop doing readings now and see the situation for what it is. The Moon came out again along with the clarifiers, I think you’re still “in the fog”. Take some distance, clarity will come.

posted July 13, 2020 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
It is interesting because some cards keep reappearing but at a certain point remember that you have to stop doing readings and accept what the cards are telling you and possibly take some time to reflect on them, and then see how the real situation develops without pulling any cards.

So, for the second time I got for "His feelings for you" the Page of Pentacles, clarified by the Emperor; with the page he’s taking time to consider what he wants, the figure is holding a pentacle in his hands and he’s looking at it with curiosity and attention, so if the pentacle it's you -let’s say- or what he feels for you he is taking time to know more about it. Pentacles are very slow so this is not fast as a process.

The Emperor re-states the same, he takes things in moderation, in this case he wants also to “grow in power” which means if he has been through some difficulties lately or has to face his fears regarding relationships (remember the 9 of wands and now I’m thinking also about what you said about his difficulties), basically he wants to be that powerful man and feel stable before dealing with another rel.

How he sees you: 6 of Cups. This can mean that he sees you as kind and protective – especially if you’ve tried to be there for him as you said. It is also a soulmate card for me so this could resonate with your reading - but be cautious!-, considering also that this card is followed by a 4 of wands. I pulled the 4 of wands card to answer to “what he doesn’t say to you”; he thinks you’re relationship material or someone looking for a stable rel and he could want the same too; you’re a sort of steady presence for him and clarified by the 3 of Cups it could mean that he sees you as a good company for him, someone that cheers him up or brings him happiness. In both cards people are celebrating so you could have very happy times together.

The "potential" of this rel: The Chariot. Someone is the driving force in this rel, and I guess from what you say that is you; your emotions are powerful (this is Cancer) but the card while indicating progress in this rel also warns about emotions having to be kept on track. It doesn’t assure how things will go. I would have preferred to see a 2 in this position.

As "final outcome" for how things are now is another major Arcana: The Star. I see this as hope and possibility; these are powerful cards but I would have preferred something more concrete to come out. I pulled an advice for you from another deck and the Chariot came out again, followed by 7 of cups. I see you moving towards these new possibilities and actually I think that this is an echo of what you pulled for yourself, 8 of cups and 10 of cups; this gives me the impression that you may decide to leave this situation behind and find what you wish for elsewhere. Or, that there's still a long road ahead before reaching that wonderful final where everyone is happy with a house and a family and rainbows; 8 of cups also indicates growth to be done personally and emotionally before being ready for that 10.
Same with Chariot and Star there's a lot of work to be put to fulfill your wishes.

You don’t have necessarily to know from the cards what he wants to say, ask him directly if he sees the 2 of you going somewhere or being something more so that you can know NOW if there’s a possibility for commitment with this man or not. If not, other possibilities for happiness are out there for you. The problem when we confess our feelings to someone is that we do it with the expectation of being reciprocated immediately or that the other person will open up just because we did. But it’s not how things work. Reciprocity is the key; if you don’t get an answer, this too is an answer.

By the way, stop doing readings now and see the situation for what it is. The Moon came out again along with the clarifiers, I think you’re still “in the fog”. Take some distance, clarity will come.

Hope it helps :>:>

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Thank you so much for taking the time to do a reading for me! Is it significant if the same cards appear over and over again?
I feel like I am asking the cards too much! The fool keeps appearing (being the last card on the deck, so I notice it when putting the deck back in, or dropping out when I'm shuffling) almost like I'm getting scolded to "shut up" LOL (although the fool is my favourite card. Even long before I knew I was a Uranian 😂

I don't really know how to broach the subject again with him, I guess I will just wait until the end of this week and if nothing happens, to take that as an answer. (Altho there is a possibility I might be meeting him tonight and I am kind of terrified)

ANYWAYS! I am actually really interested in Tarot now.

posted July 14, 2020 06:39 PM            

If you'd like to practice, sure, I can ask you a simple question to give you some immediate feedback so you can practice

What deck do you use?

