posted July 15, 2020 05:24 PM            

My moon is in scorpio so I can be intense but I don't think that is entirely to blame. I have tried to understand my chart reading astrology books and resources for many years, pouring over computer-generated reports for each of my planets, but I think what I am missing is a deeper understanding of how my placements and transits uniquely work together.

Life isn't all bad, but I feel romantically cursed. This also extends to friendships but not as extensively or detrimentally. Is there something in my chart that indicates this and how I might be able to work with it to grow?

Also curious about all of my placements being lumped together on the bottom. Am I just a weirdo? What does this mean?

posted July 28, 2020 06:13 PM            

I am also struggling in love relationships, it is hard to find balance and I find myself looking for answers constantly. In my head mostly.

I opened a thread also, but have yet to hear from anyone.

I can't help much, because I don't know how to read charts. I can only empathize with you and tell you, you're not alone, there is more of us.

posted July 29, 2020 12:33 AM            

Your mars in cancer in the 12th..the 12th represents the unconscious, self undoing and Mars there can be hidden anger. That being said, this planet squares your natal Pluto in 3rd. This aspect can make you very ambitious and work can often take precedence over everything else and you may not even realize this and could be sabotaging your chances of meeting compatible ones. Saturn on the 7th does delay things as Marie said, but another aspect you have is mercury square Uranus, which may not go over well with others... it's good to be intelligent, just be careful how you come across to others. Many planets in houses 1 thru 6 can give you more of a subjective approach to life. With Pluto transiting your 7th house right now you will go through a transformation of sorts in how you look at relationships...Saturn also transiting there can put a damper on things and make you worry.. The pluto transit will also help you to learn about what love really means to you and what you want in a partner. Your sun/venus conjunction can make you charming, but the Virgo influence there can make you fussy/picky in what you would like in a partner.. maybe evaluate that to see if your standards are too high, and whether someone can really live up to what you are looking for. Your chart looks like someone who is able to provide for themselves financially. Sometimes we can subconsciously send signals to others saying that we can take care of ourselves..guys often want to be seen as a provider and may not think you need them.