YES I think especially when you keep asking the same questions and the deck is very patient with you you'll keep pulling the same cards XD I have less patient decks that make me notice immediately when I'm kinda out of balance emotionally or too involved XD

posted July 14, 2020 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:

(Altho there is a possibility I might be meeting him tonight and I am kind of terrified)

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posted July 14, 2020 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:

If you'd like to practice, sure, I can ask you a simple question to give you some immediate feedback so you can practice

What deck do you use?

YES I think especially when you keep asking the same questions and the deck is very patient with you you'll keep pulling the same cards XD I have less patient decks that make me notice immediately when I'm kinda out of balance emotionally or too involved XD

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Yes please (practice question)! ❤️

Uhm! I'm using Smith Waite Tarot (Centennial Edition)
>.< Does it matter? I basically just chose whatever that resembled the tarot cards I see everywhere/online the most (to make sure I'm getting the right ones), inexpensive and with good reviews (something about the size and grip?) LOL.

Now I feel kind of bad? 🤣 What decks do you use?

posted July 14, 2020 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Please don't forget to give updates!

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Thank you!! It makes me so happy that you're genuinely interested in my affairs? It's like we are actual friends! Haha

I ended up not meeting him yesterday because I fell asleep right after classes >.<

posted July 15, 2020 01:11 PM            

I went to my tarot deck to ask if I will receive a response I want/is he truly done thinking things through and while I was shuffling, it felt like my deck was telling me "Enough. Don't bother. Take this card"
I drew out 5 of wands reversed. I googled the meaning and it seems to suggests an end to conflicts, resolution? What do you think?

Strangely, as I was putting my deck back, I realised I absentmindedly took my deck out from the other end, meaning a large majority if not all of the cards are reversed. Perhaps that was where I got the "don't bother" vibe from LOL.

posted July 16, 2020 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
I'm reading now that the cards where reversed.
Why did you put them upright?
I'll came back to this eventually.
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Ok I pulled some cards as well and they are similar; the Ace of Wands came out reversed as well and in the last position as outcome there is The Sun reversed. So in brief, you are not seeing the situation clearly now (King of Sowrds reversed, which confirms the confusion of the Moon), the other person seems stuck and can be a little anxious (9 of wands reversed). I would say don't take further action and if the standstill remains, try to move on onto something more satisfactory.

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Hello! I am quoting this because I pulled some new cards today (I know I should stop pulling cards and give it some time) because it felt like there were some good vibes in my conversations with him and outcome card was The Sun upright!

Present Situation (His POV): Hanged Man, Clarifier: 6 of Swords
How he thinks of me: Queen of Wands
How he feels about me: 8 of Wands
Outcome (next wed): The Sun

I pulled an extra card for his intentions (actions): Knight of Swords

posted July 19, 2020 02:40 PM            

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The weirdest thing was despite how terrible the state of my mind was, I kept drawing the same few tarot cards for him and they were all positive (how he feels, what he wants)... It was only when I asked "should I push further?" the cards kept coming out neutral.

The oddest thing was my advice card. I drew 8 of swords. I put it back, reshuffled, cut the deck, picked a random card somewhere in the middle and it was 8 of swords again! (what are the chances!?) so I'm just contemplating what this advice means right now.
Action or inaction? Funnily, the first spread I did for him regarding what he thought of me, 8 of swords came out, clarified by 9 of wands and then by the star. I wonder if it's linked.

posted July 19, 2020 02:58 PM            

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Update: I didn't have a very good day today because I was looking forward to some plans with friends the whole week but it ended up getting cancelled. This sounds lame but basically for me to take a day off (from noon to night), that's approximately a 10 hours workload so I have been studying/finishing up school work (two degrees is so tough ) an extra 2/3 hours each day leading to today hence I was really disappointed. Anyhow because I was feeling mentally frustrated, I went to ask him if he was done thinking. He said not yet and I said I thought he told me he was done thinking and he said he meant he was done thinking of the date lol?? So the conclusion was, I told him I felt tricked and I will reconsider going on our date on Wednesday to which he said alright.

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Darling Aqua... I read your story..and I don't have much to say, I don't know anything about tarot, cards or even that much about astrology...but I would like to say one thing.. YOU are way too wonderful to wait around on any man to make a decision whether he wants to be with you or not. I know you are familiar with my recent story also, and I do know that we never know the full grasp of things unless we are in that situation and that we should always listen to our gut and do what is best for us... You sent some encouraging words my way and hopefully I do the same for you.

We have to love and appreciate ourselves so much more. Maybe this is just my mindset, would not want to offend you in any way, I know we are all different, and so are our experiences.. I wish you nothing but happiness whether it is with him or with someone else <3

posted July 19, 2020 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Darling Aqua... I read your story..and I don't have much to say, I don't know anything about tarot, cards or even that much about astrology...but I would like to say one thing.. YOU are way too wonderful to wait around on any man to make a decision whether he wants to be with you or not. I know you are familiar with my recent story also, and I do know that we never know the full grasp of things unless we are in that situation and that we should always listen to our gut and do what is best for us... You sent some encouraging words my way and hopefully I do the same for you.

We have to love and appreciate ourselves so much more. Maybe this is just my mindset, would not want to offend you in any way, I know we are all different, and so are our experiences.. I wish you nothing but happiness whether it is with him or with someone else <3

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Awww! You are so sweet <3 Why would that offend me? 😚😚

You are wonderful too and it hurts me to see you go through such things with that man and to obsess over it (the way I do) 😔

posted July 19, 2020 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Awww! You are so sweet <3 Why would that offend me? 😚😚

You are wonderful too and it hurts me to see you go through such things with that man and to obsess over it (the way I do) 😔

I'm trying to stop, but it is so hard? I feel like my mental faculties have gotten corrupted.

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Yes, I have definitely been obsessing over it, but I can tell you I have been feeling much better over the last few days. There is so much beauty in this world (even in this time of pandemic lol) to enjoy and look forward to, than to obsess over one person who we have to struggle so much about by reading the signs, signals, this that.. some people would tell me..If you have to wonder so much, that probably ain't it.. and for the most part it's true..

That being said..I also firmly believe that this is our process we have to go through. It is not and it won't be done for us just because our friends, family or some wonderful people on this forum tell us that we should move on. It will be done when we are truly ready to do so.

So my dear, just like I am going through my process, I know you have to go through yours too. And whenever your heart feels like being done with that man, that is when it will be the end for you. Or.. who knows what else might happen, I sure don't.. Life is unpredictable and maybe in a month he confesses his love for you (that's the hopeless romantic in me talking )if so, Im sure you will make the right decision for yourself then also.

Let's try to make ourselves happy today and every day and focus on those who love us and are showing us that with their actions, not just with words..everything else will fall into place sooner or later <3

posted July 19, 2020 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Yes, I have definitely been obsessing over it, but I can tell you I have been feeling much better over the last few days. There is so much beauty in this world (even in this time of pandemic lol) to enjoy and look forward to, than to obsess over one person who we have to struggle so much about by reading the signs, signals, this that.. some people would tell me..If you have to wonder so much, that probably ain't it.. and for the most part it's true..

That being said..I also firmly believe that this is our process we have to go through. It is not and it won't be done for us just because our friends, family or some wonderful people on this forum tell us that we should move on. It will be done when we are truly ready to do so.

So my dear, just like I am going through my process, I know you have to go through yours too. And whenever your heart feels like being done with that man, that is when it will be the end for you. Or.. who knows what else might happen, I sure don't.. Life is unpredictable and maybe in a month he confesses his love for you (that's the hopeless romantic in me talking )if so, Im sure you will make the right decision for yourself then also.

Let's try to make ourselves happy today and every day and focus on those who love us and are showing us that with their actions, not just with words..everything else will fall into place sooner or later <3

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You are so sweet ❤️

But my situation is a little bit more complicated because I do want him as a friend. In all honesty, after cutting him off, the only reason why I went back after 2 months was because I heard he was going through a tough time and I wanted to be there for him, as a friend. But he continues to interact with me in a 'loving' or relationship like manner including getting possessive so I am just at a standstill. (Also because he is possessive, I worry about being unable to date others if I do move on in the future without risking our friendship so I am even more stuck.)

I asked him to tell me what he wants but he continues to 'think about it'. He is very important to me and talking to him enlightens me greatly. I can sense he will be a great help to me when I'm trying to carve out a future for myself e.g advices - university, scholarships, work or even day to day life, so I really do want to keep him around.